Messy on Purpose

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee sit down with Linzie Lea , a fitness trainer who helps women ages 35–55 become the healthiest, strongest, and most confident versions of themselves. Linzie shares her personal journey, how her own transformation led her to helping other women, and why fitness is about so much more than just workouts. It’s about habits, confidence, mindset, cons...

On this episode of The Weekly WTF , Fylisha and Lee are talking about the communication differences between men and women — starting with the most dangerous one-letter text in a relationship: “K.” Because let’s be honest… after a heated conversation, “K” can mean a lot of things. It can mean “okay.” It can mean “I’m done talking.” It can mean “you’re about to find out.” Or maybe it was sent with n...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee celebrate the 250th Fourth of July with a conversation about gratitude, freedom, and what it really means to be proud to be American. They talk about how easy it can be to take this country for granted when you’ve been blessed to live here, grow up here, or build a life here. While America is far from perfect, the freedoms, opportunities, and r...

On this episode of The Weekly WTF , Fylisha and Lee are talking about the subscription chaos that has officially gotten out of control. It starts with streaming services somehow making it impossible to watch one show without needing three different apps, a password reset, and a mild emotional breakdown. Seasons are split across platforms, companies own half the services anyway, and somehow we’re s...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee sit down again with their friend Anthony Giovanni Elias for another round of film industry talk, creative chaos, and real conversation. Anthony shares the exciting film ventures he has coming up, while he and Lee dive into their collaborations, what they’re building together, and where they see the film industry heading next. From creative proj...

On this episode of The Weekly WTF , Fylisha and Lee are talking about taking up space — because yes, you’re allowed to exist, but no, that does not mean you get to block everyone else from existing too. It starts with people standing in the middle of walkways like they’re the final boss of the grocery store aisle, and turns into a bigger conversation about shared public spaces, basic awareness, an...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into Lee’s new food series he’s working on with his chef friend—trying new places, finding the best dishes, and recreating them with their own spin. But, as always, the conversation goes deeper than food. Fylisha and Lee also talk about happiness, personal responsibility, and what it really means to take control of your own life. If someth...

This week on The Weekly WTF , Fylisha and Lee are going there. Is making your child obese a form of child abuse? It’s a harsh question, but it’s one worth asking when kids are being set up for preventable health struggles because the adults in their lives refuse to take responsibility. This episode is not about shaming children. Kids are not the problem. They are the ones depending on adults to gu...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into the difference between fake confidence and real confidence —and why the two can look very similar from the outside. They talk about how some people show up bold, loud, and untouchable online, but are completely different in person. Is it confidence? Is it performance? Or is it just a mask people use to avoid doing the real inner work?...

On this episode of The Weekly WTF , Fylisha shows up dressed as a banana — because honestly, why not? Life is heavy enough. The world is serious enough. And sometimes the best thing you can do is laugh at yourself, find the humor in the chaos, and stop taking every little thing so personally. This episode is a reminder that humor can lighten even the darkest tunnel. It does not fix everything, but...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha sits down with Lee for a deeper conversation about one of his biggest passions: film . Lee opens up about where his love for film started, what storytelling means to him, and how his journey in the film industry has shaped the way he sees creativity, people, and life. From the emotional connection movies can create to the work that happens behind the c...

This week on The Weekly WTF , we’re talking about something simple: being a decent person. Put your cart back. Put things back where they go. Clean up after yourself. Don’t leave your mess for someone else to deal with just because you don’t feel like taking an extra 15 seconds to do the right thing. Because honestly, the shopping cart says a lot. It’s not about the cart. It’s about basic respect,...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into the idea of what happens when “the party” ends… or whether it actually ends at all. What does it mean when people say the party is over? Does that mean growing up? Slowing down? Changing priorities? Or does the party simply turn into something different? Fylisha and Lee explore how the meaning of “party” can look different for everyon...

Las Vegas traffic is already wild… but distracted driving is taking it to another level. This week on The Weekly WTF , Fylisha and Lee are calling out the crazy accidents, reckless drivers, and people who cannot seem to put their phones down behind the wheel. And let’s be real — being on your phone is not just texting anymore. It’s TikTok, Instagram, games, videos, messages, scrolling, posting, an...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee talk about the mindset shift that can completely change how you experience life: Going from “Why me?” to “What can I learn from this?” They dive into why even the darkest, hardest seasons can carry lessons—if we’re willing to stop, look inward, and be honest about what life might be trying to show us. Sometimes the same situations keep repeatin...

On this episode of The Weekly WTF , Fylisha and Lee dive into the messy side of social media — unnecessary comments, oversharing, and the way people invite public opinions into private situations. From people saying things that should have stayed in their head to posts that probably belonged in a journal, this conversation is a reminder that what you put out there matters. If you want better energ...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee sit down with David Monhtalvo , author of Shabbat in Chicago , a heartfelt book written to honor his incredible mother and preserve her story for generations to come. David shares the inspiration behind the book, the life and strength of his single mom, and the powerful impact she had on her family, her community, and everyone who knew her. Thi...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into the wild, dark, and unsettling side of Hollywood after Fylisha watched Hollywood Demons . They talk about the craziness behind fame, the strange stories that come out of the entertainment industry, and how the spotlight isn’t always as glamorous as it looks. What starts as a conversation about Hollywood quickly turns into a deeper dis...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee discuss the recent talk around a new cruise ship virus and the bigger question it brings up: Are we headed toward another “here we go again” moment, or have people learned to pause, think, and question what they’re being told? This conversation looks back at the COVID years, the fear, the confusion, and the moments that still feel hard to belie...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into emotional responsibility and the hard truth that people can’t always know what we’re feeling unless we communicate it. They talk about how two people can experience the same situation completely differently—and how what feels hurtful, frustrating, or obvious to one person may not register the same way for someone else. This conversati...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee are back after a couple weeks away from recording for a casual catch-up conversation. They talk about recent travels, getting back into routine, food hacks, Costco finds, and simple ways to fuel your body without making health feel complicated. From fitness to travel meals to random side conversations, this episode feels like sitting down with...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into a truth that hits hard: 👉 just because you’re busy doesn’t mean you’re productive. A full calendar, nonstop tasks, and constantly being “on” can feel like progress… but is it actually moving you forward? They break down the difference between being busy and being intentional , and why so many people mistake constant motion for real p...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee get real about a hard truth that many people avoid: 👉 no one owes you anything. It doesn’t matter what you’ve been through. It doesn’t matter how hard you’ve worked. It doesn’t matter how unfair life has felt. The world is not going to hand you what you want just because you want it. This conversation dives into: The difference between expecta...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into the idea of closure — what it really means, what it doesn’t, and why it looks different for every person and every situation. Sometimes people think closure has to be a long conversation, an apology, or a perfectly tied-up ending. But does it? This conversation explores: Why closure means something different to everyone How relationsh...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee break down one of the biggest problems in fitness: 👉 people overcomplicate it. From endless workout splits to “secret” formulas, trendy diets, and complicated routines, the fitness world often makes simple things feel impossible. But the truth? Fitness does not need to be complicated. They dive into: Why some people intentionally make fitness...