On the Contrary

Season 2, Episode 12: Outgrew or Grown Into? Every one of us came into adulthood with a set of rules that felt like law. Things we swore we would never do. Lines we said we would never cross. And then life happened. Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, and Taz are back at the table. This episode, they're getting into something that makes people uncomfortable: the rules you made for yourself that you d...

Season 2, Episode 11: "Are We Dropping the Ball on Appreciation in Relationships?" The panel opened with a simple question: when was the last time you told someone you appreciate them? Somehow, it ended up somewhere nobody saw coming. 🗣️💔 Rah Ali, Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, and Taz are back at the table. This episode, they're digging into something that sounds simple until you actually sit...

Season 2, Episode 10 "Thanks for the Advice" Everybody on social media is an expert. But who should you actually be listening to? 🗣️📉 Rah Ali, Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, and Taz are back at the table, and this episode they are getting into something the internet has made impossible to avoid: unsolicited advice, unqualified experts, and the courses, content, and gurus that are everywhere you...

Season 2, Episode 9 "No Blueprint to Parenting" Every generation thinks they're doing it better than the last. And every generation has something they completely got wrong. Rah Ali, Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, and Taz are back at the table. This episode, they're getting into the conversation every parent has at 2 AM but nobody wants to say at the school pickup line: are we actually doing this...

Season 2, Episode 7: How Do You Define Fun at Different Ages? At some point, the club stops feeling like a release and starts feeling like a chore. Especially when you need acid reflux medication just to get through the night. 💊 Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, Taz, and the full panel are back at the table. This episode, they're getting into something that sounds lighthearted but actually hits a...

Nobody wants to admit it. But after years with the same person the desire shifts. Is that normal? Is it a problem? Or is it just what long term actually looks like? Kash, Luis, Rico, Taz and the full panel are back at the table and this episode they are going somewhere most people don't want to go what really happens to intimacy in a long term relationship. Does desire naturally decline over time?...

The narrative that women can’t keep friends, that we’re catty, competitive, and disloyal? We’re flipping all of it today. Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Rico, and Taz are at the table and this episode they’re getting into one of the most layered conversations the panel has had all season female friendships. Who benefits from women believing they can’t trust each other? What does it actually t...

Season 2, Episode 4: "Bonnets & Durags Outside: Yes or No" It sounds like a small conversation. It is not a small conversation. Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Taz, and the full panel are back at the table, and this episode starts a debate that had everybody in their feelings before the first commercial break. Bonnets and durags outside—where do we draw the line? Is it a style choice, a cu...

Season 2, Episode 3: Why is it so hard for men to tell the truth? Lies have ended more relationships than cheating ever has. And nobody on this panel is pretending otherwise. 🛑  Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, and Taz are back at the table, and this episode they are going all the way in on the one conversation most people avoid: why is it so hard for men to just tell the truth? Is it avoidance?...

Did music fuel a generation of single women, or did it just push back against unequal standards? On this episode of On The Contrary , we tackle how female empowerment anthems and the "I don't need a man" mindset shaped modern dating. We're breaking down whether popular culture built genuine female independence or accidentally created a barrier to intimacy, hypergamy expectations, and mutual respec...

Does financial independence actually matter to men, or is social media lying to you? On this episode of On The Contrary , we unpack the controversial debate around modern dating, money, and power dynamics in relationships. From the myth that men prefer women who "don't got sh*t" to what really creates genuine partnership, we’re challenging the online narratives and getting real about what men actu...

OnlyFans: Empowerment or betrayal?
In this explosive episode of On The Contrary, we dive deep into the blurred lines between independence, intimacy, and insecurity. We’re asking the real questions: • Is starting an OnlyFans without your partner’s approval a form of cheating? • Can a man really handle dating a woman who makes more money from OF than he does? • Is society ready to respect creators t...

The conversation gets even hotter in Part 2—because let’s be real… once feelings get involved, booty calls get complicated. This episode, we’re diving into the real-life situations, the messy moments, and when “just sex” turns into something way more. 🔥 Can you keep it casual when someone starts acting different?
🔥 Is it fair to expect more just because you caught feelings?
🔥 When does a booty...

Does hip-hop reflect the struggles of the Black community—or does it reinforce them? In this unapologetic episode of On The Contrary, the conversation gets deep, emotional, and real as we unpack the impact of hip-hop on Black relationships, families, and identity. We dive into the hard questions: Is hip-hop destroying the Black household or just exposing it? How does music influence how Black men...

Are booty calls really no strings attached, or is someone always catching feelings? This episode, we’re breaking down the game—from sneaky links to whether a late-night “come thru” can turn into something real. 🔥 Can booty calls ever stay drama-free? 🔥 Do men and women see them the same way? 🔥 How much are people actually spending just to get some?! We’re talking the do’s, the don’ts, and the s...

Is polygamy real love or just a way to avoid commitment? We’re debating whether having multiple partners is about freedom, emotional maturity, or control. Does it actually work, or is it just chaos? 💬 What do you think? Drop your thoughts in the comments! 🔔 Subscribe & turn on notifications so you never miss an episode!

Is it ever okay to sleep with someone who’s married? Is cheating always black and white, or are there gray areas? In this explosive episode of On The Contrary, we dive into the moral, emotional, and societal consequences of infidelity.

Why is it that when men cheat, they want a second chance—but when women cheat, it’s unforgivable? In this explosive conversation, we break down the double standards of infidelity, how men and women cheat differently, and the role social media plays in temptation. Emotional cheating vs. physical cheating—does one hurt more? Let’s talk about it!

In this episode, we have Eliza Reign in the studio, and things get heated when she and Organik discuss a man's role in dating. We also find out if dating someone who lives far has its benefits and we help a listener who is dating a younger woman.

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On this episode we learn about the pitfalls of workplace relationships and the hosts give a listener some advice after making a mistake at work that could cost her the bag.

In this episode we find out who is still thinking about their ex, learning how to communicate with your partner and we give advice to a woman who is dating a younger man.

On this episode we have Diamond the Body sitting in the studio with the crew to discuss giving your partner a hall pass, being open minded about toys and googling someone before you ignore them.

In this episode, we discover what we would change if we could travel back in time and how you upgrade your partner's style. We also help a listener who is dealing with a jealous husband.