Someone Should Stop Us

International DJ Jaesyun breaks down what actually drives success in the music industry and why ego can quietly destroy your reputation. From life behind the decks to the realities of navigating gay nightlife, we unpack how relationships and personality sometimes matter more than talent. We discuss the politics of rave culture, what separates a great party from just another night out, and whether...

Monogamy is the default — but is it actually a choice we make? Even as open relationships and throuples become more visible in the queer community, non-monogamy is still seen as “too much” in some circles. With Tyler two years single and Kelly nearly a decade into a now-open relationship, personalities and expectations clash in what becomes less a structured debate and more a collision of lived ex...

In our first episode, we sit down with no agenda and immediately realize why making and keeping relationships in your thirties feels inexplicably harder than it used to. Between work, burnout, and adult life in NYC, a casual catch-up turns into an honest conversation about what’s actually changed—and what we want to change going into 2026. We didn’t come in with a plan, but we leave with a few unc...

Between coming-out scenes in media, increased visibility, and the expectations that come with both, we start asking why progress always seems to require an explanation. We talk about how coming out is often treated like the finish line, when it’s really just the beginning—and how visibility can quietly turn into pressure. Touching on “gay monogamy,” hyper-sexualization in gay culture, and the real...