Single Wives

Join Wendy as she discusses the foundation of all relationships--Safety! The first in a three-part series on the three categories that lead to intimacy in a relationship.

Join Wendy as she discusses the ups and downs of being connected to disconnected men. Also, get her new book:  Single Wives: How to Thrive in a Disconnected Marriage          https://www.amazon.com/author/authorwcb  and check out her website         https://www.emergewild.org.

Wendy walks us through each chapter of her new book, Single Wives: How to Thrive in a Disconnected Marriage. Buy now at Amazon: amazon.com/author/authorwcb

In this episode, Wendy and Terri discuss the practicalities of emotional safety in relationship.

Wendy and Terri take on the topic of triggers in our relationships. Three areas of integration are required and discussed: somatic, cognitive, and emotional.

In this episode the conversation with Pete Vanderpool continues. Join us as we dig further into the power of story.

In this episode we are joined by Pete and Joyce Vanderpool, directors of the Creative Story Project. The discussion centers around who's writing your story and what is writing your story.

In this episode Wendy takes the thoughts of last week's discussion on Biblical Marriage and adds a practical element. What does Biblical marriage look like in real life?

Terri and Wendy hold a discussion about the use of Scripture in the Single Wives ministry. They then meander onto the topic of Biblical Marriage. What have we learned over the years that was wrong and what does a biblical marriage actually look like?

Single Wives is coming back! With a few changes, exciting topics, and empathic support, we are kicking the season off by welcoming and updating everyone on the events of the past year.

In this episode Wendy provides an update and encourages us to change our perspective to invite blessings. She gives us a sweet approach for some of those agonizing difficulties we can experience during the holiday season, and reminds us that emotion feeds emotion, maintaining a positive perspective shapes our experiences, celebrating the truth of the season sustains us, and lots of self-care is mo...

Today, Wendy gives an update concerning the podcast and some thoughts on perspective. God calls us to do justice, love kindness and walk humbly with Him. When we offer that to Him we see things-even in our relationship-differently. 

Click HERE to check out our website! Wendy takes the mic this week to talk about rest. Ladies, we get weary, right? Wendy discusses what is rest, what does it look like, what does it not look like, and how do we step into daily, weekly, and extended periods of rest as needed. Join us on FaceBook "Your Authentic Self is not just your marriage." SHARE the Podcast With Others Tell Us Your S...

Click HERE to check out our website! Terri takes the mic this week and offers a tool set for healthy communication. She tackles the ins and outs of bringing up topics that carry a lot of potential for conflict. Tools include: knowing how you and your spouse process and react to conflict; sandwiching conversation with validation; being clear without too much emotion, taking time and space to think...

Click HERE to check out our website! This week we dive into the use of a specific tool designed to get ahead of the game; anticipate how your spouse might react; and wisely intervene. Wendy tells the story of her new pair of glasses. Although she chose not to use the tool, we analyze the story to discuss how to use it; the choice to use it or not; and living with the possible outcomes of either ch...

Click HERE to check out our website! Building on last week's episode, we discuss ways we can express needs to our spouse. Discussion around how needs can be met is helpful so both spouses are clear on what is meant. If discussion is not easy, it is still important to clearly state needs. If discussion is not possible, boundaries are needed. We talk about practical ways to communicate includin...

Check out our website! In this episode, we discuss the importance of identifying what our needs are in a difficult relationship. Identifying needs can be hard when we are used to having them pressed down or ignored. We'll talk about how to identify them and care for ourselves well. Join us on FaceBook "Your Authentic Self is not just your marriage." SHARE the Podcast With Others Tel...

Check out our website! In Season Two we kick things off with an episode dedicated to discerning whether separation or divorce are recommended or needed when your relationship is so difficult. We'll  also discuss the dance of manipulation; codependency; and who's in control of  the relationship. Join us on FaceBook "Your Authentic Self is not just your marriage." SHARE the Podca...

Date: 3/15/2022  Name of podcast: Everything You See  Episode title and number: Knocking Down Your Walls and Going to God   Episode Five Terri and Wendy discuss what it is like to choose God over going to the barricade. They share how this goes against our independent culture, but how fulfilling it is to do so. Terri and Wendy talk about various steps to being vulnerable before God. They encourage...

Date: 3/08/2022  Name of podcast: Everything You See  Episode title and number: Grieving the Marriage You Thought You Would Have In this episode, Terri and Wendy talk about grief. In disconnected relationships, there is often a heaviness that feels unbearable at times. Much of this can be tied to  various feelings of loss: 1-The marriage you thought you would have, 2-The conversations you expected...

Date: 3/01/2022  Name of podcast: Everything You See  Episode title and number: What Disorders and Injuries Could Be Impacting My Marriage? 03   This week is a little different, Terri and Wendy provide listeners with psychoeducation about possible relationship dynamics that impact a lack of emotional connection. They provide information on autism spectrum disorder, attachment disorders in adults,...

Date: 2/22/2022  Name of podcast: Everything You See  Episode title and number: Losing ourselves in the barricade of perceived safety: 02   Episode Two involves Terri and Wendy discussing pain and loneliness in difficult marriages by revisiting the place of pain from the first episode. Terri shares a story of hating her situation and herself and calling out to God to give her hope and change. Terr...

Episode One introduces your hosts Terri Bone and Wendy Brown. Together they will tell the story about how Everything You See became a Podcast and introduce the theme of Season One. This season will relate to difficulties in marriage which can leave a spouse feeling lonely. Terri and Wendy will also discuss how we truly find God and ourselves by being vulnerable to Him. The three main points of Epi...