ValidThoughts Podcast

Happy Easter everyone! My conversation with Kiyani was super refreshing. She reminded me of my little dreams that I had locked up at the back of my head. Kiyani is such a go getter and continues to create wherever she sees a gap. I really enjoy that about her. I hope you enjoy the conversation and also check out her community Tech Republic , where talents in the tech eco system come together regul...

On today’s episode, I’m in conversation with my friend Ferlin. We recently discovered that we both lived in India. Not at the same time, but close enough to share certain experiences. That connection made us ease into this conversation even more. What I appreciate about Ferlin is his intentionality. He works at a bank. He sings. But more importantly, he has built a system for himself. A structure...

Hello everyone, I am struggling giving this podcast a title so if you come up with a better one that me then let me know please. I know I'm sneaking up on you all and quietly releasing an episode but possibly disappearing again after but please just manage this for now. Like all the episodes on this podcast I really had a good time speaking to Dayo about studying Geology, living in Germany and...

Today on the pod, I’m talking to Yawo. I think we first started hanging out because our mutual friends were out of town, and we were both pretty new to Abidjan. Plus, we’d both lived in Germany so there was an easy connection there, too. Honestly, I’m so grateful this podcast gives me a chance to reconnect with the people around me, again and again. I hope you enjoy listening to Yawo geek out whil...

Hello lovelies, I´m so excited to bring you guys Keren. Keren describes herself as an aesthete and I think that is so cool. You will have to listen to the episode to understand it fully :) As always, I love my guests and I learn so much from our conversations. I learn a lot about them but I also learn new things about my environment and new areas of life. Enjoy the conversation ;)

I haven’t shared much about my life in India on the podcast, so I’m changing that now. I’m excited to introduce you to two incredible people in Delhi who are shaping the scene and representing the Black community here: Fatou and Chanda. They’re building communities, organizing parties and changing the narrative about what people expect from Black people in the subcontinent India. I'm so glad I...

I first met Ayomidotun in 2016, shortly after I moved to Nigeria. Not long after, I met Oyinda—back when they had just started dating—and it’s been such a joy watching their journey unfold. I had the best time celebrating them at their wedding, and now, every time I’m in town, I love stopping by to see the triplets. I’ve been wanting to hear them share their story—especially from Oyinda’s perspect...

Hello my people, I hope you’re all doing well. I finally got my friend Faruq on the pod today — and I’ve been wanting to make this happen for a while! I’m genuinely fascinated by the Ivorian-Yoruba community he comes from, and the fact that he’s also a filmmaker? Such a great combo, if you ask me. We talk about what it’s like growing up in Côte d'Ivoire with Yoruba roots—and how those two cult...

Hello everyone! I’m back with Demilade on the pod today. There wasn’t any agenda for this episode but I truly enjoyed it. I truly love how having a podcast brings me closer to my friends. On this episode, we talk about how I need to stop being a party pooper, safe spaces, the idea of home and building some sort of a legacy. I don’t know if anyone reads the description but anyone hopefully enjoys i...

Hey ValidThoughts listeners, I hope you're doing well. Work has been quite busy, but I'm grateful that the podcast always reminds me to take a breather. We're back with a shorter episode this week, and I hope it offers you a little pause too. Now, onto my guest – the first time I came across Mariette’s work was through La Nich. Then I finally met the artist behind the page, and I'v...

Sabine and I first met through our mutual friend, Phidelia. A big shoutout to Phidelia for introducing me to some really cool people! 😊 I’m not sure if it was our first or second meeting, but I remember Sabine bringing Eddie along, and from the start, I could tell what a cool and intentional couple they are. So, when I began planning for the new season of this podcast, having them on the pod was...

From the vibrant streets of Abidjan to the rich and diverse food culture of the U.S., Yasmine’s journey is a beautiful blend of adventure, identity, and passion. In this episode, we dive into her story—growing up in Côte d’Ivoire, navigating life in a new country, and how her love for food inspired Afrofoodie , a platform celebrating African cuisine and culture. Yasmine and I talk about comfort fo...

I met Kevine and Demilade at a trail run, and somehow, that turned into weekly meetups and checking in on each other. In this episode of ValidThoughts Podcast, we talk about growing up, what we love about Babi, and where life is taking us right now. It’s a long one, but just like our real-life conversations, it’s filled with laughter, random tangents, and those small moments that make friendships...

It’s Valentine’s Day, and what better way to celebrate than with good friends, great conversation, and a little wine? 🍷 In this Galentine episode, I am joined by Apie, Elise and Sabine — we are four women with different stories but a shared love for real talk. From relationships and breakups to marriage and everything in between, we’re diving into it all with honesty and a lot of laughs. So wheth...

It’s been a while, but ValidThoughts is finally returning with a fresh season! In this intro episode, I’m reflecting on what’s happened since the last episode and giving you a sneak peek of what’s to come. I’m excited to introduce new guests, share updates about my life in Abidjan, and give you a glimpse of what I have planned for this year. Whether you’ve been here since the start or are just tun...

On today's episode of ValidThoughts, I finally share my second recording with Nneka that I promised to release ages ago. We talk about growing up in Ebonyi State and how meeting people from other parts of Nigeria contributed to her wanting to experience the world on her own terms.  I know it´s been a hot minute I´ve been gone. I also can´t promise to be back regularly anytime soon. Life has t...

Today's episode is unique because it's the first time someone reached out to us at ValidThoughts after listening to one of our episodes. We speak about dating as a "plus-size woman" in Nigeria. Kathy shares how she navigates her everyday life and how her sexual experiences are highly influenced by society's pressure on women. I am very thankful to Kathy for sharing her unique experience with us.&n...

On today's episode of ValidThoughts, Nneka and I speak about everything Korea, Yoga and exploring different cultures. Nneka and I had so much fun recording this episode that we recorded another episode for you, which you will get to hear in a few weeks. I am such a huge fan of Nneka and I am so glad to have her in my corner. You can find Nneka on Instagram   Follow us Instagram: @validthought...

On today´s episode of ValidThoughts, I spoke to Funmi Oyatogun about many things, including exploring the world, starting a travel company, climbing Nigeria´s highest mountain and, of course, we speak about Mount Kilimanjaro.  I am a huge fan of Funmi. She and her team organized our trip to Mount Kilimanjaro and Zanzibar last year with the most incredible group ever! I am so glad to have her...

We are back! Stronger and better! Welcome to Season 3. Join us on this journey of unique experiences! ValidThoughts hosted by S. is a bi-weekly podcast that initiates conversations about the concept of homeland, language, belonging and unique experiences. Follow us: Instagram: @validthoughts_creative Twitter: @validthoughtCS Production: @titonlit Music: Celeste Ojatula - Black

We made it to another season finale!   This time Abi and S sit down and talk about rejection, heartbreak, or the absence of, and their journeys with being vulnerable.  Enjoy listening to this tea-filled episode, and thank you for sticking around once again for season 2.  We will be back with season 3 soon. The Zikoko Love Life article: https://www.zikoko.com/life/love-life/love-life...

Everyone needs a friend like Ayomidotun , PERIODT!! On today's episode of ValidThoughts, I speak to my go to creativity buddy about "Government issued names", nurturing creativity, creating the ValidThoughts logo and his amazing wife!! Recording the episode was loads of fun and good vibes. I am grateful to know Ayomidotun! You can follow his work, @artbyayomidotun . PS: The last episode for Season...

It´s Saturday and we are back with another episode. On today´s episode, I am speaking to Chiamaka aka Socialprefect about growing up in Lagos, running a millennial tour business after leaving the corporate world, being diagnosed with bipolar and opening up about it. We also spoke about healing her healing process and her plans for her company in the future. Of course, we also spoke about dating in...

I am so excited to finally introduce you to the all round amazing Superstar, Celeste . She has been part of the ValidThoughts crew from Day 1 lending us her song, Black as Intro and Outro music on the podcast. We speak about what it is like living in Lagos, the #EndSARS movement and writing music for artists. I am super grateful for having and I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I enjoyed spe...

What does Sexual Compatibility mean to you ? What do you look out for when considering a sexual partner? Together with Muyiwa , I try to find answers to these questions.  Follow us Instagram: @validthoughts_creative Twitter: @validthoughtCS Production: @titonlit @jayblakez_ Music (Intro and Outro): Celeste Ojatula - Black