LET’S TALK WITH BEN, BRAD & COIT

In this live podcast episode, Ben, Brad, Coit, Janet, Selina & Natalie engage in a lively discussion about marriage, addressing various topics such as household annoyances, financial transparency, respect, and effective communication. They also emphasize the importance of premarital counseling and alignment in values for a successful marriage. The conversation delves into the complexities of m...

In this episode of Let's Talk, Ben, Brad & Coit discuss the significance of time management for men, emphasizing that time reflects one's priorities. They explore strategies for prioritizing important aspects of life and the necessity of learning to say no to maintain focus on what truly matters. Takeaways Time reveals priorities Learn to say no Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Time Management 0...

The conversation focuses on the intersection of faith, entrepreneurship, and marketplace leadership, emphasizing the importance of viewing work as a calling and a means to impact others positively. Ben, Brad & Coit discuss personal experiences in business, the significance of stewardship, and the need for a vision that transcends mere financial success. Takeaways Work as a calling Stewardship...

In this episode, Ben, Brad and Coit discuss the concept of influence, emphasizing that everyone has the ability to impact those around them. They explore various spheres of influence, the importance of recognizing one's own influence, and provide biblical examples of individuals who stewarded their influence effectively. The conversation explores the themes of stewardship, influence, and character...

What does a real ministry calling look like, and how do you tell the difference between ambition and obedience? In this episode, the guys share funny church stories, personal calling moments, and hard-won wisdom about serving faithfully in ministry, business, and everyday life. Not every calling looks like a stage, a title, or a paycheck—sometimes the most important work is simply feeding the shee...

Built for Influence: Calling, Purpose, and Why There’s No Second-Class Calling This episode of Let’s Talk brings together Ben, Brad and Coit for a practical conversation about calling, purpose, and identity for men. They open with some hilarious job stories, then move into a serious question many men wrestle with: how do you know what God is calling you to do, and how do you avoid confusing your j...

This episode features Marty Bryan of Marty B's Restaurant alongside Ben, Brad, and Coit on Let's Talk . Marty shares how personal pain shaped his leadership, why he sees his business as ministry, and how he builds a culture of hospitality through standards, truth, and accountability. If you lead people, hire people, or want to make your faith visible through your work, this conversation is packed...

This episode of Let's Talk centers on a question every man has to face: who am I becoming? The conversation with Ben, Brad and Coit digs into character, reputation, pressure, influence, and why real change starts with a decision, not just better behavior. We discuss how character is formed in private, revealed under pressure, and tested by success. If you want a practical, no-fluff conversation ab...

In this episode, the guys continue the "Built for Influence" series by talking about blind spots — those hidden areas in our lives that we often can’t see ourselves, but that others notice right away. The conversation moves from funny real-life examples into a deeper discussion about humility, feedback, accountability, and growth. Key Topics Covered What blind spots are and why everyone has them A...

The conversation explores the concept of servant leadership and its contrast with worldly leadership. It delves into personal stories and practical applications of servant leadership, emphasizing the balance between authority and servanthood. Takeaways Servant leadership involves leading by serving others Balancing authority and servanthood is essential for effective leadership Chapters 00:00 Buil...

This episode follows a men’s conversation about what it really means to walk in the fruits of the Holy Spirit. The guys move from the tension between self-effort and surrender into a practical, honest look at love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. If you’ve ever tried to manage your life by willpower alone, this one pushes straight into the root...

This episode of Let’s Talk continues the Holy Spirit series by moving from baptism in the Spirit to the gifts of the Spirit. The conversation is practical, funny, and rooted in real-life stories of healing, discernment, and how spiritual gifts are meant to strengthen other people, not spotlight the one operating in them. Brad and Coit share examples from Scripture and their own lives, then get spe...

Carrying the Fire: Holy Spirit, Power, and Battle This episode of Let's Talk with Ben, Brad, and Coit centers on the Holy Spirit and why spiritual power matters for men who want to live ready for battle. They unpack the baptism in the Holy Spirit, the meaning of tongues, and why Jesus told his followers to wait for power before going out. Brad shares his own powerful encounter with the Holy Spirit...

Arm Yourself for Battle: Spiritual Warfare and Manhood Are you aware of the invisible war happening around us and within us? Most men go through their days fighting flesh and blood, unaware of the spiritual forces actively seeking to destroy our purpose, identity, and peace. In this episode, Ben, Brad, and Coit share personal stories, Biblical insights, and practical advice on how to recognize and...

Are men meant to fight alone, or is real strength found in community? In this episode of Let’s Talk , we dig into the biblical and cultural truths about brotherhood, vulnerability, and how isolation is our enemy's greatest weapon. Ben, Coit and Brad unpack the dangerous solo warrior myth we see in media and history — and reveal why true resilience requires surrounding yourself with brothers who wi...

The Subtle But Prevalent Mental Pollutants for Christian Men In this episode, Ben, Brad, and Coit dive into the often overlooked mental pollutants that Christian men willingly invite into their minds daily—distractions disguised as entertainment and staying informed. They explore how these influences shape our thoughts and spiritual health, and provide practical insights to guard our minds. What y...

Ready to lead your family with purpose and faith? In this episode, Ben, Brad, and Coit explore the vital, battle-worthy role of men defending and building their households according to God's design. Discover how to be spiritually vigilant, intentionally build legacy, and reflect Christ's love within your family. Your greatest victory isn't just in work or wealth—it’s in cultivating a legacy rooted...

In this episode, Ben, Brad, and Coit explore what it truly means to stand firm in our convictions as men built for battle. They emphasize that the Holy Spirit is our guide, helping us discern God’s voice from the enemy’s, and reveal how biblical conviction leads to freedom, transformation, and alignment with God's purpose. |KEY TOPICS| The difference between common personal convictions and Spirit-...

Winning the War on Your Knees: Building a Strong Prayer Life Feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure how to pray effectively? You're not alone—and today, we're focusing on how purposeful prayer can transform your walk with Christ and empower you to face life's battles with hope and strength rooted in Jesus. Join Ben, Brad, Coit, and special guest Timothy Tuttle as they explore the power of pr...

Are you feeling unprepared for the spiritual battles you're facing? In this empowering episode, Ben, Brad, and Coit explore how to build yourself up as a man of God—focused on readiness, the importance of God's Word, and practical ways to stay in the fight. Learn how to armor up and wield the sword of the Spirit with confidence, so you can face life's challenges with divine strength and hope roote...

Ever felt like your spiritual life is just... existing? Wondering how to step out of that numbness and live as the man God created you to be? Join Ben, Brad,Coit & special guest Cody Cochran as they confront the issues quietly draining men's spirits and discover how to lead with strength, authenticity, and hope in Christ. In this episode: The importance of biblical masculinity in today’s cultu...

Are the hidden masks of pride quietly sabotaging your relationships and spiritual walk? Discover how Jesus’s example and biblical truth can set us free to love others with humility and grace. In this hope-filled episode, Ben, Brad, and Coit explore the tricky terrain of pride—what’s healthy and what’s destructive. They share practical stories and biblical insights on how to identify pride, confess...

Feeling trapped by the cycle of lust and sin? Wondering how to break free and build relationships that honor God? Join Ben, Brad, and Coit as they explore the spiritual battle of lust, how it affects us physically and emotionally, and the biblical way to fight for freedom through Jesus Christ. You’ll leave encouraged, hopeful, and equipped to walk in truth and purity, building relationships rooted...

Are you tired of feeling trapped by lust and shame? What if there’s a way forward rooted in God's hope and His perfect plan for your life? Join Ben, Brad, and Coit as they dive deep into understanding lust—not just as a struggle, but as an opportunity to be transformed by Jesus. This episode offers encouragement to break free, restore your heart, and walk in the freedom Christ provides. In this ep...

Ever felt like your setbacks define you? In this episode, Ben, Brad, and Coit explore how failure is not the end but an opportunity to trust Jesus more deeply. They remind us that as believers, walking in God's will means we can't truly fail—only learn and grow through Him. Be encouraged today to see failures as God's redemptive tools, guiding you closer to His plan for your life. In this episode:...