Placemarker 4 Perversion Podcast

In this dialogue, B.J. Frazier and Mistress Audry Lu Black explore the intricate relationship between writing and kink. They discuss the nuances of writing erotic literature and the tools available for effective communication in BDSM. The conversation concludes with reflections on the dynamics of domination and submission, highlighting the importance of understanding motivations and desires in bot...

In this engaging conversation, Mistress Audrey Lu Black interviews Bran Hellbent, a skilled carpenter and woodworker with a lifetime of experience. They explore the aesthetics, functionality, and craftsmanship behind BDSM tools, emphasizing the importance of quality and personalization. They explore the design process and safety considerations. Bran details the pieces he has designed to create ada...

Therapy for the Sex-Positive and Kink-Informed In this engaging conversation, Mistress Audry Lu Black sits down with Dr. Sam and Dr. G to talk about sex-positive, kink-informed therapy. They compare finding a therapist to the dynamics of dating: finding the right fit and continuing to explore the relationship. They discuss what red flags to look for, including consent and ethical boundaries. Resou...

In this conversation, AudryLu Black and Kol discuss the importance of community-owned education in the BDSM and leather communities. They explore the role of consent classes, the significance of non-verbal communication, and the impact of online communities. The discussion also touches on the rich history and values of the leather community. They emphasize the need for inclusivity, community suppo...

Mistress AudryLu Black and Goddess Aroya Lessons examine the intersections of BDSM practice, podcasting, and personal evolution. Their discussion navigates pop culture's influence on identity and relationship dynamics within power exchange. They explore the balance between training and domination and the value of being correctable in leadership. The conversation extends to positioning in dominance...

In this episode, Mistress AudryLu Black, Sharkey, and Zander peel back the curtain of the furry community. They trace the intimate pathways of entry, where conventions become spaces for profound connection and belonging. The conversation navigates the complex architecture of identity, where fursonas emerge not as escapism but as expressions of self. What begins as an exploration of subculture beco...

In this conversation, K. Andrew Turner and Mistress Audry Lu Black dissect the intersection of queerness, identity, and disability. They talk about navigating public spaces engineered for exclusion. Access and accommodation are not generosity; they are the minimum requirements for any community that claims to be inclusive. Their dialogue encompasses love, attraction, and the dynamics of relationsh...

In this conversation, Mistress AudryLu Black and Sckratch delve into the nuances of bratting within the BDSM community. They explore the various styles of bratting, emphasizing the importance of respectful interaction, understanding boundaries, and the intent behind teasing. They also explore the playful nature of bratting, contrasting it with petty behavior, and the importance of negotiation in e...

In this conversation, Mistress Audry Lu Black and Mistress Natalie delve into the complexities of power dynamics within BDSM relationships. They explore the balance between ego and submission and the human needs that underpin power exchanges. The discussion also highlights generational shifts in attitudes towards power and intimacy, advocating for a more holistic approach to self-care and emotiona...

In this conversation, Mistress Audry Lu BLack sits down with Evey Winters to explore what happens inside isolationist spaces—how the promise of belonging can quietly harden into rigid, black-and-white thinking. They unpack “red pill” ideology and the way it rejects nuance, demanding absolutes where real human experience lives in the gray. Together, they also turn toward survival and truth: why bel...

In this conversation, Mistress AudryLu Black sits down with Katherine Studley—a tax consultant who works fluently in the spicy economy—to unravel the quiet complexities of filing taxes as a sex worker. They talk about the realities that rarely make it into polite financial advice: stigma, discretion, and the very real labor of keeping your livelihood protected in a world that isn’t always kind or...

In this layered exchange, Mistress Audrey Lu Black and Eve Hall approach intimacy with both curiosity and command—unpacking “Big Clit Energy” as a philosophy of confidence, communication, and embodied awareness rather than a slogan. They move through sexual health with clarity and care, touching on pelvic floor wellness, fantasy, and roleplay as tools for connection, not performance. The conversat...

In this conversation, Lady Sheba moves with the kind of confidence that comes from lived knowledge—speaking as a dominatrix, educator, and artist who understands both the psychology and the poetry of her world. She traces the quiet power of makeup as ritual and signal, reflects on her stewardship at the Carter/Johnson Library, and honors leather not just as material, but as memory—stitched deeply...

This conversation, between Mistress Audry Lu Black and Maeve McBride, delves into the intricate connections between sexuality, kink, and personal empowerment. They explore how societal norms shape our understanding of worth, the intersection of birth and kink, and the importance of education in fostering acceptance and safety in vulnerable experiences. They discuss the significance of boundaries i...

In this engaging conversation, Jules Brats-a-Lot and Mistress AudryLu Black explore the complexities of identity within the kink community, particularly focusing on the experiences of 'littles' and the dynamics of age play and age regression. They discuss the importance of community, representation, and the stigma surrounding these identities, while also exploring the joy and nostalgia that come w...

In this episode, recorded live at DomCon NOLA, Mistress Audry Lu Black interviews Mistress Cyan, FemDom powerhouse founder of DomCon and owner of Sanctuary in Los Angeles. They discuss embracing the intersection of professional domination and lifestyle BDSM. Their conversation includes what we can learn from each other, how we all deserve community and the role of professional doms within that com...

In this conversation, Mistress AudruLu Black and Paul Faust discuss his journey in the kink community, focusing on the events produced by Faustian Society and the aesthetic of Torture Garden. The dialogue explores the cultural differences between kink in Europe and America, the legal challenges faced in the U.S., and the complex relationship Americans have with sexuality. Faust emphasizes the impo...

Mistress AudryLu Black and Pretty Penny the Hucow delve into the unique aspects of Hucow culture within the kink community; explore themes of body positivity and the intersection of hypnosis and kink. They also discuss the significance of costumes in providing permission for exploration and the role of community events in fostering creativity. Content warning: Feeding kink and blood play Featured...

In this conversation, Mistress AudryLu Black and Father Nathan Monk delve into modern America’s relationship with Purity Culture. They dive into corporate motivators, greater cultural effects, and the political implications of these ideologies. Father Nathan Monk speaks about being personally raised in the Purity Culture nexus and his subsequent study of the biblical sources (or lack of sources) t...

In this engaging conversation, Mistress AudryLu Black and Thomas explore the world of travel-friendly kinky toys, share tips on navigating airport security with sex toys, and discuss the dynamics of dating within the kink community. They reflect on learning experiences from disappointing encounters, the importance of authenticity and humor in online dating profiles, and the role of professionals i...

In this fascinating conversation, AudryLu Black and Marcelo delve into the intricacies of the kink and porn industry and explore Marcelo's personal journey. They discuss the importance of health and safety, the impact of public perception, and the nuances of negotiated intimacy in relationships. The conversation also touches on creative freedom in scene work and the role of pro-doms in the industr...

In this engaging conversation, Mistress Audrey Lu Black and Dr. Hillary Williamson Perez delve into the rich tapestry of Mesopotamian mythology, exploring the roles of goddesses, the complexities of relationships in ancient narratives, and the intersections of power, sexuality, and creativity. They discuss the significance of figures like Inanna, Ereshkigal, and Gilgamesh, while also highlighting...

In this engaging conversation, Mistress Audrey Lu Black and Dr. Hillary Williamson Perez delve into the rich tapestry of Mesopotamian mythology, exploring the roles of goddesses, the complexities of relationships in ancient narratives, and the intersections of power, sexuality, and creativity. They discuss the significance of figures like Inanna, Ereshkigal, and Gilgamesh, while also highlighting...

The Power of Sex: cults, control, kink and red flags with Dr. Sam In this conversation, Audry Lu Black and (Dr.) Sam delve into the world of cults and high control groups and what draws individuals to them and the forms of control that are used to keep them there. They also explore the evolution of cults from good intentions to manipulative control and the gender dynamics that come into play. Cont...

Mistress AudryLu Black has a chat with Lady Delisha about her hat kink. In this engaging conversation, AudryLu Black and Lady Delisha explore the intriguing world of kinks, with a particular focus on hats in attraction and identity, the power of transformative roleplay, and the playful nature of kinks. Content warning: insertion play Featured toy: Strap on Me, Strapless Strap on https://strap-on-m...