Talk With Yaks

"The goal is to maintain your individuality rather than losing yourself to prove that you love a person." > In today's episode, I took time to explain that a healthy relationship doesn't necessarily demand that you lose yourself. However, it can challenge you to let go of bad character traits to embrace something better. And we stressed that relying on our spouse's attention to validate our worth...

Ever felt lost in loving someone? In this Talk With Yaks episode, we'll be discussing the issue of identity crisis in love relationships, what happens when love takes over our values, dreams and individuality, and how to find ourselves again without ceasing to love the other person. Come learn how to be aware of self, grow and keep your identity while developing a healthy relationship!

We'll discover in Part 2 the realities of creating a healthy relationship, acknowledging our own weaknesses and getting ready to love someone well. There's a lot more to finding love than being prepared to keep it. I hope you listen with an open heart.

Are You READY for a Relationship? Wanting a relationship doesn't necessarily mean you're ready for a relationship. On this episode of Talk With Yaks, we'll delve into what it actually means to be prepared for a healthy romantic relationship. We talk about emotional maturity, being self-aware, healing from past experiences, knowing what's important to you, stating your needs, and taking accountabil...

Though chemistry can attract, character is what ensures that a relationship can last. And that was established in the previous episode. We further explored in this episode of Talk With Yaks why character is more important than chemistry when selecting a life partner, the importance of values and emotional maturity in a long, satisfying relationship and why attraction is not enough to foster a heal...

Attraction can be created in chemistry, but character is what makes a relationship work in the long-term. In this episode of Talk With Yaks we discuss the importance of character beyond the butterflies, physical attraction and emotional connection. We discuss characteristics that demonstrate a person's character—and how selecting someone by character can make all the difference in forming a health...

In this concluding part of Dating Basics, we explored more fundamentals of dating that no one tells you about like, setting healthy boundaries, knowing yourself, communication, intentions, and paying attention to how the relationship makes you feel, among others. This is a down-to-earth discussion for anyone in a modern relationship. ‎

Dating can be fun, confusing and overwhelming. While it is important to feel the emotion, attraction and expectations, before diving in there are a few basic rules that everyone should know. On this episode of Talk With Yaks, we take the time to go back to the basics of dating, what it's all about, some of the common pitfalls and problems to avoid, and how to approach relationships clearly and int...

If we love each other, that's all that matters, is our saying. However, is love really enough to make a relationship work? ‎We examine in this episode of Talk With Yaks, what can go wrong when two people really love each other, but find they do not communicate, understand, have the same values, emotional maturity or commitment. ‎Sometimes, love is there, but there's something missing in the relati...

"We love each other and that's all that matters." Sounds beautiful, right? Sometimes, such is not the case. If it takes more than love, then what are other things? Join me in this first episode as I introduce this vital topic to us. As always, listen with an open heart.

In this concluding episode of How Good Relationships Slowly Die, we offered practical solutions to the various threats to the peace of your relationship. ‎As always, listen with an open heart. ‎

Sometimes, not all relationships come to an end when one person cheats. ‎At times, they fade out over time as both people talk less, the effort becomes inconsistent, affection becomes an option, and two people who were once very much alike begin to feel more and more like strangers in the same relationship. ‎In this episode of Talk With Yaks we discuss the subtle, unspoken, and commonly overlooked...

We discuss what patience is in a romantic relationship in this episode of Talk With Yaks. Is patience about giving love and people room to grow, or can it sometimes become an excuse for settling? We examine the problems of being impatient, conflict, different timelines, rebuilding trust and learning to grow together (plus finding the balance between loving patiently and having healthy boundaries)....

‎In this episode of Talk With Yaks, we discussed why in relationships it's important to meet the other person halfway. Love is not a score-keeping game. Instead, it is about two persons who choose to see, understand, compromise and cooperate. We also explored that compromise doesn't mean giving up on yourself. And why it is hard to be compromise and how couples can find a way to make their relatio...

‎Chasing financial stability is not a bad thing, right? ‎In today's world where everyone is seen chasing financial stability, it is not hard for love to take the back seat in the car. ‎We work longer hours, take on extra jobs, and pursue bigger dreams—all with the hope of getting a better tomorrow. However, what happens when the search of a better life begins to cost us the very relationships we'r...

When asked, “are men polygamous?” Two other questions come to mind: Is it really about nature, or is it about character? Join me this week as we take an in-depth look at a question that has divided people for ages. ‎In today’s episode, we explore the topic through the lenses of biological research, history, culture, and religion, asking whether men's behavior is determined by instinct or shaped by...

‎Do women really love money, or is it what money represents? ‎This has been on the mind of most men especially in this age of social media, rising expectations and economic uncertainties. Again I ask, ‎is it really about money or what it represents? ‎Join me today as we take a look at this delicate topic.

What happens when you both are in love, yet have different visions of the future or even of the present? Is it such a bad thing or perhaps selfish? Does that mean the relationship is doomed? Join me as we explore what it really means and how to overcome such challenges.

‎"Alone Together" refers to those in romantic relationships who cannot feel their spouses' presence. Such is the reality of many people. So, join me as we explore what could lead to such things and how we can overcome them when it comes knocking on our door.

Where does love meet reality and ‎how often does reality come knocking at the door? ‎ In today's world, love is often shaped by financial realities, social pressures, and evolving expectations. however, in this episode, we explore the compound relationship between love and money, demystifying how both the lack and abundance of money can affect romantic relationships. Join me as I discuss modern da...

A relationship can survive many things, but unspoken pressure around money has broken more hearts than people admit. In this episode, we explore how love and finances collide—provider pressure, unmet expectations, financial struggles, pride, dependence, ambition, and the emotional weight money can place on a relationship. Because sometimes, it’s not just about the money—it’s about what it represen...

In this episode, we explore one of the biggest misunderstandings in relationships — expecting our partners to automatically know what we feel, need, or mean. Love Is Not Mind Reading is a heartfelt conversation about communication, assumptions, emotional labor, and the courage it takes to speak honestly. Because healthy love is not built on guessing games, but on clarity, understanding, and intent...

In this episode, we explore the quiet fear many people carry in relationships—the fear of being fully known. From hiding our flaws and wounds to struggling with vulnerability, we unpack why true intimacy can feel so uncomfortable, yet so necessary. Join me as we talk about trust, emotional safety, authenticity, and what it really takes to let someone see the real you.

This episode takes an honest and uncomfortable look at the narcissism in us—the subtle ways pride, self-focus, and the need for validation can quietly shape our relationships. It’s not just about identifying narcissistic traits in others, but recognizing the patterns within ourselves that hinder love, empathy, and growth. Join me as we unpack how these tendencies show up, the damage they can cause...

We say we want deep love—the kind that feels safe, honest, and lasting. But often, we shy away from the deep work it requires: healing, accountability, hard conversations, and growth. In this episode, I explore the quiet tension between our desire for meaningful connection and our fear of what it takes to build it. Because the truth is, you can’t experience deep love without first embracing deep w...