The Elusive Dck Podcast

Marjorie and Barbara are enjoying a short summer break and will return September 15th. Please stay tuned for more soon!   The Elusive Dick offers a different perspective on dating and relationships, blending comedy with cultural commentary for women navigating love, desire, and independence later in life. Whether you're single, dating again, trying to understand modern dating slang, or wondering w...

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie puts Barbara to the test with a crash course in modern dating vocabulary. From decoding the latest dating terms to figuring out what exactly “shreking” means, the ladies discover just how quickly the language of dating has evolved—and whether they can keep up.   The conversation turns to the elusive idea of “the spark” and why so many of us keep search...

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara unpack a truly unsettling dating story involving a couples therapist who may not have been exactly who he presented himself to be. The experience sparks a bigger conversation about dating red flags, authenticity, trust, and how to recognize when someone's words and actions don't match.   The ladies also explore the surprising benefits of st...

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara are joined once again by fan-favorite guest Irina for an unfiltered catch-up on the latest twists in their dating lives. From unforgettable new characters to the season's official pen pal awards and the prize for the weirdest dating experience yet, the ladies recap the highs, the lows, and everything in between that makes modern dating both...

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara welcome back Irina for a powerful conversation exploring the connection between the mind, body, and emotions. Together, they dive into somatic healing, emotional awareness, and why the experiences we carry often live in our bodies long after we've moved on mentally. From relationships to personal growth, the ladies explore what it really me...

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara catch up after a summer dating slump, sharing the latest updates on their romantic lives and the mindset shifts helping them get back out there. From new connections to familiar faces, the ladies discuss what happens when you give someone another chance, why leveling up can change your dating experience, and the unexpected twists that keep...

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara are joined by Barbara's longtime friend Mark for a thoughtful conversation that blends personal experience with professional insight into modern relationships. Together, they explore what creates lasting connection, why authenticity matters, and how our friendships and romantic relationships evolve throughout different seasons of life.   Th...

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara catch up on the latest twists in their dating lives, from a Fourth of July boat excursion on the Hudson River together to unexpected reconnections over the holiday weekend and the conversations that can change the course of a relationship. The ladies share updates on new connections, an unfortunate Times Square kiss, some daily texting upda...

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara welcome back Irina for an inspiring conversation about healing, personal growth, and why building a strong relationship with yourself is the foundation for every healthy relationship. As she launches a new women's program through La Femme Rose, Irina shares how creating spaces for connection, support, and community can help women navigate l...

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara dive into one of the biggest questions in modern dating: are you looking for lifelong partnership, or is companionship enough? The ladies explore the idea of intermittent companionship, a topic brought up online by @sincerelydivorced, the growing desire for meaningful connection without traditional relationship expectations, and how dating...

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara catch up on the latest adventures in their dating lives, from girls night out and a vacation to Mexico to an unexpected discovery: is there actually a nude beach in New York City's five boroughs? Along the way, the ladies share fresh dating updates, hilarious observations, and the unpredictable new strange requests.   The conversation dives...

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara are joined by guests Tarren and Sydney, two women who traded life in Texas and Oklahoma for New York City and discovered that dating in a big city can be a completely different experience. From meeting partners in unconventional ways to navigating the challenges of building relationships in a fast-paced environment, the conversation explore...

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara hand out their highly anticipated dating superlatives, revealing the ones who are taking the lead of the season's biggest categories—including Most Elusive, Most Emotionally Available, and the coveted Most Misfit Toy award.   The conversation takes a turn when Marjorie shares the most outrageous request she's ever received from a date (a jo...

Emotional Connection & Modern Relationships | The Elusive Dick Podcast   In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara catch up on the latest developments in their dating lives, including a few unexpected blasts from the past, a Mother's Day special, and the one-year anniversary of the moment Barbara changed her age range on the dating apps—an experiment that completely reshaped he...

In this episode of The Elusive Dck, Marjorie and Barbara share real, unfiltered dating after 50 stories, diving into the question: are men over 50 who have never been married or have kids a red flag—or just misunderstood? From routines and independence to commitment and views on caregiving, the ladies unpack how life experience shapes readiness for a real relationship in modern dating.   The conve...

In this episode of The Elusive Dck, Marjorie and Barbara share real, unfiltered dating after 50 stories, diving into their current dating rotations, evolving connections, and the reality of navigating modern dating. From tracking who’s the most elusive and now the most emotionally available, to breaking down communication patterns and consistency, the ladies unpack what actually matters in today’s...

In this week’s conversation, Marjorie and Barbara dive into the role of emotional intelligence in modern dating and why age or maturity doesn’t always equal readiness for a real relationship. From recognizing who is actually willing to show up to understanding the difference between emotional awareness and emotional availability, the ladies unpack how these dynamics play out in real dating experie...

In this week’s conversation, Marjorie and Barbara catch up on the latest in their dating lives, including a surprising Easter gift, new updates from recent connections, and which prospects actually made it off the phone and into real-life dates. From the classic “hi, are you single?” text to navigating a permanent pen pal situation, the ladies unpack the realities of communication and follow-throu...

In this week’s conversation, Marjorie takes us deeper into her story, reflecting on what she calls her early “white bread” upbringing and what it meant to grow up as a middle child who always felt destined for more. From a vibrant and expansive college experience to exciting post-college roles that allowed her to explore the world, Marjorie shares how curiosity, ambition, and instinct shaped the l...

The conversation dives into "cougars" vs "cubs," dating younger men, and how shifting perspectives can open doors you never thought you’d walk through. Marjorie challenges Barbara to consider something completely outside her usual comfort zone, while a new character enters the mix and keeps things interesting.   It’s a candid look at dating after 50, attraction, communication, and why sometimes th...

In this week’s conversation, Marjorie and Barbara shift gears and begin sharing their origin stories, starting with Barbara. From growing up in rural New Jersey and navigating early messages around sex, relationships, and religion, to wanting to leave college without the label of “virgin,” Barbara reflects on meeting her husband right after graduating college and the relationship that would shape...

In this week’s conversation, Marjorie and Barbara catch up on where they are in their dating lives right now. Just off of a vacation, Barbara and Marjorie talk about feeling like you’ve landed in the land of misfit toys. Barbara reflects on how one-night stands don’t quite hit the same anymore, while Marjorie navigates resurfacing connections from her past and what it means when old stories reappe...

In this week’s conversation, Marjorie and Barbara catch up on the latest in their dating lives, from unforgettable bad dates to the evolving realities of modern dating. The ladies introduce a few new characters—including Maria (60) and Anastasia (30)—and unpack everything from “MEN-O-PAUSE” moments to why “short kings” might still be tall in the right places. Along the way, they share stories abou...

This week Marjorie and Barbara catch up on their latest dating stories, from Barbara's Miami girls trip filled with poolside texting escapades to unexpected updates from past prospects. Barbara shares highlights from escaping the cold and navigating modern dating while traveling, while Marjorie walks us through a promising connection that didn’t quite land—and why not making time for something as...

In this week’s conversation, Marjorie and Barbara are joined by Cate, a high-end interior designer, to talk about navigating marriage, divorce at a young age, and the resilience it takes to rebuild your life and yourself after it all. From shifting friendships as people get engaged, married, and divorced, to the emotional evolution that comes with starting over, the conversation explores what it r...