Thoughts Of An Average Joe

Youtube Link: https://youtu.be/MPspsjSnxNk The birthday episode with Ya Favorite Average Joe. Harvey & I discuss what goals I want to accomplish and want my life to look like for year 37. Good Pods Link: Thoughts Of An Average Joe Podcast - 10 Best Episodes ****IF YOU WANT TO REACH OUT TO ME ABOUT "AVERAGE JOE MEDIA" email me at ⁠⁠admin@theajmedia.com⁠⁠ or GO TO THE WEBSITE AT ⁠⁠theave...

Youtube Link: https://youtu.be/Basmi8Bxlaw What happens when you bring a woman’s perspective into the everyday conversations men and women have about relationships, dating, and life? In this episode of Thoughts Of An Average Joe, Joe sits down with Lin to get her honest perspective on  how women view men , what women look for in a man, and how those views can change based on life experience. The c...

Youtube Link: https://youtu.be/QlRXK3xBphU Turning 30 doesn't magically make you a man—it just means you've had more time to make decisions. In this episode, we're talking about why men in their 30s and beyond have to stop blaming bad luck, their past, or other people and start making decisions that build the life they actually want. From finances and relationships to health and friend...

Youtube Link: https://youtu.be/DEwTzZtbijQ Welcome To Another Episode Of Thoughts Of An Average Joe. Your 30’s are supposed to be the years where you start getting serious about the life you want—but what happens when you get too comfortable? In Part 1 of  “Dating & Life Choices for Men in Their 30s,”  Harvey & I have an honest conversation about relationships, career decisions, marriage,...

Youtube Link: https://youtu.be/vvam904BHk0 Everybody has heard it before:  "A real man would..."  But who decides what a "real man" actually is? In this episode, Joe is solo and we unpack one of the most common phrases used in dating and relationships. Is it a genuine standard, or is it sometimes used to pressure men into doing things that benefit someone else? We also ask the hard...

Welcome to another episode of Thoughts Of An Average Joe. In today's dating world, many women say they want a man who can lead—but what happens when he actually starts leading? Is leadership being mistaken for control, or are some men using "leadership" as an excuse to dominate? This episode explores the difference between healthy leadership and unhealthy control, and how couples can b...

We finally did it Average Joe & Average Jane’s we made it to 300 episodes!!! So with that being said welcome to another episode of Thoughts Of An Average Joe!! At some point, every man has to decide if he's going to chase temporary pleasure or build a lasting legacy. In this episode, we're having an honest conversation about "dick discipline"—the ability to control your urges i...

We all have a picture in our heads of how life is supposed to go. The dream job. The healthy relationship. Financial freedom. A house. Kids. Peace. Then reality shows up. Welcome to another episode of “Thoughts Of An Average Joe”In this episode, we talk about the gap between the life we imagined and the life we're actually living. What happens when your plans fall apart? When you're behind...

In this episode, Joe brings Harvey on and they dive into one of the biggest frustrations in modern relationships: double standards especially when it comes to providing? Why do men and women often expect things from each other that they wouldn't accept themselves? From dating and finances to gender roles and accountability, this episode examines how both sides can be guilty of wanting differen...

In this episode of  Thoughts Of An Average Joe , Joe unpacks the growing narrative that women hate men—and ask if social media is distorting reality. From viral gender wars to real-life relationship expectations, we break down how pain, ego, and contradictions are fueling the divide. Is it really hate… or just misunderstanding amplified for attention? Youtube Link: https://youtu.be/p2-BtsNmIm0 Goo...

In this episode of  Thoughts of an Average Joe , we dive into a harsh reality that many people eventually encounter: not everyone around you is genuinely your friend. Some people stay close because you're useful, because you have something they need, or because being associated with you benefits them in some way. As long as the well is full, they're loyal, supportive, and present. But when...

In this episode of  Thoughts Of An Average Joe , Joe opens up about the real experience of living alone for the first time and everything that comes with it. From managing bills, budgeting, and handling financial pressure to learning basic survival skills like cooking and meal prepping, this episode dives into the realities of adulthood when there’s nobody else to lean on. Joe discusses how indepe...

In this episode of  Thoughts Of An Average Joe , the crew dives into one of the most common phrases in today’s dating culture: “Know your worth.” But what does that actually mean? We break down the fine line between healthy standards and pure entitlement, discussing how social media, ego, trauma, and unrealistic expectations have reshaped modern relationships. Are people truly valuing themselves —...

Welcome back to another episode of “Thoughts Of An Average Joe. Today Joe is under the influence and talks about a multitude of topics. Enjoy Youtube Link :https://youtu.be/I-i13rnPKpA

Welcome to another episode of “Thoughts Of An Average Joe.” Today topic is “The Pride Of Independence.” The episode dives into the fine line between strength and self-sabotage. In a world where everyone is focused on getting it on their own, this episode explores how independence—while necessary—can quietly turn into pride, emotional unavailability, and isolation. From relationships to personal gr...

Welcome back to another episode of “Thoughts Of An Average Joe.” This episode explores the growing trend of cosmetic procedures like BBLs and fat transfers and asks a deeper question about modern beauty standards. Instead of criticizing women, the conversation examines the influence of social media, validation culture, and unrealistic body expectations. The episode also discusses the psychological...

After a lengthy break,  Thoughts Of An Average Joe  returns with an honest life update. In this episode, Joe talks about moving into a new place and the pressure that comes with living alone, dealing with life after losing his car, adjusting to public transportation, and learning to rely on others during a difficult season. He also opens up about filing for bankruptcy as a way to reset financially...

Welcome back to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." In the final episode of  The Relationship Resume Series , the focus shifts from awareness to action. After unpacking healing, over-qualification, and the fear of being truly seen, this episode breaks down what actually belongs on a healthy relationship resume. We explore why money, status, looks, and lifestyle may attract att...

Welcome to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Today we dive into episode three of the Relationship Resume Series. In episode 3, we dive into one of the quietest but most powerful obstacles in modern dating:  the fear of being truly seen. After exploring dating while healing and the pressure to be “over-qualified” in love, this episode focuses on what happens when the résumé d...

Welcome back to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Today we dive into part two of The Relationship Resume Series. This episode is titled "When Dating Feels Like A Job Interview and I bring on Tyler to talk about this. In this episode we unpack how modern dating has turned into a checklist-driven job interview. From social media pressure to emotional résumés, many people f...

Welcome back to another episode of “Thoughts Of An Average Joe.”After a lengthy hiatus we are back!!!In this kickoff to  The Relationship Resume Series , we explore what it really means to date while still healing from past hurt. Most people think they’re “ready” simply because time has passed — but unprocessed pain always finds a way to show up. This episode breaks down the difference between avo...

Welcome to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." In the series finale of  Discipline Over Desire , we shift from understanding the problem to taking action. This episode lays out a clear blueprint for men to build discipline, protect their priorities, and create lasting success. Listeners will learn practical strategies for daily routines, setting boundaries, tracking progress,...

Welcome to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." In the third episode of the  Discipline Over Desire  series, we examine the real consequences men face when they live without discipline and boundaries. From financial instability and stalled careers to emotional burnout and lost self-respect, chaos silently creeps in when structure and focus are missing. This episode highlights t...

Welcome to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe". In part two of the  Discipline Over Desire  series, we explore why men must learn the art of being  strategically selfish  to protect their growth. This episode flips the script on what it means to be “selfish,” showing how saying  no  to distractions, energy-drainers, and people-pleasing can be the key to staying focused and buil...

Sorry for the mini break but Thoughts Of An Average Joe Is Back!! Today we kick off a new series Discipline over Desire. In this powerful kickoff to the  Discipline Over Desire  series, we break down why discipline is the cornerstone of every man’s success. From building structure and consistency to creating confidence and respect, this episode explores how discipline shapes every area of a man’s...