The Real Reason

Your CPF can be $4 million. That's what Christopher Tan told me, and he manages $1.8 billion. Part 2 is here. (Haven't watched Part 1? Start there: https://youtu.be/EKPqiYOiTbw) In Part 1, I told you how my husband and I lost thousands before we worked out the basics. Those mistakes were my tuition fees. Even after I knew what not to do, I still had no idea what to do. Twenty insurance pol...

For years, I never told anyone this. My husband and I lost thousands. Real money. Money we worked hard for. On the UK property course. Trading systems. Affiliate marketing schemes. All of them had glowing reviews. They all looked so easy to copy. Yet, every one of them failed. And when it didn't work, we didn't blame them. We blamed ourselves. We lost money. We lost sleep. We lost confidence. It p...

Is Sleep Training Cruel? Asia's No.1 Sleep Trainer Tells You the Truth. Sleep training is one of the most Googled parenting topics in the world. And one of the most misunderstood. Your mother-in-law. Your neighbour. That random stranger in the Facebook parenting group. They all have something to say. But here is the problem. Most of what you have been told is wrong. Every exhausted parent has Goog...

STOP hitting your kids. ⚠️ Content warning: This episode contains discussion of self-performed abortion and the experiences of a minor. Listener discretion is advised. Every time you hit them, you're teaching them to fear you, not respect you. In this episode, I sit down with Kelly Tay, founder of Juicy Parenting, who teaches Asian parents how to raise successful, resilient, and disciplined childr...

Stop. Before you save another dollar. Before you open another investment app. Before you listen to another financial adviser, watch this. Christopher Tan manages $1.7 billion. He's about to say something the financial industry will hate. And if you're doing what everyone tells you to do with money, you need to hear this. Here's what nobody's telling you: The financial advice you've been following...

🚨 Everyone wants to stop ageing. Your doctor is failing you. Here's what's really happening: If you're in your 30s, you've noticed changes you can't explain. If you're in your 40s, your energy is disappearing. If you're 50+, your body feels completely different. You sleep 8 hours but wake up tired. You get annoyed at people you love. Things that used to excite you now...

“I thought I was fine… until I started crying in the middle of a restaurant.” No warning. No crisis. No obvious reason. Just tears - in public - over someone whom I *thought* I had already moved on from. Most people only consider therapy when something breaks. But what if that’s already too late? In this episode of The Real Reason, I sits down with clinical psychologist Janet Phang to unpack a tru...

Everyone says we’re addicted to our phones. In this episode, Nir Eyal explains why “phone addiction” is a myth, and what actually helps us stay focused in a distracted world. Phone addiction is a lie. And the moment I accepted that, everything changed. Because if it were the phone's fault (if it were the algorithm, the apps, the endless scroll) I wouldn't have to look at myself. But here's the tru...

You're damaging your kids right now. There. I said it. And the worst part? You already know it. You feel it every time you snap at them the exact way your mother snapped at you. Every time that voice in your head sounds like your father's disappointment. We're the generation that swore we'd do it differently. Millennials who read all the parenting books, who apologize to our 4-year-olds, who are s...

You eat healthy. You work out. You do everything “right.” So why does your body still feel stuck? In this episode of The Real Reason , Shulin Lee sits down with holistic nutritionist Riyana Rupani to uncover what’s really going on beneath the surface and why “doing more” isn’t always the answer. They dive into: How stress, hormones, and gut healthquietly dictate your results Why over-exercising an...

I had everything I was supposed to want the title, the career, the “success.” But deep down, I was stuck. Not lazy. Not ungrateful. Just… stuck. In this raw solo episode, I share: → When success stopped feeling like success → How hitting ZERO revenue in 2020 forced me to reinvent → The mindset shift that helped me rebuild everything → How fear kept me trapped This isn’t about motivation. It’s abou...