The Higher Self Hotline

(Episode #374) You know what your work can do for someone. Then they ask how much you charge, and suddenly you’re offering a discount they didn’t even ask for. This week on The Bitching Hour, Zoey coaches a psychic medium who’s booking more readings while relying on a day job to pay the bills. They talk about giving the work you care about a real place in your life, even before it can support you...

(Episode #373) You know that feeling when you’ve seen an episode so many times you can say the next line before the characters do? Sometimes your life starts to feel like that, too. In this guided quantum jumping meditation, Zoey invites you into a cozy living room with an old television and a remote. With each click, you get a glimpse of another possibility. Take a few breaths there and notice ho...

(Episode #372) You’re finally getting the recognition you wanted. So why does turning down even one opportunit feel like tempting fate? This week on The Bitching Hour, Zoey coaches an artist who’s getting more commission requests than she has room to take. Zoey helps her think through raising her prices and finding a rhythm for taking commissions that leaves her time to do something she loves that...

(Episode #371) Why do we tend to think someone will think less of us when we admit we're struggling? This week, Zoey’s dear friend Asa Yee, host of Monsoon Season, joins her for a conversation about vulnerability as authority. Asa spent years working behind the scenes with successful founders, seeing the doubt that never made it into their public stories. In her own work, she’s decided to let peop...

(Episode #370) You finally trust your gut and you’re ready to make the move. Then someone close to you has something to say about it, and suddenly you’re questioning everything. In this week's Pajama Party minisode, Zoey connects with listener Erika about changing course when something isn’t working, even when the people you love don’t understand. Zoey also shares the relief she felt after decidin...

(Episode #369) I closed the coaching business I spent 11 years building and refunded nearly $100K. So yes, we have a lot to catch up on. Before we get into November’s numerology, I’m sharing why I let go of You Already Are and what it means to finally give my creativity, and this show, my full attention. Amelia joins me with her own updates on becoming an author and letting herself be seen while s...

(Episode #368) Don't get us wrong, being invited feels reaaally good sometimes! But have you asked yourself if you actually want to be in the room? When more people start noticing your gifts, it’s easy to say yes before asking whether the opportunity feels right. In this Pajama Party minisode, Zoey gives a live reading to Kaci, a psychic medium wondering what’s next for her work. The invitations a...

(Episode #367) At what point did being liked start requiring so much acting? This week, Zoey sits down with social psychologist and author Dr. Devon Price to talk about autism, neurodivergence and the exhausting work of masking to make everyone else comfortable. Devon offers a beautiful exercise for remembering who we are underneath all that performance and gets honest about what happens when the...

(Episode #366) Being a sensitive person in this world is not for the weak! This week inside The Bitching Hour, Zoey coaches a community member who’s trying so hard to take care of herself yet still feels exhausted. They talk about setting energetic boundaries, letting other people’s feelings stay theirs and choosing just two daily practices instead of trying to do everything. Zoey also shares how...

(Episode #365) Wanting something badly can make it surprisingly hard to trust the feeling that it’s meant for you. Suddenly every intuitive nudge gets cross-examined. Is this real? Am I making it up? Do I just want it too much? This week the Hotline is ringing and Zoey and Amelia are talking about trusting intuition when it sounds like wishful thinking and changing direction when your family would...

(Episode #364) Have you ever known what felt right for you, then started second-guessing it because you weren’t sure anyone else would understand? In our live coaching series inside The Bitching Hour!, we’re digging into real questions from real people who are doing the work. Today’s conversation is all about trusting yourself when life starts looking different than you planned. One community memb...

(Episode #363) How much of yourself are you editing to stay likable? This week, Zoey is joined by spiritual teacher and wise woman Amanda Baudier. After two decades helping build businesses like Sakara Life and Melissa Wood Health, Amanda knows what it feels like to keep proving yourself. She also knows the freedom of finally letting people have their opinions while you get on with being who you c...

Collective Numerology Forecast for October: You’re Not Meant to Build It Alone You know what you want to build. Who do you want building it with you? This week Zoey and Amelia are back with your October numerology forecast. October is a collective 2 month, and Zoey wants us to pay attention to our people. Who believes in what we’re making? Who can we ask for help? And where are we still trying to...

Hello, divine darlings, and welcome to our first-ever Hotline Round Table! This week, Zoey is joined by Kitty Knorr and Cat Lantigua to talk about creative callings, the angst of ignoring the ideas that won’t leave you alone and why you don’t need to feel completely confident before you start. You know that idea that keeps coming back no matter how many times you try to ignore it? What would happe...

(Episode #360) What happens when the part of you that's dying refuses to go quietly? In this episode of The Bitching Hour's live coaching series, we're sitting with surrender, self-trust, and the strange courage it takes to choose yourself. Today's conversation moves through the space between old identities and new ones — from a decision that feels too big to make, to the fear of betting on your o...

What if the feelings you’ve been judging yourself for are actually trying to tell you something? This week, Zoey and Amelia are back with more of your Hotline questions! This round is all about the things we’re sometimes afraid to admit. Is it okay to outgrow a friendship when no one did anything wrong? Does wanting money, success, or a partner who spoils you make you shallow ? And what do you do...

(Episode #13) Ever felt like you had to shrink yourself down to be understood by the people who love you? In this week's Bitching Hour, we're talking about the tender, confusing work of staying open-hearted while living a life your loved ones can't quite compute — and why detaching from being understood might be the most freeing thing you ever do. This week's call opens in death-and-rebirth territ...

What if the closure you’ve been waiting for was never theirs to give you? This week Zoey sits down with author, activist and educator Najwa Zebian for a conversation about what happens when we stop handing our healing back to the people who hurt us. Najwa talks about the stories we tell ourselves about why someone hurt us – and why that's what tends to consume us. Together they explore a vital tru...

(Episode #11) What if the only thing standing between you and receiving is your own permission? This week's live coaching covers a lot of ground: a freelancer weighing a stable corporate job against the terrifying, exciting possibility that her dreams are actually coming true; a business owner who's been hemorrhaging energy and money while convinced the answer is always to give more; a handywoman...

September is here and the energy is loud. We’ve officially reached the peak of the year, which means everything you’ve been moving through since January is getting turned all the way up. This week Zoey sits down with Amelia for the September numerology forecast and gets into why this month is such a powerful turning point in both your personal year and our collective Year 1. They talk about the di...

What happens to our intuition when the world never gives us a moment to be still? This week, Zoey is joined by author and spiritual teacher Tracee Stanley for a conversation about ritual, self-remembrance, and the power of reclaiming our attention. Tracee shares how ritual became part of her everyday life, why she believes “truth does not thrive in distraction,” and how technology and optimization...

(Episode #10) What if the thing you're most afraid people will think of you is actually the doorway to your next evolution? In this eclipse episode of our live coaching series inside The Bitching Hour! , we're digging into the fear of being seen — in money, in visibility, and in not knowing what comes next. If you've ever felt guilty for wanting support, or terrified of being watched, this is the...

The intuitive hit was real. So why does it keep feeling like something to defend? This week Zoey and Amelia dig into what happens after you make the call, when the payoff hasn't shown up yet and your ego won't stop arguing with a decision your gut already made. They open with Crybaby Club, where Amelia gets honest about the complex grief of finally landing her dream life abroad and immediately fee...

(Episode #9) Have you ever felt the universe rearrange itself the second you decided to level up? In this two-part live coaching series inside The Bitching Hour!, we're digging into the beliefs, signals, and body signs that show up right before a timeline shift. Today’s conversation is a dive into capacity, belief, and receptivity. Brittany and Zoey coach one client through a chaotic week of broke...

Have you ever been told to keep your gifts to yourself? What if the very thing you were taught to hide is actually the thing the world needs from you most? On this episode of The Higher Self Hotline, Zoey talks with Dr. Judith Orloff, UCLA psychiatric faculty member and author of The Empath's Survival Guide and Second Sight, about what it actually means to be an empath and how to protect your ener...