The Pursuit of MiSELF

Send us Fan Mail What if your money problems aren't actually about money? In this episode of The Pursuit of MiSELF , I’m joined by money coach Kim Kent for a conversation that goes way deeper than budgeting, saving and earning more. Kim shares the story of growing up in a home where money was a constant source of conflict, becoming the high achiever who believed success would finally make her...

Send us Fan Mail I sobbed for 24 hours before I could sit down and record this. And I almost didn't post it at all. No five-step framework. No "how to manifest" episode. Just me, unscripted, after a moment that cracked something open I didn't know I was still carrying. I've built a life I'm genuinely proud of. And I still drove past a picture of the life I thought I&a...

Send us Fan Mail You know the behavior. You've named it a hundred times — I'm a people pleaser, I catastrophize everything, I'm just not ready yet. But naming the behavior isn't the work. The work is asking what it's protecting you from. In this episode I walk through the five blocks I see sitting in the gap between where you are and where you want to be — the gratitude tr...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to The Pursuit of Myself — Rayne's back after evolving the business through live events, three-day identity immersions, a business strategy event, a mastermind, and the Identity Wealth Challenge, with a new Academy cohort opening in September. In Part 1 of this two-part episode, Rayne breaks down why your identity — not your strategy — is what's actually bui...

Send us Fan Mail You're not stuck because you're lazy. You're stuck because staying stuck has a payoff — no risk, no failure, no having to try. In this episode I'm calling that out, and I'm calling out the "when I'm ready" story you've been telling yourself for months, maybe years. This one's personal. I walk you through the two moments in my own l...

Send us Fan Mail This Masterclass Almost Didn't Make It to the Podcast I ran a live masterclass this week called The Ex-Good Girl , and about ten minutes in I knew I had to get it out to more of you than just the women who were on the call. So this episode is that masterclass, live and unfiltered. We get into the good girl pattern — where it actually comes from, why it's not a personalit...

Send us Fan Mail She's a visibility coach who spent six years hiding behind a business name instead of her own. Kate Wright helps women become visible — in their brands, their businesses, their lives. In this episode, she tells me the truth about what it actually took to become visible herself. We talk about the blushing problem she took to a GP in her twenties, hoping for a pill. The fertili...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode I share the decision I made five years ago that terrified me — and why it changed everything. We talk about the identity gap that's keeping you stuck, why isolation is a block not a badge, and why you cannot upgrade yourself from inside the same walls you've been living in. Plus — everything you need to know about SHE EVOLVES, my three-day immersive expan...

Send us Fan Mail She Got You Here. She Won't Get You There. The woman who survived the divorce, built the business, raised the kids, and held everything together — she is extraordinary. And she is not the one who gets you to what's next. In this episode, Rayne gets honest about the identity gap that keeps high-achieving women spinning their wheels — doing the courses, attending the retre...

Send us Fan Mail "I don't know what I want, but I know I just want more." If that sentence has ever passed through you — at the kitchen sink, in the school car park, halfway through a day that looks successful on paper — this episode is for you. Rayne unpacks why so many capable, accomplished women cannot articulate what "more" actually means — and why that's not a si...

Send us Fan Mail Everyone tells you that you need more visibility. Post more. Show up more. Be louder. Sell harder. But what if visibility was never about social media? What if the real problem isn’t that you aren’t posting enough… it’s that you’ve spent your whole life learning how to stay small? In this episode, I’m unpacking the version of visibility nobody talks about: ✨ Asking for what you n...

Send us Fan Mail You're not burnt out. You're not failing. You're not even that unhappy, not technically. You're just flat. Going through the motions. Waking up with nothing pulling you forward and calling it fine. In this episode, Rayne names what's actually happening for the women who look like they have it together but have quietly stopped living. It's not a lack o...

Send us Fan Mail There is a version of you walking around — successful, capable, doing all the things — that your soul never agreed to. She got built. Somewhere along the way, you became her because you had to. The room demanded it. Your family needed it. Love was conditional, belonging had a price, and your nervous system figured out very early what it had to do to keep you safe. And here's...

Send us Fan Mail You don't need a new goal. You don't need a better plan. You need to be able to actually see your life — and right now, you can't. Not from inside it. In this episode, Rayne introduces the foundational practice that sits underneath every other piece of work she does: Separation. Not stepping away from your life. Not running from it. But learning to become the witnes...

Send us Fan Mail You've done the work. You've rebuilt. You've closed the chapter. So why does it still feel like you're not fully moving? In Episode 40, Rayne gets brutally honest about the lie most women in their 40s are living — the one that sounds like strength, looks like resilience, and is quietly keeping you stuck. It's not that you haven't healed enough. It&apo...

Send us Fan Mail If you keep starting and stopping, second-guessing yourself, losing momentum the moment things get hard — this episode is for you. And I want to be really honest with you: it's not a discipline problem. It's not a strategy problem. It's a foundation problem. In this episode, I break down why so many high-performing women keep hitting the same ceiling in their busine...

Send us Fan Mail Meet Lisa Spencer, Founder of WA wellness directory, WA Wellness.  If you’re constantly overthinking, hesitating, and not following through… This episode is for you. Today I’m joined by a Lisa, Founder of WA Wellness and client I’ve worked with over the past year. We’re breaking down the shift from knowing what to do… to actually doing it. Because the gap isn’t strategy.  It’s who...

Send us Fan Mail You’re not in full crisis… but you’re not yourself either. You feel flat. Foggy. Disconnected. You know what you should be doing… but you’re not doing it. So you either push harder… or you avoid it completely. And the longer you stay there, the heavier it feels. In this episode, I’m speaking directly to the woman who feels stuck in that cycle — the one who’s quietly circling the s...

Send us Fan Mail There comes a point where your discomfort stops being confusion. It’s no longer bad timing. It’s no longer “I just need to think about it.” It becomes evidence. Evidence that you’ve outgrown the version of yourself that got you here. In this episode, Rayne Bryant shares the deeper truth behind growth, expansion, and why the rooms that trigger you the most are often the exact rooms...

Send us Fan Mail This episode is very behind the scenes. I’ve been feeling that edge of capacity lately — that sense of “my bucket is full” — and instead of pushing harder, I’ve been tightening my habits. In this episode, I walk you through exactly what I’m doing in my week right now as I grow the Academy, expand my income and hold more space. Not theory.  Not strategy.  What I’m personally commit...

Send us Fan Mail You say you want to grow. More money. More leadership. More alignment. More life. But are you prepared for the shifts that growth actually requires? Because the woman you want to become is not built in quick wins. She is built in the boredom. The repetition. The consistency no one applauds. In this episode, I’m calling out the addiction to shortcuts — in business, in health, in re...

Send us Fan Mail The beauty industry has been built on fixing women. More machines. More trends. More promises. But what if the real edge isn’t technology — it’s regulation? In this episode, I sit down with Joni, The Facelift Facialist — Perth-based educator, founder and industry leader — who has built a booked-out beauty empire by specialising, mastering fascia-focused touch, and leading from a n...

Send us Fan Mail If you’ve done the work, invested in yourself, and know you’re capable —  but your business still doesn’t feel free  and your relationships don’t feel as deep or aligned as you desire… this episode is for you. Because this isn’t a strategy problem.  It’s not a mindset issue.  And it’s not that you’re behind. Your results are shaped by what you tolerate —  and what you tolerate is...

Send us Fan Mail If you’ve been consuming, learning, preparing, and waiting to feel ready… this episode might be uncomfortable. Because growth doesn’t come from more information.  It comes from the moment you stop negotiating with your comfort. In this episode, I’m sharing the five identity-based decisions I’m making in 2026 — the exact decisions that will double my business again , not through hu...

Send us Fan Mail Things can change fast, in business, love, and wealth, when you stop negotiating with your truth. In this episode, I’m sharing 10 recent lessons that changed how I lead myself, my nervous system, and my life at 43. Welcome back to The Pursuit of MiSELF — and welcome to 2026. 🎙️ After a month off, I realised how much I missed this : depth, honesty, and real conversations that actua...