Seeing Other People

Kate Anthony , certified divorce coach and host of The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast, joins the show. We discuss how to decide if you should stay or leave your relationship, what factors lead to a divorce being amicable vs messy, and how to actually go about getting a divorce. We chat about prenups, couples therapy, the US litigation system, children of divorce, co-parenting, dating after divorce...

On Unfiltered, I sit down with a 26 year old social worker and therapist who practices in New York City. We hear about her dating experience in her late teens and early twenties that led to the heartbreak that shaped who she is today. She shares what it’s like to date as a therapist, what she learns from her patients, what it’s like to hear her patients be vulnerable all day long while she struggl...

On today’s episode I’m joined by Jen Glantz , founder of Bridesmaid For Hire , 3x author, and host of You’re Not Getting Younger. Jen and I discuss how to cope with being the only one of your friends who isn’t engaged, going to weddings solo while feeling depressed about your own love life, and what you should expect if you have never been a bridesmaid before. We learn how we can best support our...

On today's episode of Unfiltered, I sit down with a woman who shares what she went through when she caught her boyfriend hooking up with a stripper. She tells us what it was like finding this out, how she reacted to it, and how it impacted her dating life for years to come. We discuss wanting to change people, not having our needs met in situationships, and lying to ourselves about what kind of re...

Laura Behnke joins the Seeing Other People family today to explain why you need to throw out your timeline. After 16 years of success as an award-winning television journalist, Laura still couldn’t help but feel like she was “behind” as she was in her 30s and had never been in a relationship. We discuss how to stop worrying about where you “should” be in your life, how to not feel like there’s som...

On today’s episode of Unfiltered, I sit down with Romeo, who shares the story about his on again, off again relationship that began in college. We hear about the highs and lows of the relationship, the pressure he faced from his peers as a college athlete to have a get girls mentality, the breakups, the makeups, cheating, anxiety and more. Romeo explains how he overcame his heartbreak and worked t...

On today's episode, I sit down with Kevin Nahai, a personal coach who focuses on helping people with anxiety, low self esteem, and finding a healthy relationship. We dive into the ins and outs of dating anxiety including: how to know if your anxiety is coming from you or from them, how to stop attracting unhealthy partners, how to not get anxious when someone doesn’t text back, why you should focu...

On this episode of unfiltered I sit down with a woman from Canada who shares her story of booking a flight to New York City to meet somebody who she matched with on bumble a few months earlier. We hear what their conversations were like leading up to the trip, what happened when she finally got there, and how everything was not at all what she thought it was going to be like. Cuffing season is her...

On this episode I’m joined by Jordan and Zac Stenmark , twins, international models and entrepreneurs. We discuss their dating and relationship experiences as twins, world travelers, and businessmen. We hear about Dreamers , the company they founded to help people sleep better and stay mentally healthy so we can be our best selves in work, dating, and daily life. They share their personal dating s...

On today’s episode of Unfiltered, I talk to Jillian about dating as a little person. She shares what it’s like to live and date in a world that’s not designed for you. We discuss dating apps, common misconceptions, what she wishes people knew, and more. Jillian hosts a podcast called Always Looking Up – check it out if you want to hear honest and real stories about being a little person in an aver...

David Sauvage is an empath, an expert on empathy, and a teacher of empathy and emotional intelligence. He joins us today to help us learn how to communicate more honestly, openly, and empathetically. We discuss healthy vs. unhealthy communication, how to learn healthy communication if you did not grow up witnessing it, how to encourage your partner to communicate in a healthier way, the process of...

TW: Eating disorder thoughts and behaviors.  On today’s episode I sit down with Sam, a woman who is in recovery from her eating disorder. She shares how her eating disorder impacted her dating life prior to seeking treatment and how she’s been navigating it while in recovery. We’re focusing on finding love this cuffing season, and we’re turning to Mindset Wellness CBD’s focus gummies to keep us on...

Sami Wunder is a leading international relationship and dating expert who specializes in working with ambitious, high-achieving women, helping them attract lasting romantic love. Sami joins us to discuss breaking toxic relationship patterns, how to identify why you’re still single, why rotational dating might be the key to finding love, making time for dating, having both career and relationship s...

On today's Unfiltered episode, I sit down with a 28-year-old guy from New York City named Sam. Sam walks us through his complicated relationship with Taylor that began right before covid started, resulting in an unexpected Long distance relationship. Sam shares the struggles that he and Taylor faced including lack of communication, internal mental health issues, external pressures, family members...

Gigi Robinson, Gen Z thought leader, chronic illness and mental health advocate, and the host of Spotify Greenroom's "Everything You Need Is Within" joins the show today. We discuss how social media makes us feel more single and isolated than we are, what it feels to not have gone on a date since 2019, dating during covid when you are immune compromised, how quarantine impacted friendships, naviga...

Caitlin Kelley, host of What The Fuck’s Up podcast, joins us for a deep dive into all things cheating. We analyze your responses to a series of cheating-focused IG story question boxes and polls, and discuss why people cheat, if they get caught if they come clean, the long term impacts of cheating and being cheated on, and how cheaters feel in the moment.  Caitlin shares her own story of being che...

UNFILTERED: In this episode, I sit down with a woman who shares a story about being diagnosed with vaginismus. Vaginismus is a condition in which the vaginal muscles contract involuntarily during any form of vaginal penetration. Depending on the woman, the effects of vaginismus can vary from mild discomfort to severe pain. She shares what it was like to receive her diagnosis and how it’s impacted...

Artist and songwriter Gayle joins the show today to talk about what it’s like transforming her dating experiences into music and lyrics. We talk about the breakup that led to her new single "abcdefu," what it’s like putting her raw emotions out there for the world to hear, turning heartbreak into music, dating within the industry, writing revenge songs, the fear of never being good enough, and mor...

TW: the following content may be sensitive for those who have experienced any form of sexual assault. On today’s episode, I’m joined by a woman who had a nonconsensual sexual experience when she was a college student. We hear about the events leading up to this, what actually happened in the moment, and how it’s impacted her longterm. We discuss guilt, trust, consent, communication, safe dating an...

Tinah (with an H) Ogalo , host of the In Your Twentys podcast , joins us today for a deep dive into the most controversial and shocking poll results from the @seeingotherpeople Instagram Story that you’ve all been voting on. Get ready to hear about politics, cheating, family involvement, social media stalking, commitment issues, exclusivity and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megapho...

TW: the following content may be sensitive for those with an eating disorder. On today’s episode, we hear from a 25 year old male who has struggled with body image issues and an eating disorder. He shares what it’s been like to date and use dating apps when you aren’t comfortable in your own skin. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.co...

Today we’re joined by Dr. Abby Medcalf, psychologist, best-selling author of "Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won't Do a Thing Kindle" and host of the "Relationships Made Easy" podcast. We’re sitting down to discuss everything that you need to know about moving on, leaving the past in the past and not letting previous dating and relationship experiences impact present and future ones. Abb...

On today’s Unfiltered episode, Ilana sits down with Daniela, a 27 year old female living in Toronto, Canada. Daniela shares the story of the breakup she went through due to her partner's parents not supporting their relationship because of factors including her ethnicity, immigration status, age, career, and appearance. We discuss how this impacted her relationship, her self worth, and her values...

LDR (Long Distance Relationship) survivors Jamie and Max walk us through the highs and lows of the four-year long distance span of their relationship. We discuss their decision to pursue a long-distance relationship during college, how they involved each other in their lives from afar, what visiting each other was like, how important it was to trust one another and practice straightforward communi...

Ilana sits down with a 28 heterosexual woman who currently lives in New York. She opens up about her first dating app experiences in 2019, which included somebody who ghosted her out of nowhere followed by a situation that had a tremendous negative impact on her mental and physical health. We discuss how she overcame these traumatizing experiences in order to get back out there and end up in a hea...