Messy on Purpose

What do you get when you mix pageant prep, business strategy, motherhood, and relentless drive? Michaela Taylor. In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Michaela — aka Mrs. Aliante America 2025 — opens up about chasing the crown while running a digital marketing + coaching empire and being a powerhouse wife and mom 👑 Her bold entrance into the world of pageantry 📲 Building a business that’s as str...

From rentals to wholesaling to building out co-living spaces — Aaron Lambert has done it all. In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Aaron gets real about the messy middle of his real estate journey and the pivots, lessons, and wins that got him where he is today. 🏠 His first steps into real estate and how it evolved 💸 Learning the ropes of Airbnb and short-term rentals 🔁 The hustle of wholesalin...

In this powerful episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha sits down with director, mentor, and creative visionary Lee Cummings to explore the story behind the spotlight. From navigating personal hardships to seizing life-changing opportunities, Lee opens up about the pivotal moments that led him to where he is today — including the creation of his film school and mentorship program. We talk about: 🎬...

Welcome to a brand new chapter of Messy on Purpose. In this short solo episode, Fylisha shares an honest update about the podcast’s recent changes — why things look a little different, what’s shifting, and what you can expect going forward. No drama. No overexplaining. Just real talk, growth, and the decision to keep showing up… even if it looks a little messier now. If you've been rocking wit...

In this powerful episode of Messy on Purpose, Heather and Fylisha are joined by Heather’s brother, Jay, for a raw and deeply personal conversation about addiction, recovery, and purpose. Jay opens up about what addiction really looks like, how it impacts loved ones, and the unexpected path that led him to helping others — especially veterans who’ve served our country. 🇺🇸We talk about what addictio...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather dive deep into the everyday habits that quietly sabotage our peace, growth, and confidence. Inspired by real-life moments and conversations about self-sabotage, people-pleasing, burnout, and comparison traps, this candid chat will have you reflecting, laughing, and maybe even journaling. We’re not here to judge—just to bring awareness to the...

**Trigger Warning** This episode discusses childhood sexual abuse and trauma. Listener discretion is advised. In this powerful and emotional episode of Messy on Purpose , we open a raw conversation that needs to be louder: protecting our kids and supporting survivors. Heather shares her personal story of childhood trauma — a story she carried in silence for years — and why it's time we stop protec...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Heather are joined by Jamie and Reilly for a real, honest convo about health goals, habits, and the messy truth behind personal growth. We get into it all: 💪 Where we’re at in our own health journeys 🥗 Diet, fitness, mindset, and how we each approach wellness 🍷 Our relationship with alcohol and finding balance ❤️‍🔥 And why one person’s version...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Heather dive into a passionate (and fiery 🔥) convo about embracing the chaos of life and seeing the beauty in the mess. We’re talking: 🌪️ The power of choice in messy moments💭 Learning from hard experiences💫 How two besties see life’s chaos from two very real, very different angles It’s raw. It’s emotional. It’s real AF. Because life isn’t about...

Living in Vegas doesn’t mean we’re always on the Strip—but when we are, it’s a whole vibe. 😎🌆 In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Heather dive into their recent night out at Ole Red , the country bar right in the heart of the Las Vegas Strip. We’re sharing: 🍻 The unexpected (and hilarious) moments of being a local in a tourist hotspot 🤠 Why Ole Red might just be our new go-to spo...

We’re back with Part 2 of our real, raw, and totally unfiltered convo with Lauren from Lala Photography 📸—and this time, we’re going even deeper . From navigating the messy middle of entrepreneurship to the moments that will nearly make you quit (spoiler: she didn’t 👏), this episode is packed with: 💥 Behind-the-scenes biz talk 📸 Big wins and bigger learning curves 😆 Side tangents, laughs, and...

Ever wonder what it really looks like to build a successful business from the ground up— with no filter ? In this episode of Messy on Purpose , we sit down with Lauren , founder of Lala Photography , to talk about the messy behind-the-scenes of entrepreneurship. We dive into: 📸 How Lala Photography was born 💥 The struggles that no one talks about 💡 Some surprisingly good (and real) business adv...

Some stories need to be told—and Vegas Traffic is one of them. 🎥🚦 In this episode of Messy on Purpose, we sit down with Trenton and John, the filmmakers behind Vegas Traffic, a powerful film that sheds light on a reality most people ignore. We dive into:
 🔦 The real-life inspiration behind the film
 🎬 The creative process & behind-the-scenes moments
 🚨 Why awareness is the first step towa...

Some advice on social media is just straight-up wild —and Heather needed to talk about this one. In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha gets hit with a surprise topic as we dive into the crazy world of viral “sugar daddy” advice being pushed on women. From TikTok videos encouraging transactional relationships to the way dating has completely shifted from love to luxury , we’re breaking down...

How do you know when it’s time to let go of trying to help someone who won’t help themselves? This week on Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Heather dive into the emotional struggle of caring too much —when your love and support turn into nagging, and you realize you might be more invested in their change than they are. Fylisha opens up about her personal experience with her dad, and we get real abou...

Not every relationship is meant to last forever—and that’s okay! In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Heather dive deep into the relationships that serve us, the ones that don’t, and the ones that are only meant for a season. 💫 From friendships to romantic partners, we talk about why it’s okay to let go of relationships that no longer align with the person you are or the one you’re b...

Social media can be a wild ride, especially when the trolls come out to play. In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather get real about dealing with the darker side of online life—negative comments, unsolicited opinions, and the emotional toll they can take. They share personal stories, practical tips for keeping your sanity in the digital world, and a few laughs about the most ridic...

Valentine’s Day—love it or leave it? 💌 In this special episode of Messy on Purpose, we dive deep into the highs and lows of Valentine’s Day with two amazing guests! From overhyped traditions to why love should be celebrated all year long , we’re getting real about what truly matters in relationships—whether it’s with your partner, friends, family, or even yourself. We’re talking love languages, m...

This week on Messy on Purpose, we’re joined by the extraordinary Tania, lead singer of Tania y Su Grupo Elevado. With her beautiful voice, captivating presence, and sweet personality, Tania shares her inspiring story. Tania’s story is filled with passion, perseverance, and positivity. Whether you’re a fan of her music or simply love hearing about the magic behind the microphone, this episode is a...

Get ready for a behind-the-scenes look at modern love! 🎬 In this special episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather are joined by the talented director Lee Cummings to explore the wild world of dating apps, the realities of relationships, and the self-discovery journey that comes with love, divorce, and everything in between. Lee shares unique insights from the director’s chair, and the tri...

Sometimes, “good vibes only” isn’t enough. In this eye-opening episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather dive deep into the concept of toxic positivity—the pressure to stay positive even when life feels anything but. They discuss why it’s okay to feel your feelings, share personal stories about navigating tough times, and offer tips on how to support others without dismissing their struggle...

Life doesn’t always go as planned, but Ashlee Gambino’s story proves that you can rise above anything. In this inspiring episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather sit down with Ashlee, a strong woman, mother, wife, and fighter, who shares her journey from a tough fighter to an even stronger warrior after facing unexpected health challenges. Ashlee opens up about what it means to fight throu...

Life’s challenges aren’t easy, but they shape who we are. In this empowering episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather get candid about navigating hard times, dealing with difficult situations, and why it’s okay to distance yourself from people and things that no longer fit your life. They share personal stories of making tough decisions, finding the strength to do what’s best for yourself,...

What happens when your adorable (and very chunky) cat goes viral? 🐾 In this special episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather sit down with the fabulous Angel. Cakes702 (aka Kaylee) to chat about her famous feline and the whirlwind of social media attention that followed. Kaylee opens up about the heartwarming story of why she adopted her cat, her journey to help him live a healthier life,...

Self-care isn’t just bubble baths and spa days—sometimes, it’s the hard stuff too. In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather explore what self-care really means on an individual level. They dive into the things that feel great in the moment, like rest and indulgence, but also the tougher, less glamorous side of taking care of yourself, like setting boundaries, managing finances, and...