Thirty's and Trying

Figuring life out is still a work in progress, but some habits have been total game-changers! In this episode of  Thirty and Trying , I share 9 powerful habits that completely shifted my mindset, productivity, and overall happiness. From time management to fully showing up as HER, these habits have helped me navigate life with more clarity and confidence. If you’re ready to make small but powerful...

We’re so focused on the finish line that we forget to appreciate the journey. In this episode, we’re diving deep into the beauty of becoming—learning to trust the process, embrace growth, and find joy in the in-between moments. If you’ve ever felt stuck, impatient, or frustrated with where you are, this conversation will help you shift your mindset and truly enjoy the path you're on. Because w...

In this episode, Clairese reflects on the 30 most valuable lessons she’s learned by the age of 30. From relationships to self-growth and mindset shifts, she’s sharing the hard truths, game-changing realizations, and the wisdom that has shaped her journey so far. Whether you’re approaching 30, already there, or just looking for some life lessons to take with you, this episode is packed with insight...

In this heartfelt episode of  Thirty's and Trying , we take a trip down memory lane and share the advice we wish we could give our 20-something selves. From navigating relationships to chasing dreams and embracing self-love, we reflect on the lessons we've learned along the way. Join us as we explore the highs, lows, and everything in between—because hindsight really is 20/20.

Welcome to Thirty’s and Trying! In this first episode, we’re introducing ourselves and diving straight into the glorious, messy, and slightly chaotic world of turning 30 and being in our 30s. Who are we? Two gals trying to figure out life, one awkward laugh and questionable decision at a time. Expect real talk, random tangents, and maybe a little wisdom (we hope). Join the chaos, grab a snack, and...

In this episode of  Not Your Ordinary , we’re catching up on the journey towards balance and the power of being fully present in each moment. 🌱 We’ll talk about finding harmony in our daily lives and how small shifts can bring us closer to a life we truly love. Plus, I’ll share updates on  Your Next Level  and the upcoming  Glow and Grow  event, where we’ll be taking a step back to celebrate our...

In this episode, join hosts Clairese Pillay and Insaaf Daniels as we dive into the origins of Your Next Level and provide an exclusive sneak peek into the upcoming event. Discover the inspiration behind the initiative, the challenges overcome, and the vision driving its success. Gain valuable insights and get excited about what's in store at the upcoming Your Next Level event. Don't miss o...

In this personal and reflective episode, I explore why time is the most precious resource we have. I'll share my own journey of learning to prioritize how I spend my time and how these choices have shaped my future. We'll discuss the difference between surviving and truly living, and why it's essential to focus on what really matters. Whether you're struggling with time management...

In our milestone 30th episode of "Not Your Ordinary," we're diving deep into 13 transformative lessons that have shaped my journey. From navigating self-love to embracing solitude, each lesson has been a crucial step towards self-discovery and personal growth. Join me as we reflect on experiences, share insights, and celebrate the wisdom gained along the way. Whether you're a lon...

Emotions are a fundamental part of the human experience, but they do not define who we are. Have you ever felt like your emotions were running the show? It's time to take back control and become more emotionally empowered. Join me as we explore practical strategies, insights, and techniques to help you navigate your emotions with confidence and grace. From cultivating self-awareness to masteri...

Step into your power, Queens, because it's time to reclaim your throne! In this electrifying episode we're diving headfirst into the transformative journey of activating your inner Queen Mode. Discover simple affirmations and empowering tips to boost your confidence and rule your world with majestic authority. Say goodbye to self-doubt and hello to your throne as we embark on this journey...

In this episode we explore the transformative power of practicing the Law of Detachment in our lives. It teaches us to release our attachment to outcomes, expectations, and desires, allowing us to find freedom and peace. Through mindfulness, letting go of control, and cultivating gratitude, we can detach from the need for external validation and live more fully in the present moment. By incorporat...

In today's episode we discuss the art of overcoming procrastination. Learn powerful techniques to overcome the urge to put off things and reach your maximum productivity potential. We look at practical methods to help you overcome procrastination and accomplish your objectives, from breaking down projects into small steps to creating a productive workspace. Tune in to discover how to turn procrast...

Join me on a journey of self-discovery as we dive into the complexities of our inner critic. Together, we'll explore why we're often our own toughest critics, digging into the societal pressures and personal insecurities that fuel this inner dialogue. Whether you're struggling with self-doubt or simply seeking to deepen your self-awareness, this episode offers a roadmap to navigate you...

In this episode, we explore the dangers of comparing ourselves to others and offer practical strategies to shift our mindset towards self-compassion and self-improvement. Join me as we learn how to cultivate gratitude, understand the importance of setting goals, and focus on personal growth to overcome the comparison trap and thrive in our own journey.

Join me as we talk about those times when everything feels like it's falling apart. Learn why it's okay to feel all sorts of emotions when things go wrong and discover practical ways to cope and grow stronger. We'll talk about setting small goals, staying positive, and finding support from friends and family. Life's twists might be tough, but they could also lead to something unexp...

In this episode we explore the world of empaths, uncovering what it truly means to be one. Join me as we dive into the unique qualities that define empaths, from creating a safe space for others to understanding the subtle aspects of emotions. Learn about their heightened awareness, going beyond sensitivity to include the well-being of others. Tune in for valuable insights into how empaths use int...

Get ready to amplify your manifestation game as we unravel the secrets behind this cosmic force that has the power to transform your reality! Join me as we explore the magic of the Law of Attraction. We'll uncover its main ideas and touch on practical tips to boost your positive energy. It's not just wishful thinking; it's an energising and soul-stirring experience that will leave you...

In today's episode, we're diving deep into a topic that holds the keys to unlocking the life you've always dreamed of – mastering time management. Are you ready to transform your days from chaotic to controlled? Discover how simple shifts in your daily routine can lead to monumental changes. We're not just talking about calendars and to-do lists; we're exploring the art of inte...

Join me in this inspiring episode as we delve into an empowering conversation with Insaaf Daniels, the visionary behind "Your Next Level." Insaaf and I discuss the profound impact of our brand (YNL) on women empowerment, self-care, and the creation of a thriving community of like-minded individuals. Discover the backstory of how Insaaf and I crossed paths and witness the birth of "Y...

In this podcast episode, we talk about how people expect us to act a certain way based on if we're a man or woman and we explore how these expectations can make it hard to be ourselves. We challenge the idea that guys should always be tough and girls should always be gentle. Instead, we say that having a bit of both – being tough and gentle – is actually a good thing. The episode encourages yo...

Get ready for an exhilarating journey into the world of unstoppable positivity! In this episode, we crack the code to the "Lucky Girl Syndrome" — a mindset that transforms challenges into victories and turns everyday life into an adventure. Join me as we reveal the secrets behind cultivating gratitude, embracing change, and unleashing your inner luck. This episode is your guide to becomi...

Welcome to the first episode of the Not Your Ordinary podcast, for the year 2024! As we embark on this new journey, we dive into the power of goal setting, the impact of having an accountability buddy, and the crucial role of self-care in achieving success.

Get ready for a thrilling ride as we rewind the tape, delving into the epic adventures of 2023. In this episode, we not only reflect on the challenges and triumphs but transform them into stepping stones for an even more extraordinary 2024! Join me as we unravel the secrets to mindset mastery. The stage is set, the lessons are learned, and the future awaits—tune in, buckle up, and let's launch...

In this episode we explore the journey of letting go—releasing the anchors that weigh us down to embrace a life of liberation and renewal. Together we unravel the art of releasing attachments, shedding old patterns, and creating space for the beautiful unknown. Letting go is not about loss but about gaining freedom. It's a courageous act of self-love and an invitation to dance with the rhythm...