Let's Talk About Sex

This week Ify sat down with sexologist Tanya Koens to chat all things disability and sex. Why is disability and sex still such a taboo topic? What concerns do disabled folk have around sex? And what is the significance of the NDIS' proposed changes to access to sex workers? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ify talks with Tanya Koens on our segment  Let's Talk About Sex ! Tanya is a somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating.  Today Tanya talks to us about situationships. What are they and could you possibly be in one? Tanya discusses when is the right time to walk away from a situationship and how do you have that difficult conversation if it is something that you think you’r...

Ify is once again joined by Tanya Koens somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating, for  Let's Talk About Sex !  This week we demystify the tricky world of erectile dysfunction. How common is it? What are the causes? What are your treatment options? And how could you best support a partner with ED? Get the full run-down here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy informat...

Ify talks with Tanya Koens on our segment  Let's Talk About Sex ! Tanya is a somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating.  We tackle the complicated issue of how to deal with mental health impacting our relationships. How can we support our partners while also supporting ourselves in the process? Or what happens when the relationship itself is giving us anxiety? Dating is so...

Ify got chatting on a cold Eora morning with Tanya Koens, a somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating. Tanya joins us on our segment  Let's Talk About Sex ! Tanya discusses the importance of holding on to our own identity when we are within a relationship. Why is it that sometimes we get caught up in our romantic relationships and neglect our friendships and other connecti...

Today we got chatting with Tanya Koens, a somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating. Tanya joins us on our segment  Let's Talk About Sex !  Benny and Ify talk with Tanya about the importance of communication in relationships and dating, not just within our romantic relationships, but also when we talk about our romantic relationships to our friends and family. Listen back...

Benny sat down with Tanya Koens, a somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating. After a small break, Tanya joins us on our segment  Let's Talk About Sex ! Tanya is one of the leading lights in sex and relationships in Australia. She gives people language to tackle sensitive subjects and believes that a healthy sex life has positive impacts in all areas of life.  Continuing t...

Benny and Ify sat down with Tanya Koens, a somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating. We’re excited to welcome her back to our fortnightly segment  Let's Talk About Sex ! Tanya is one of the leading lights in sex and relationships in Australia. She gives people language to tackle sensitive subjects and believes that a healthy sex life has positive impacts in all areas of l...

Benny and Ify sit down with Tanya Koens, a somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating. In this episode we talk about the scary L word - Love. Tanya discusses what love means, what happens when we say it to someone and why it can sometimes feel like a big deal to say “I love you”. Listen to find out the answers to this scary topic! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy inf...

Ify sat down with Tanya Koens, a somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating. We’re excited to welcome her back to our returning segment Let's Talk About Sex! Tanya is one of the leading lights in sex and relationships in Australia. She gives people language to tackle sensitive subjects and believes that a healthy sex life has positive impacts in all areas of life. Make sure...

Benny and Ify sat down with Tanya Koens, a somatic sexologist and pleasure activist from Pleasure Love Rating. We’re excited to welcome her back to our returning segment Let's Talk About Sex . Tanya gave us lots of advice about what a good date looks like.  So how do you plan a good date? Don’t do the movies, you can’t talk there! First dates should be chatty situations, maybe a coffee but definit...

Resident sexologist and pleasure activist Tanya Koens joins Maleeka on Up For It to discuss what makes a good date. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tanya Koens - our resident sexologist, pleasure activist and relationship therapist - is back in the studio to discuss compulsory heterosexuality: how are we conditioned towards heteronormativity, how can we decondition from compulsory heterosexuality, and how to unpack internalized homophobia/biphobia? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tanya Koens our resident sexologist, pleasure activist and relationship therapist is back in the studio to discuss 'Decolonising Sex'. Head to the Mornings program page on FBi Radio's website to access resources mentioned in this episode. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How does stress affect experiencing pleasure? Does masturbation help stress levels? How can you feel sexy during stressful times? Tanya Koens our resident sexologist, pleasure activist and relationship therapist answers all our questions on the relationship between stress and sex. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Why do romantic relationships often take priority over non-romantic relationships in our society? Have you ever felt confined by these definitions of romantic love? Following on from the last episode on "Queer-platonic Relationships", our resident sexologist, pleasure activist and relationship therapist, Tanya Koens is on the show to expand on the notions of love and how to care for your single fr...

Do you feel confined by the societal definitions of relationships? Have you ever felt an indescribable closeness to your friends which isn’t championed like heterosexual, romantic relations? On today’s episode of LTAS, Tanya Koens (resident sexologist, pleasure activist and relationship therapist) will be exploring Queer Platonic Relationships & just how important these are to our understanding of...

“If you don’t have to think about it, it is privilege." Have you ever thought about how bodily autonomy not only applies to intimate relationships but also in the context of healthcare, and identity expression? Maybe you have thought about how idealisation of bodily integrity often does not exist for female bodies, trans-bodies and for people with differently abled bodies. Tanya Koens, our residen...

Tanya Koens is in the studio to discuss all things "Consensual Non-Monogamy" (CNM). This relationship style, that is usually described as "Ethical Non-Monogamy" (ENM), involves expanding a relationship to add romantic and/or sexual partners. Tanya and Deb discuss how CNM/ENM is practised, and why there is a shift towards the term consensual! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tanya Koens our resident sexologist, pleasure activist and relationship therapist is back in the studio! We’ll explore the impacts of religion on perceptions of sex, what is religious-trauma syndrome, and how to develop a healthier relationship with sex! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“Love is a doing word - it’s an act of showing up.” Resident sexologist Tanya Koens is here to answer all our questions on “Genital Response vs Arousal vs Desire (vs consent)”. An exciting episode inspired by Emily Nagoski’s “Come As You Are”, Tanya helps us understand areas like if you can have sexual arousal without sexual desire & what is arousal concordance? “My genitals don’t tell you what I...

This week, we explore a different form of self-pleasure through the world of audio guided masturbation (also called audio porn), and how it compares to 'traditional' porn. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode, we dive into the complex and often misunderstood topic of paraphilias See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tanya Koens joins us to talk when open relationships go wrong - what do you do?!? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ever wondered what to expect when going into a sex therapy session? Resident sexologist Tanya Koens tells you everything you need to know. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.