Saved Not Soft

Does God pick my spouse? In this episode, Malik and I talk about choosing a partner for marriage, seeking God's wisdom, and what it means to see marriage as a sacred covenant. Is there one person God has chosen for you—or are you called to make a wise, prayerful choice and faithfully build a life together? We share our thoughts on discernment, commitment, and the beauty and weight of the marriage...

On this episode we have a very special guest; Megan Ashley joining us for the podcast! Megan is like a big sister to Emy and we shared all things prayer, intimacy with Jesus, fellowship with the Holy Spirit, and avoiding a "performing" christian walk. Enjoy!   Check out the Elah Ring at elahring.com and use my code SAVEDNOTSOFT!!

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What does atonement mean—and why is it essential to truly knowing Jesus? In this episode, we move beyond simply talking about Jesus to understanding who He is, what He accomplished, and why it changes everything. Beginning in Genesis and tracing the story through the tabernacle, the priesthood, the Day of Atonement, and the book of Hebrews, we see how the Old Testament continually points toward th...

Talking about money in church should not be awkward—especially when Scripture has so much to say about it. In this episode, we are removing the shame, fear, and defensiveness surrounding finances and returning the conversation to its proper foundation: our love for Jesus. Beginning with the sacrificial generosity of the gospel, we explore how our spending, giving, working, and saving reveal what h...

In this episode, Malik and I sit down for a real conversation about what it actually looks like to lead as young adults. We talk about the weight of leadership, the reality of being Christian influencers, the pressure of being seen, and the difference between having a platform and having true responsibility. This is not a polished “we have it all figured out” conversation. It’s honest, simple, and...

In this episode, we’re talking about what it means to live fully alive in Jesus — not distracted, not numb, not ruled by fear, and not stuck in unbelief that better days are possible. Life is too short to spend it chasing temporary praise, burying your gifts, avoiding obedience, or letting distraction steal the joy that is found in God’s presence. This conversation is a call back to hope. Back to...

In this deeply personal episode, I open up about receiving my diagnosis of OCD, anxiety, and depression, and the emotions that came with finally having language for a battle I had been carrying silently. As a Christian, I have wrestled with the tension between suffering and faithfulness: what it means to love God, trust God, and still be hurting. This is not a testimony of having everything figure...

This episode examines the truth about demons by addressing the common misdiagnosis in the church between sin and demonic activity, showing that Scripture speaks far more frequently about human sin and moral responsibility than it does about demons, emphasizing that while spiritual opposition is real, much of what believers attribute to demons is actually the result of disordered desires and the fa...

In this episode of Saved Not Soft, I’m joined by my husband Malik Brookins for a real and honest conversation about dating, engagement, and marriage. We share our story, how we went from friends to dating to saying yes to forever, and what we learned along the way about trusting God with our relationship. We talk about what it looks like to date intentionally, how to seek God while navigating feel...

Suffering is unavoidable—but Scripture shows us it is never meaningless. In this episode, we look closely at the sufferings of Jesus: His rejection, betrayal, silence before His accusers, physical agony, and ultimate obedience to the Father. Rather than rushing past the cross, we slow down to ask what Christ’s suffering reveals about God’s character—and how it reshapes the way we endure our own. T...

What if “daddy issues” isn’t your identity—but a distortion that healing was always meant to correct? In this episode of Saved Not Soft , we confront the cultural narrative that reduces deep father wounds into a label, and we expose the lie beneath it. Through Scripture and lived experience, we talk about sonship, the difference between wounds and identity, and how deception forms when absence, ab...

The power of Christianity is not found in trends, language, or performance—it is found in the cross. In this episode of Saved Not Soft, we return to the foundation of our faith: the blood of Jesus. We talk about what the blood actually accomplished, why the cross still stands at the center of the gospel, and how redemption is not symbolic—it is authoritative. This conversation explores the biblica...

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Emy sits down with her mom for a raw and heartfelt conversation about how Jesus transformed both of their lives. Together, they unpack her mom’s past—how she tried to fill emotional voids without Christ—and the moments that changed everything. This is a powerful story of redemption, restoration, and the kind of love only God can rewrite. Support the show

If you’ve ever sat down to read your Bible and felt unsure where to begin, you’re not alone. In this episode, I’m walking you through a method that’s helped me so much in my own quiet time—the POIMA method: Prayer, Observation, Interpretation, Meditation, and Application . It’s a simple and intentional way to really understand Scripture and apply it to your life. Whether you’re just starting your...

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Thanks for watching this episode! I would love to connect with you guys! I am so blessed for every one of your faces! Instagram: @savednotsoftpodcast Personal Instagram: @emymooree Tiktok: @savednotsoftpodcast Shop the merchandise! https://savednotsoftshop.com I GAVE MY LIFE TO JESUS! : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd3SxFDFmGgk-TBNA-8rtWdDJqi5JWw6_jyAzBiyGlwON96nw/viewform?usp=sf_link...

Thanks for watching this episode! I would love to connect with you guys! I am so blessed for every one of your faces! Instagram: @savednotsoftpodcast Personal Instagram: @emymooree Tiktok: @savednotsoftpodcast Shop the merchandise! https://savednotsoftshop.com I GAVE MY LIFE TO JESUS! : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd3SxFDFmGgk-TBNA-8rtWdDJqi5JWw6_jyAzBiyGlwON96nw/viewform?usp=sf_link...

Thanks for watching this episode! I would love to connect with you guys! I am so blessed for every one of your faces! Instagram: @savednotsoftpodcast Personal Instagram: @emymooree Tiktok: @savednotsoftpodcast Shop the merchandise! https://savednotsoftshop.com I GAVE MY LIFE TO JESUS! : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd3SxFDFmGgk-TBNA-8rtWdDJqi5JWw6_jyAzBiyGlwON96nw/viewform?usp=sf_link...

Thanks for watching this episode! I would love to connect with you guys! I am so blessed for every one of your faces! Instagram: @savednotsoftpodcast Personal Instagram: @emymooree Tiktok: @savednotsoftpodcast Shop the merchandise! https://savednotsoftshop.com I GAVE MY LIFE TO JESUS! : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd3SxFDFmGgk-TBNA-8rtWdDJqi5JWw6_jyAzBiyGlwON96nw/viewform?usp=sf_link...

So many Americans claim Christianity, yet true discipleship is so overlooked. Faith is more than belief; it’s a daily walk of trust, obedience, and self-denial (Matthew 10:38-39, James 2:14-19). God calls us into a deeper relationship, not just routine religion. Reflect on what it truly means to follow Christ and embrace the fullness of His love and truth. Thanks for watching this episode! I would...