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Some men may genuinely see nothing wrong with maintaining ''friendships'' with others, regardless of their relationship status. They may view texting as a harmless form of communication and not necessarily as flirting or romantic interest. Question is, is it right or wrong? He want to keep you as an option. He may facing troubles in his present relationship. Let's discuss.

Becoming engaged should happen once you both have decided your lives align enough that you want to spend the rest of your lives together and solely with one another and no one else. If either of you aren’t sure, then it isn’t time. If you mean just -talking- about it, honestly, any time is good and the earlier the better. You aren’t asking them to marry you up front, but it’s always good for both...

Conversation is hard. That's normal. Move over small talk; it's time for meaningful conversations to work. Deep conversations can lead to a greater sense of closeness and understanding between people. They can also create a safe space for people to share their feelings, concerns, and thoughts on important topics. Let's talk about it.

The measure of a friend can be seen in the way they make us feel, the level of trust between the two people, and their willingness to go out of their way to support one another. A true friend will always have our back, stand up for us when we need it most, and be there in our time of need. By cultivating and maintaining bonds with others based on mutual respect, trust, and reliability, we can reap...

Accepting a situation that you don’t like doesn’t mean agreeing for the situation to continue forever. That would be a crazy thing to try and do, as you don’t like the situation! It only means that you need to stop fighting against the situation, as the fighting creates a lot of tension and doesn’t help to change things. Acceptance does not mean resignation. It’s not a place where I give up: it’s...

Accept what is happening without fusing your identity to it. Zoom out to a larger perspective or awareness from which you can observe your situation without feeling like you are trapped in it. Choose how you want to move forward in a way that aligns with your innermost values further aligning with Gods will. Take action, even if doing so feels scary or uncomfortable.

A lack of self-acceptance can hold you back in every area of your life. It affects your confidence and can prevent you from reaching your full potential. People with high self-acceptance are more allergic to criticism. They understand that it’s okay to accept themselves while also working for continuous self-improvement. But what is self-acceptance, really? And why are some people more self-accept...

Sometimes you’re an observer of other people’s lives and you think you’ll never experience what they’re living, whether it’s a positive or negative situation. You think, “That will never happen to me.” Part of the real beauty of life is that it’s unpredictable. Nothing is permanent, everything changes, and of course, a lot of things can happen that will transform who you are and have an impact on...

Of all the relationships your daughter will experience (with her mother, teachers, coaches, boyfriends) the father-daughter relationship has the potential to have the greatest positive impact on her life. Join me today on the Ladies Edition on this topic as I share my thoughts and experiences.

Male children grow to be more compassionate adults when they have good father figures in their lives. Researchers have found that the determining factor in developing empathy in children was having father figure involvement. A present and supportive father figure can benefit boys, young and old, by helping them to have a stronger sense of competence. Join me today on the Men's Edition on this...

Men often claim that having a side chick provides them with peace of mind when confronted about their actions. This notion is often perpetuated from one generation to the next. However, what if partners focused on resolving their problems to prevent such situations? The aforementioned statement suggests that men find solace in extramarital affairs because they perceive them as a source of tranquil...

Men often claim that having a side chick provides them with peace of mind when confronted about their actions. This notion is often perpetuated from one generation to the next. However, what if partners focused on resolving their problems to prevent such situations? The aforementioned statement suggests that men find solace in extramarital affairs because they perceive them as a source of tranquil...

We heard what the side chicks had to say, we heard what the sugar babies had to Say is it justified to fall in love in with a married man? Or is it justified to have sex with a married man for mutual benefit???? Let’s hear all about it in today’s episode as Christley brings the house down with two amazing married women from two different generations. If you are a Young woman and man you are advise...

It’s important to set boundaries in any relationship, but especially in a marriage. If your husband has female friends, you might see him texting them occasionally, which is probably fine. However, there may come a point when it crosses the line, which could indicate a little more than a friendly relationship. Join me today as I share my thoughts and experiences on the topic, what I believe should...

Dating a married guy can take you over the moon, but it can be painful too. Surely you have tried to resist it, but your emotions got the best of you. Granted, some married men are mature, rich, and look like they’ve got their lives figured out, unlike some single guys. They even make their partners feel more secure than singles and younger guys who may be eccentric. Join me today as I share my th...

What is Sex to you? Does it have a cost or is it just a mundane activity? Join me today as I share my thoughts and experiences on the topic, what I believe should be the case on this

When it comes to emergency contraception, there’s often a lot of confusion and misinformation surrounding it. One common mix-up is that people think emergency contraception is a form of abortion. This can make some people hesitate when deciding if they can or should take a medication like the pill. Join me today as I share my thoughts and experiences on the topic, what I believe should be the case...

Embryos and fetuses are alive and human. This is a biological fact. But biological facts alone do not settle moral issues. Join me today as I share my thoughts and experiences on the topic, what I believe should be the case on this

“ We are investing in your education so you better pass?” I passed so what now? “ send your salary every month you now have a job” What about my legacy ? Join me today as I share my thoughts and experiences on the topic, what I believe should be the case on this

Do you ever find yourself caught in the comparison trap? If so, you’re not alone. It’s human nature to compare and there are so many ways to compare ourselves to other people – money, house, cars, job title, attractiveness, popularity; the list goes on and on. In cases like this, comparison is the thief of joy. It can make us feel bad about ourselves and rob us of our happiness.  Join me in this e...

Single or celibate , long distance dating or married“ how do I stay without my vibrator?” Carnality!! An idle mind is the devils workshop whilst a carnal mind is the devils play ground.. how carnal are you in your thoughts? Of course we’ve had days when you’ve wondered what sex toys feels like? Out of curiosity of course Or probably you still struggle with masturbation as a sexual sin and you thin...

Womens Day is here and i'm here to wave the pink flag. This episode is a special gift from me to you as i give 9 little things girls (women, sisters, mothers, wives, girlfriends) want. Every woman has a little girl in them and i've addressed those little things. Grab a coffee and a friend, listen and enjoy.

Dear Boys Sometimes, it can be difficult to read the signs. you're doing all things right and you’re not getting the reaction that you hoped but you put it down to her personality and assume that ‘it’s just the way she is’. The harsh reality is in fact that she really isn’t into you and even if you enjoy the thrill of the chase, you don’t want to waste your time. It can feel like a total kick in t...

SOOOOOO.... You meet a guy right???? and you think he’s great, but he only seems interested in one thing. Learn the signs he just wants sex and save yourself the heartache. hey sis Trust your gut. We have instincts for a reason and if you feel like he only wants you for sex – which we’re assuming you do since you’re here – then he might. Well... listen to this episode and this is strictly FROM MY...

Dating has a huge risk of ending before the alter and that’s okay!! In this episode I give out 3 things that dating depends on OR should depend on.. spelled out as (SMU )I will hint out the purpose of dating as well.. Do listen