The Sane Single

I’m back after 2 yr hiatus, here’s a quick insight on what I’ve been thinking and also hear my real time expression around my feelings of rejection at this time in my life. Disclaimer: excuse my noisy dogs.

Sometimes the thing we think we want will harm us. Your wanting is valid but remember that even your wants should be evaluated constantly.

On this journey of self discovery we may sometimes feel as though we are going backwards. When in reality we are right where God needs us to be….submitted and still. Even when it feels like we’re suffering in a pool of emotions.

Navigating the dating world can take a toll on you sometimes. But it’s so important to make sure you’re outlook is healthy. It’s easy to blame someone else and it’s even easier to self sabotage. Let’s talk about it

I had to recognize my own bias recently but it also brought about an even bigger conversation I think we are all ready to have so let’s talk.

Sometimes there’s an overwhelming amount of emotions you just can’t explain. They just happen, no trigger no warning just raw emotions. And that’s ok. Blog : https://www.gimmesomeoven.com/life/single-just-feels-hard/

The road to contentment should be completed before you get the thing you’re waiting for, not after. If so, you’ll always be looking for something to complete you, and that my dear is not healthy.

There are things you need to remember. 1. You did not create yourself. 2. God loves you so much. 3. It’s time to humble yourself and stick to the plan, regardless of how you feel.

Ever wonder why you keep doing the same things over and over and feeling like you can’t get out of the loop called mistakes? Because they’re choices now….choices.

Be careful how much energy you give to something now, you nay now have enough later. Your best is need not what left.

There are things that we all want but let’s not neglect the things that come before our own desires.

Society is telling us now that the older we get the more we should accept the fact that everyone has children. Now we know this isn’t true, but we should dig a little deeper and think about this question. As a single, do you prefer to date someone with children or without and vice versa for singles that already have children. Are you going to let time, your age or frustration dictate your choice?...

The things we do in private will be exposed in public. Master your thinking so you can master your tongue.

“The stages of dating” - we have redefined what dating is over and over again. This week we’re gonna talk about it and really dig into what it looks like now and if it’s really hurting us as a generation.

We’ve all been there, let’s talk about it.

Listen God knows where we are and where he wants us. It’s best to listen now than to listen later and be damaged, heartbroken and carrying weight you were never supposed to hold.

Don’t let the length of the wait be the reason you settle. Stand firm. You’re not asking too much. Wanna join my small group? Email me: allantebook@gmail.com

Make a demand on your life. Own up to yo ish. Be wise in what you do, what you say and how you react. This episode is about unlearning. For you.

This episode is gonna take a little longer than usual. I had to show up for myself this year. Really show up. Which led to me facing things I thought I beat already. I hope this episode frees you as much as it freed me. Let my experiences empower you to take those scary steps to show up in every area of you life. Sometimes we get so busy waiting on others to show up for us and show themselves to u...

It’s time to change our perspective in singleness. Yes, these negative feelings are valid but they don’t bring us closer to our desires. Follow us on social Messi @_twrpodcast. Article mentioned : https://www.elitedaily.com/p/being-single-when-all-your-friends-are-in-relationships-can-suck-but-heres-how-to-deal-17903572

Processing some things in this episode take a listen and hear my heart

Relationships evolve. The right ones test you. They make you look at yourself and confront some things. But how often do you consult God? Do you trust his counsel? Briefly we will talk about personal experiences with a special guest Terrance Shipmon Jr. follow him on social media! @shipmonjr

Sometimes you just need to stop and reflect.

Walking with Christ not only means being obedient but it means consulting with him in everything you do.

Sometimes circumstances will try to rename us. Let me share with you another spirit I was fighting during the beginning of this pandemic. I hope it helps someone.