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It can be really tricky to know when to step in and help your kid when they're having anxiety. Unfortunately, this is a really common situation: 10 percent of kids have diagnosable levels of anxiety.  So on this episode of Parenting Behavior with Dr. Andy Kahn, we're going to learn three key things: What is anxiety? How can you help them manage it? When should you step in as a parent? Related reso...

Parenting is tough enough. But when differences in processing or development come into play, it can become even more complex. As you begin making parenting decisions, it’s common to experience self-doubt, guilt, and confusion. These feelings are understandable — and there are ways to manage them. In this episode of Parenting Behavior , Dr. Andy Kahn explores parenting self-doubt and offers guidanc...

When a child lies, it can be really tricky for parents. Even overwhelming at times. What’s the difference between a white lie and a serious one? How do I handle it if my kid keeps lying over and over? Can I ever lie to my child?  On this episode of Parenting Behavior , host Dr. Andy Kahn will share information on why your child lies, what those lies are telling you, and how to help your child lear...

Joining a club, sports team, or other extracurricular activity can be a rite of passage for kids. It’s a great way to make new friends, practice life skills, and learn about themselves.  With this, we also expect — or at least hope — our neurodivergent kids will succeed in those environments just like their neurotypical peers. But there’s no guarantee that adult leaders, like coaches, understand l...

 If your child is on medication for ADHD, you may have heard of a medication vacation or a drug holiday. In short, it means taking a break from their usual medication — for a few days, weeks, or even months. It sounds simple enough, but deciding whether it’s right for your child is a different story. On this episode of Parenting Behavior , host Dr. Andy Kahn talks with Dr. Liz Harstad, a pediatric...

 In general, it’s an advantage when kids have two parents caring for them. But it gets challenging when those parents have a strained relationship.  Things can get really tricky when your child is neurodivergent. Many questions come up: Should we get a special education evaluation for our child? Should they be on medication? Should our child have counseling?  Not only are these difficult questions...

When you ask a child what they want to be when they grow up, you’ll hear all sorts of creative answers. Some kids have surprisingly practical goals—others, not so much. Neurodivergent kids are particularly interesting because they're creative and think about all kinds of outside-the-box things.  On this episode of Parenting Behavior with Dr. Andy Kahn , you'll learn about how to help kids create a...

Is your child having difficulties with reading? Do they struggle to recognize letters, understand what they read, or sound out words on a page? In this episode of Parenting Behavior , host Dr. Andy Kahn explores how to identify dyslexia in kids. Tune in to learn the common signs of dyslexia and what steps to take if you think your child may have this learning difference. Related resources What is...

Even if summer seems far in the future, it’s probably not too early to begin planning for what your child will do during their break from school.  Once you find a program that looks interesting, then comes the rest of the work. Is it a good fit for my child? How am I going to pay for it?  On this episode of Parenting Behavior , host Dr. Andy Kahn talks about the best time to start planning for sum...

It’s common for adults to take a supplement like melatonin to help when they’re having trouble falling asleep, or just need a really good night of rest.  Melatonin has been shown in numerous studies to help people fall asleep, and in some cases, improve the quality of their sleep. Plus, it’s sold over the counter at many kinds of stores.  But when it comes to kids, some questions come up. On this...

Siblings don’t always get along. Fights, disagreements, jealousy — it’s a common thing. These clashes can get even more complicated when one or more of your kids is neurodivergent.  On this episode of Parenting Behavior, host Dr. Andy Kahn will share tips for managing sibling conflict to benefit both you and your kids. Related resources 7 ways to help your kids build a strong relationship How to t...

Please note: Dr. Andy Kahn is a licensed psychologist and does not prescribe medication. This episode is for informational purposes only. For further questions about ADHD medications, please consult your medical provider.  Once your child has been prescribed ADHD medication, that’s not the end of the journey.  You might be wondering: What are the possible side effects? And what if we need to chang...

Please note: Dr. Andy Kahn is a licensed psychologist and does not prescribe medication. This episode is for informational purposes only. For further questions about ADHD medications, please consult your medical provider.  Are you considering medication for your child with ADHD but need more information? In this episode of Parenting Behavior , host Dr. Andy Kahn gives an overview of ADHD medicatio...

This week on Parenting Behavior ,  we’re sharing an episode of another great Understood.org podcast, In It , where Dr. Andy Kahn is a regular guest. The show is all about raising kids who learn and think differently. On this episode, Andy joins the In It  hosts to talk about a big parenting debate: Bribes vs. rewards.   You probably know how it goes: Your child is refusing to do something that, to...

There’s nothing quite as heartbreaking as the question, “Is my child lonely?” It’s common for parents to worry if a child is having challenges connecting, or if their social skills seem like they're not aligned with their peers. But it’s also important to consider our perceptions as parents. Are the concerns legit, or do we just need to look differently at our child?  On this episode of Parenting...

Sometimes, our kids just won’t try anything new. This can be something small, like not wanting to try a new food. But it can also be a bigger issue, like your child refusing to go to a new after-school activity they’ve joined.  On this episode of Parenting Behavior , host Dr. Andy Kahn will talk about how to get your child to engage in new activities, especially those that make them feel afraid or...

Assistive technology can be a bit of a buzzword in parenting and educational circles. It’s not always well-defined or well-understood.  But assistive technology can be helpful for people with ADHD. Options range from virtual calendars and voice recording apps to things that don’t even seem like “technology” at all.  Related resources 5 low-cost ways to create a sensory-friendly chair 6 types of fi...

For parents, the happiest time of the year can also be the most stressful.  Busy parties. Strange foods served to picky eaters. The dread of worrying how your child will respond if they don’t like the sweater grandma gave them.  On this episode of Parenting Behavior, host Dr. Andy Kahn and guest Dr. Karen Wilson share five key tips to prepare your family for the holiday season.  Karen is a clinica...

The concept of self-esteem can seem abstract.   And when it comes to improving your child’s self-esteem, it can be an uphill battle for parents.   But host Dr. Andy Kahn has some practical strategies for boosting your child’s self-esteem that he’ll share on this episode of “Parenting Behavior.” Related resources The importance of positive self-esteem for kids ADHD and self-esteem: What to say to y...

Bullying can be one of the most difficult parts of being a kid and being a parent.  And for neurodivergent kids with learning and thinking differences like ADHD and dyslexia, it can be an additional challenge. On this episode of Parenting Behavior, host Dr. Andy Kahn talks about handling those challenges — whether your child is being bullied, or is engaging in bullying behavior themselves. Related...

Your child might come home from school and say some troubling things about their teacher. “My teacher hates me. I can’t do anything right!” “I’m so messy, and she tells me that I just can’t get my space cleaned up.” If you’re hearing things like this, it’s usually a sign that there’s some challenge between your child and their teacher. These can be difficult issues to navigate, but there are strat...

Parent-teacher conferences can seem like high-pressure events.  There are only 10 or 15 minutes, at most, for you and the teacher to discuss many important things. Plus you want to keep things positive and the teacher engaged. It’s a lot to consider. On this episode of Parenting Behavior, host Dr. Andy Kahn will talk about some things you can do to make the conference as successful as possible.  R...

Learning challenges in kids can be really tricky to spot. It can be hard to tell whether your child can’t do something, or if they just won’t. And sometimes it’s not clear what’s an in-the-moment challenge and what’s a pattern.  On this episode of Parenting Behavior , host Dr. Andy Kahn will explain how to spot what might be a learning difference in your child.  We’d love to hear from you. You can...

Let’s face it. Embarrassment is a big part of growing up. And it can impact kids in many ways. They may worry that trying a new outfit will embarrass them in front of their peers, or feel ashamed when a classmate comments on their appearance. Embarrassment and the emotions that come with it can be tough to navigate, for both kids and parents. On this episode of Parenting Behavior, host Dr. Andy Ka...

One of the most frustrating parts of parenting is when your child won’t listen to you. It can be difficult to tell the difference between when your child is ignoring you and when they can’t pay attention to you. If reading this is already stressing you out, take a deep breath — this episode is here to help.  On this episode of Parenting Behavior, Dr. Andy Kahn will explain the many possible reason...