Situationsh!t

If you're really great at figuring out what people need, maybe it's because you HAD to get good at it. A lot of us who come from environments where people didn't directly communicate their feelings grew into adults who prioritize the comfort of others. Don't be afraid to speak up. Your needs are just as important as anyone else's! – Please rate, review, and share the show with your friends! Follow...

It's beyond normal to wonder about your ex and even fantasize about reuniting to try again. There are so many moments after you leave a relationship, whether it be a situationship or not, where you often wonder if you made the right choice. Should you go back or keep it where it's at? Sit tight. I'll help you decide.  In this episode I share four questions to help you determine whether your e...

Last week we talked about emotionally unavailable men. This week we’re talking about plain old unavailable men. Men who are married, who are married to their jobs, who put everything else before you. If you want to be somebody’s number one you deserve to be somebody’s number one.  – Please rate, review, and share the show with your friends! Follow the show on Instagram @SituationshitPod Follo...

Have you ever been in a relationship where you felt constantly hurt, misunderstood, or ignored? Today I’m breaking down my own experiences with bad behavior in relationships—from emotional manipulation to financial abuse. We’ll talk about recognizing these unhealthy patterns, understanding how they impact your self-worth, and how to finally let go. So let’s empower ourselves to reclaim our confide...

In this episode, we’re exploring how to shift focus from the all-consuming pursuit of relationships to prioritizing self-exploration and personal growth. I open up about my own experiences and challenges with balancing the desire for long-term love with the need for self-discovery and fulfillment outside of romantic partnerships. Tune in for some practical tips on how to embrace the journey of dat...

Hey loves, welcome back! Are you allergic to green flags? We know red flags, but green flags are the healthy signs in a relationship. When we’re used to toxic dynamics, green flags can feel unsettling. If we’re used to chaos and not getting our needs met, consistency and reliability can feel too good to be true. That’s totally normal! Let’s explore how to embrace healthy relationships and navigate...

I'm excited to talk about this episode today. There was a time where I could never have imagined going on a solo date. One day I decided I was just going to go and you know what? And I ended up loving it. Loving it! Do you hear me? I loved it. So give it a try. When you do it, come back and let me know what you've realized about yourself, what you were surprised by, what you enjoyed, and maybe wha...

Hey loves! I hope you are well. Today, we're talking about what it looks like to practice self worth. What does self-worth mean to you? If you're like me, it can be easy to get stuck in the mindset that your worth is defined by others. Check in with your values and remember that it's ok to feel like you deserve happiness.  – Please rate, review, and share the show with your friends! Follow th...

I’m so in love with fall. Let’s FALL in love with ourselves this autumn (I know that was so corny). This episode, I want us to talk about embracing ourselves so we can escape the people pleasing trap. Those of us with people pleaser personalities may forgo our own wants and needs in order to accomodate others. We’re looking for validation, for acceptance, for that stamp of approval. But when you l...

Hey friends! Welcome back. Today, as you can tell from the title, I’ve got one question for you: Are you the comfort seeker? It’s not a bad thing! Don’t worry. It’s just something to be aware of. When you’re feeling low, what do you reach for? Is it a favorite snack, rewatching that same tv show, or maybe some good old fashioned S-E-X? Whatever it is, remember that it’s not the activity that’s nec...

Sometimes when we think of “relationships” we only think of the romantic kind. Remember that everything you’re learning on this podcast and along your self-worth journey can be applied to all other kinds of relationships. Bullying in friendships can be hard to see. It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking that to be somebody’s bestie you have to back them up at every turn. Supporting somebody y...

Go where you’re wanted. It might sound obvious but it’s not. Start noticing how the people in your life make you feel. Are you fighting for attention? Are you silenced? Maybe it’s time to stop worrying about getting affection from people who are withholding and instead choose to spend time with people who value you. – Please rate, review, and share the show with your friends! Follow the show on In...

You might not want to hear this but there are good guys everywhere. In this episode I have 3 tips for getting out of mediocre relationships. Self-worth and happy singledom is the first step to finding a fulfilling relationship and each of my tips were written to help you realize that you truly deserve what you're seeking. – Please rate, review, and share the show with your friends! Follow the show...

Ok, ok. I know the name of the show makes it sound like there’s no such thing as a good situationship. But that’s not necessarily true, boo. It’s still heaux season for a few more days. There’s nothing wrong with something low-commitment so long as everything is above board. Do what you want, have your fun, just be sure to establish the expectations up front. Decide what your needs are and communi...

Sometimes when you need a friend the most, it can be the hardest to reach out. There's no reason to suffer alone. Your friends love you and want to give you support and care. Please rate and review if you enjoy the show! / Don’t forget to rate and review! / Please rate, review, and tell your friends! / If you like the show, be a love and leave us an honest review! / If you’re enjoying the show, le...

I don’t even need to tell you this. You know that feeling. You know when your intuition is telling you something. Don't ignore it! I can tell you, from personal experience, that it’s better to trust yourself right away than let things get worse. A like and a follow sure helps us out!   – Please rate, review, and share the show with your friends! Follow the show on Instagram @SituationshitPod...

We're brining back an early listener letter episode - and it’s a good one! What is the definition of a red flag? And why is it so common to overlook them? Surprise, surprise this all begins in childhood. We are drawn towards what’s familiar. It’s ok to repeat these patterns - it’s only natural. But if you want to stop feeling the pain of unhealthy relationships, identify the difference between som...

Hello loves! On today’s episode of the podcast, we’re revisiting a classic that unpacks the complicated relationship between intimacy and sex. We’re breaking down what it really means when we say intimacy equals sex — but sex doesn’t always equal intimacy. You’ll also learn what defines a “situationship” and how to spot the signs that you might be in one. Plus, we’ll walk through four key schemes...

Ready to explore the cosmic secrets to your ideal match? I'm revisiting this episode with Tamerri and dive into the mystical world of astrology and relationship compatibility. Tamerri is an astrology expert and founder of Gift of the Nile. Discover your hidden astrological insights, get inspired to embrace your unique traits, and find out how your birth chart can influence love and partnership. Tu...

Why is figuring out who you are so important? Well mainly so others don’t impose their own values and truths on you. In this rebroadcast episode, I'll break down why let others lead us without questioning who we are, what we stand for, or what we do not tolerate, we lose ourselves. Take the time to look inside and find a clear sense of your boundaries, expectations, values and desires. Without all...

Today we're going to revisit the topic of “incongruence.” You know that thing that happens when information, reality and behaviors just aren’t lining up? That’s incongruence. When this happens, it leaves the body in a state of confusion, anxiety, and even depression. It can be difficult to ask for clarity when you find yourself in an incongruent situation. Oftentimes, trying to have an honest conv...

A lot of you have asked how to find a therapist, so I decided to come back to this episode answering that question question. There are so many factors to consider that it can be overwhelming. Along with the information in this episode, I’ve created a downloadable PDF that details how to find yourself a therapist.  – Please rate, review, and share the show with your friends! Follow me on Insta...

Welcome back, loves! In this rebroadcast, we’re talking about what it means to “eat the crumbs”. This episode builds on the “situationship” theme from last week and introduces you to next week’s topic of “boundaries”. If you like the show please rate and review - it really helps the podcast!  – Please rate, review, and share the show with your friends! Follow me on Instagram at  @Soirees...

Breakups are hard as shit. I may not be feeling my best, but I’m still here to share the raw truth about my recent breakup, processing the pain, sitting with uncomfortable emotions, and finding support. Today we’re talking about grieving, masking your true feelings, and leaning on your loved ones—I promise they’ll be ready to hold space for you. If you’re stuck in old patterns or struggling to let...

You're going to love this throwback episode with Anwar White! Anwar is a certified dating and relationship coach and host of the “Get Your Guy Coaching” podcast.  Believe it or not, he focuses on coaching smart and successful women - which means YOU, dear listener! Anwar has a unique perspective that he brings to his coaching and to the podcast today and I know you’re going to learn a lot fro...