Tookes Takes

72: This week, we're taking a quick break from the Bravo recaps because I wanted to share a personal update. What started as a fun Fourth of July with friends ended with an unexpected golf cart accident, and I wanted to tell you what happened in my own words. In this solo episode, I'm sharing the full story, talking about the lessons I've taken away from the experience, and reflecting on gratitude...

71: The Bravo drama is overflowing this week, and we're breaking down every messy moment. I'm recapping the latest episode of Real Housewives of Atlanta, from the Scotland girls' trip and Angela vs. Shamea to Porsha's surprising confession and the legal drama surrounding Kelly. Then I’m covering Part 2 of the Real Housewives of Rhode Island reunion, where Brian's timeline continues to fall apart,...

70: This week, I'm breaking down all the latest Bravo chaos, from Real Housewives of Atlanta to Summer House: The Aftermath and Part 1 of the Real Housewives of Rhode Island reunion. We get into why Angela Oakley continues to be the MVP of Atlanta, K. Michelle's latest plastic surgery plans, Kelly's financial struggles, and the ongoing drama between Angela and Shamea. Then we're talking Summer Hou...

69: We have got a packed episode today. I'm recapping Real Housewives of Atlanta, the Real Housewives of Rhode Island finale, and we are finally wrapping up Summer House reunion season. We get into Porsha getting her ring back from Dennis, the Rhode Island tracker scandal that just keeps getting crazier, and my final thoughts on Amanda, Wes, and Sierra now that the reunion has come to an end. And...

68: We have got a packed episode today. I am recapping Real Housewives of Atlanta, Real Housewives of Rhode Island, and we are still not done talking about Summer House. On top of all of that I have a Kendra Catch Up for you including a very personal dating update and a story about a man who Venmo requested for his date for fifteen dollars after dinner. Yes, you read that right. Topics Discussed:...

67: I'm breaking down everything happening across Bravo right now, from the mess unfolding on Real Housewives of Rhode Island to the latest on Atlanta. And yes, we're talking Summer House again because after watching the reunion and revisiting everything that's come out, I still have thoughts. Topics Discussed: → Did Amanda betray Sierra on Summer House? → Why are fans upset with Amanda and West?...

66: Sometimes you just need a birthday week, a little delusion, and a whole lot of fun. This week I’m talking all things birthday, dating, confidence, haters, healing, AND Housewives.., and why nothing in life is really that serious. We get into K. Michelle’s insecurities, Porsha’s lady pond era, Phaedra’s Reiki master flute energy, and my own journey from having my heart “ajar” to maybe slightly...

65: I finally caught up on Bravo, spiraled over BBL culture, survived the most exhausting six weeks of my life, and somehow became a certified Yoga Sculpt instructor. Plus, birthday emotions, BRAVO Housewives, manifestation, and why I almost gave up. Topics Discussed: → Real Housewives of Atlanta recap → Real Housewives of Rhode Island reactions → K. Michelle on RHOA → BBL culture, Black women + b...

64: I just came back from Colorado and somehow ended up deep in Bravo drama, TLC’s crumbling relationships, and a fondue experience I’m still recovering from. Between Summer House, BRAVO/TLC, and my own existential spiral, this episode is basically me unpacking everything I watched, felt, and questioned this week. Topics Discussed: → Denver vs Colorado Springs → Garden of the Gods reaction → Van G...

63: I’m talking dating burnout, TLC tell-alls, Bravo obsessions, birthday manifestations, and why I might honestly consider a lavender marriage. Plus, my thoughts on The Real Housewives of Rhode Island, Ladies of London, and why my heart is “ajar” but my mind is officially closed. Topics Discussed: → TLC Tell-Alls + Why Shaun Robinson Isn’t Connecting With Fans→ Why I’m Exhausted By Modern Dating...

62: I finally watched The Real Housewives of Rhode Island and I have THOUGHTS… from the breakout stars to the mess already spiraling out of control. Then I get into the chaos of Summer House, the men who are absolutely not okay, and why I’m officially done lowering my standards. Plus, I ended up at a last-minute Beverly Hills event surrounded by Housewives, celeb sightings, and some wild behind-th...

61: I’ve been moving at 90 miles an hour, from buying my dream car to flying to New York for a last-minute hosting gig, and I’m sharing everything.  Then we get into the 90 Day Fiancé season finale, because these couples are falling apart. Engagements ending, red flags everywhere, and a proposal that makes absolutely no sense. Plus, I talk about hitting 10K, navigating online criticism, stepping i...

60: From yoga instructor training to messy 90 Day Fiancé drama, I break down red flags, pick-me behavior, and why choosing yourself is the real glow-up. Topics Discussed: → What are the biggest red flags on 90 Day Fiancé? → What does “pick-me girl” behavior actually mean? → How do you choose yourself in dating? → Are reality TV relationships real or fake? → How can women build confidence in relati...

59: I wasn’t even watching Summer House… and somehow it’s all I can think about. In today’s episode, I’m breaking down the betrayal that has everyone talking, and why this situation goes way deeper than just a guy. Because let’s be real, this was never about him. This was about friendship, loyalty, and what it really means to be a girl’s girl. Topics Discussed: → What is the Summer House betrayal...

58: This week, I sat down with the iconic Pol’ for one of the most honest and emotional conversations yet. From immigrating to the U.S. as a child to becoming a celebrated fashion designer, Pol’ shares the real story behind his success, his struggles with identity, and the deep influence of his mother. We get into everything, his friendship with Anna Nicole Smith, the truth about relationships, wh...

57: I’m exhausted, I’m working nonstop, and I’ve got a lot to say. In this episode, I’m talking about the reality of being a single woman trying to build a life, why dating feels like a nightmare right now, and my honest thoughts after watching Inside the Manosphere. Plus, you know I had to share my takes on 90 Day Fiancé, The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, and Ladies of London. This one is rea...

56: I had the absolute best time chatting with Patrik Simpson about love, life, and everything in between. From meeting Paul and navigating long-distance romance, to fighting for custody of his daughter, to modeling, reality TV, and his unforgettable moments with Anna Nicole Smith….it’s all here. We also talk coffee readings, fan socials, and a peek at Ventura Shores. This one’s full of heart, hum...

55: I’m back with another solo episode + this one is the ultimate reality TV rundown for Bravo lovers and 90 Day Fiancé fans. From messy relationship drama to royal level gossip, I’m delivering all the tea from 90 Day Fiancé and the premiere of Ladies of London. I’m breaking down toxic couples, questionable decisions, long distance relationships, and the glamorous world of British aristocracy. Top...

54: I am joined by the incredible Ben Mandelker, cohost of Watch What Crappens, and I am honestly so excited to have him here. We get into why Bravo continues to dominate reality TV culture, what makes great reality TV comedy actually work, and why pacing, production style, and casting all matter more than people think.  We also talk about why I still miss sitcoms that were built around jokes firs...

53: I’m fresh off a beautiful Chump Big Bear adventure, and I’m sharing all the details of trying new things, stepping outside my comfort zone, and realizing sometimes life just wants you to say yes. From driving up cliffsides, buying $200 worth of chains I may or may not have needed, and sleeping like I was in a nostalgic sitcom bunk bed situation, this trip reminded me that growth can live insid...

52: Comedian Zach Noe Towers joins me for a hilarious and surprisingly heartfelt conversation about sobriety, stand up comedy, and building a career in Los Angeles without losing yourself. Zach opens up about celebrating 10 years sober, what his drinking and drug use looked like in his twenties, and the wake up call that changed everything. We talk about growing up gay in the Midwest, finding safe...

51: On this episode, I sit down with Ronnie Karam from Watch What Crappens and we get all the way into all things Bravo, comedy, and the reality TV moments that live rent free in our heads. We talk about how he went from musical theater kid to podcast icon, the wild path through improv and blogging, and why the Housewives fandom is basically its own religion at this point. Topics Discussed: → Real...

50: This week I caught up on everything from Real Housewives of Potomac to 90 Day Fiancé. We get into Ashley Darby and why morals matter more than mess, why Angel deserves grace, how production stays setting these ladies up, and why some Housewives behavior is just unforgivable. I also break down the latest 90 Day nonsense, lying lesbians, broke and controlling men, wig crimes, and why some people...

49: This week, we’re fully buried in the TLC landfill, diving headfirst into the wildest moments from 90 Day Fiancé and My Strange Addiction. From bug-eating and makeup-munching to explicit skincare routines, controlling partners, and culture clashes that spiral fast, it’s equal parts hilarious, disturbing, and impossible to look away. We break down messy storylines including being called “too fat...

48: I sat down ready to watch 90 Day Fiancé as a little palate cleanser and somehow ended up deep in the TLC landfill - raw meat at the nail salon, and a whole lot of men who absolutely refuse to get a job.  I watched 90 Day Fiancé couples who are lying, projecting, gaslighting, and embarrassing themselves across multiple continents, from unemployed big backs to emotional affairs that are somehow...