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Hello my sweet babies! Today we’re reaching back into the archives and talking about the emotional fallout from ending a situationship. In this episode I share three tips to regain your self-trust after it all ends - letting go of the fear that you will make the same choice, again, with future partners. I hope this makes you feel that undeniable confidence I know you deserve! – Please rate, review...

Please enjoy this re-release my interview with Allison Ramsey. Allison is a licensed psychotherapist and fertility survivor with a background in environmental education. Her calling is to help women realign with the rhythms of nature to reclaim their peace. Today she’s going to show us all how to understand the seasons of our lives and how we can grow starting today. Get in touch with Allison and...

Sometimes situationships span years without resolution. Believe me - I’ve been there! Today, I’m sharing a personal story of a decade-long situationship and reflecting on the blurred lines between nostalgia, fantasy, and reality. Let’s stop romanticizing one-sided relationships and start recognizing red flags. Tune in for a candid conversation on choosing yourself and finding clarity in relationsh...

In this episode, we’re talking about the confusion and emotional toll of situationships. We’ve probably all ween Pop the Balloon - inspired by the addictive dating show, we’re reflecting on how to honor our boundaries and make swift decisions when partners don’t match our needs. Let’s explore the importance of recognizing deal breakers and avoiding unhealthy situations. Join us as we unpack how to...

I’m answering a listener question today: What should you do when your ex asks for space but still wants to be friends? Let’s talk about what this ‘waiting period’ could look like and how to set boundaries while staying true to yourself. Are you waiting on him to work on himself, or are you living your life? Listen in as I offer advice on navigating this tricky situation and why respecting space is...

Have you ever been in a relationship where you felt constantly hurt, misunderstood, or ignored? Today I’m breaking down my own experiences with bad behavior in relationships—from emotional manipulation to financial abuse. We’ll talk about recognizing these unhealthy patterns, understanding how they impact your self-worth, and how to finally let go. So let’s empower ourselves to reclaim our confide...

How do you choose between the “perfect on paper” guy and the “exciting but toxic” guy? Trick question: you don’t have to settle for either. You can set your standards as high as you want. Your caregivers might have set a bad example for what relationships look like but it doesn’t mean you have to keep repeating the pattern. Let’s empower ourselves to redefine our core values, identify our needs ve...

In this episode, we’re exploring how to shift focus from the all-consuming pursuit of relationships to prioritizing self-exploration and personal growth. I open up about my own experiences and challenges with balancing the desire for long-term love with the need for self-discovery and fulfillment outside of romantic partnerships. Tune in for some practical tips on how to embrace the journey of dat...

Why don’t we think we’re deserving of ease? When you sit down to rest, do you feel guilty, like you should always be accomplishing something? All too often, high achievers work tirelessly for a better life but never actually enjoy their free time or money. Let’s explore why we act this way and how we can teach ourselves to just CHILL. Together, we can learn to balance high achievement with self-ca...

Hey loves, welcome back! Are you allergic to green flags? We know red flags, but green flags are the healthy signs in a relationship. When we’re used to toxic dynamics, green flags can feel unsettling. If we’re used to chaos and not getting our needs met, consistency and reliability can feel too good to be true. That’s totally normal! Let’s explore how to embrace healthy relationships and navigate...

Are you paying attention to intangible qualities? In this episode, we explore the importance of feeling safe, emotionally supported, and respected in relationships. Discover why focusing on these traits over superficial ones like looks and status can transform your connections. We’ll also discuss how recognizing these qualities can help you navigate toxic situationships and build a fulfilling life...

Hey loves, we're back with a fresh perspective on self-worth and relationships! Today we’re getting into how our sense of value shapes our behavior, leading us to over-function in our connections. Let's explore the roots of our patterns so we can break free from the cycle of seeking validation. You deserve to show up authentically and feel like your true self is enough. Tune in and let's grow toge...

Ready for a dating detox? Join us as we explore the power of resetting your mindset with Lily Womble. Learn to embrace essence-based preferences and transform your love life into a joyful, intentional journey. Tune in for empowering insights and practical advice. – Please rate, review, and share the show with your friends! Follow Lily on Instagram & TikTok Learn more on the Date Brazen site Pr...

In this episode, we explore the difference between having a "type" and recognizing relationship patterns. Learn how to break free from cycles of emotional unavailability and attract the love you deserve. Discover how to identify and change your relationship patterns for healthier, more fulfilling connections. 💖✨ – Please rate, review, and share the show with your friends! Follow the show on Inst...

Oh, situationships... they really are what you make of them! If it's meeting a need, keep it going. But if it's hurting you or your self-esteem, then it's time to exit stage left. What matters is that you aren’t lying to yourself. Don't stick around expecting their values to change or expecting them to see your worth. Instead, accept it for what it is: temporary. Tune in as we explore why we stay...

This week, dive into the complex world of female friendships with the insightful Danielle Bayard Jackson, certified friendship coach, educator, and author of "Fighting for Our Friendships." In this episode, Danielle explores the nuanced dynamics of disagreements among women, the natural lifecycle of friendships, and when it might be time to let go. With her extensive background, including founding...

Hey loves, today we're hitting the facts on toxic relationships—no fluff, just the real deal. We're unpacking disrespect, boundary violations, and how to spot manipulation. It's all about cutting through the drama to find your joy and self-worth. Ready to empower yourself and live your best life? Let’s do this together! – Please rate, review, and share the show with your friends! Follow the show o...

Hey there! Ever felt stuck in the "good faux girlfriend" cycle? Let's dive deep into proving our worth in relationships on Situationship. Join me as we uncover the dynamics of constantly jumping at the chance to see them, unsure of when we'll hear from them again. It's time to reclaim our identity and goals. Tune in for tips on setting boundaries, prioritizing self-love, and breaking free from the...

Hi loves! I just wanted to check in with a mini-sode. As season changes, we begin to grow. As we do, let's define our needs, wants, and core values. Because, let's be real, how can you get what you want if you're not sure what it is? – Please rate, review, and share the show with your friends! Follow the show on Instagram @SituationshitPod Follow me @SoireesInTherapy If you want to work with me, v...

I'm excited to talk about this episode today. There was a time where I could never have imagined going on a solo date. One day I decided I was just going to go and you know what? And I ended up loving it. Loving it! Do you hear me? I loved it. So give it a try. When you do it, come back and let me know what you've realized about yourself, what you were surprised by, what you enjoyed, and maybe wha...

Hey loves and lovelies, this week, we're delving into the labyrinth of breakups, but not just the negative side—we're exploring the profound, personal transformations they can ignite in us. Whether it's romantic, platonic, or professional, breakups can leave us feeling scattered, but they also present a unique opportunity for self-discovery and growth. So, grab your white claw (or your comfort bev...

Hey loves! I hope you are well. Today, we're talking about what it looks like to practice self worth. What does self-worth mean to you? If you're like me, it can be easy to get stuck in the mindset that your worth is defined by others. Check in with your values and remember that it's ok to feel like you deserve happiness.  - Please rate, review, and share the show with your friends! Follow th...

Today on the show we have Marissa Esquibel. You met her a few episodes ago when I released an interview from her podcast Codependummy Marissa is a psychotherapist who provides talk therapy online to young women struggling with codependency, depression, and anxiety. Codependent behavior begins in childhood as a way to adapt to our surroundings. It begins a lifelong pattern of prioritizing the needs...

 Today’s episode has been in the works for a long time. Let me introduce TikTok personality, performer, and digital marketing maven Jazelle. She uses her online presence to explore and celebrate the joys of being part of the “baby gay” community. What’s a baby gay? Don’t worry - we define it in the episode. Tune in to learn how to give yourself permission to show up as you are and live your life t...

This is a rebroadcast of an episode of Parts, Power & Leadership. Hosts Ruth and Kristin had never heard the term “situationship” and I had a great time getting into the definition with them. The focus of their show is on women in leadership so I shared how I became a business owner and traced my entrepreneurial roots all the way back to childhood. ---- Dontea' talks with us about situationshi...