Let’s BFFR

Im in the thick of it people; so this is all the momentum and feelings. just saying

Ever have one of those moments where you stop and think… HUH?! WHY IS THAT?! 🤔😂 Why does one outfit require a completely different pair of underwear? Why does coffee do absolutely NOTHING to wake me up in the morning, but one cup after 2 p.m. has me staring at the ceiling at midnight? And why can I remember every word to a song from 1997 but not why I walked into the kitchen? In this episode of...

Who decided working five days and having only two days off was a reasonable arrangement? Because I'd like a word. Between 5,974 Saturday errands, Sunday scaries, laundry that never ends, grocery shopping, and trying to maintain some resemblance of a social life, WHEN ARE WE SUPPOSED TO ACTUALLY LIVE?

Episode 24: Perimenopause - Who the hell authorized this. Hot flashes, brain fog, mood swings, insomnia, hormonal rage, and absolutely ZERO patience. Welcome to perimenopause, where your body has apparently decided to operate without adult supervision. This week, my hormones have been kicking my ass, and we're getting REAL about it! We're talking about the symptoms nobody warned us about,...

Episode 23: The Realizations Are… Real 🎙️ Apparently midlife comes with hot flashes, random body aches, reading menus from six feet away… and the sudden realization that you no longer have the energy for other people's bullshit. In this solo episode, I'm talking about the things I'm finally figuring out at 43: not everyone has to like me, rest doesn't have to be earned, friendships...

Episode 21 is giving post-vacation chaos . 😂 We’re recapping the trip home from Myrtle Beach—complete with shitty weather, an unreasonable amount of pizza, sketchy beach observations, walkers battling the sand, crab legs EVERYWHERE, and the moment I discovered I may have missed my calling as a professional golfer at Topgolf. Because nothing says “relaxing vacation” quite like coming home exhauste...

Episode 21: ROAD TRIP — Wedding Bells to Myrtle Beach 🌴💍🚗 The road trip chaos continues! This episode starts with wedding bells in Tennessee as we celebrate my little brother getting married — and because apparently one trip isn’t enough, we leave the wedding and head straight for a week in Myrtle Beach . We’re talking wedding emotions, family chaos, being completely exhausted, living out of su...

Episode 20: ON THE ROAD — Nashville with None Other Than My Mother 🤠🎙️💗 We took Let’s BFFR ON THE ROAD — and this time, I brought none other than my mother along for the chaos. Destination: Nashville, Tennessee. With hours in the car and microphones in hand, what better time to put my mom in the hot seat with some rapid-fire questions ? We’re talking childhood memories, things she probably never...

What do pets and Chinese food have in common? Honestly… way more than they should. 😂 You know the cycle: you overdo it, swear you’re NEVER doing this to yourself again… and then somehow, there you are, doing it all over again. In this episode, we’re talking about the absolute joy of loving our pets, the gut-punch grief that comes with losing them, and why—despite knowing exactly how the story eve...

Somewhere along the way, we graduated high school... but apparently the drama didn't. In this episode of Let's BFFR , we're talking about gossip, passive-aggressive behavior, vague social media posts, refusing to communicate like grown-ups, and why acting like an adult shouldn't be this difficult. Life is too short for petty drama and manufactured chaos. So if you've ever wante...

Pull up a chair because this one goes exactly where you'd expect a Patio episode to go...absolutely nowhere. We're talking bra snacks, the great Hoosier flood of 2026, and somehow everything in between. One conversation turns into another, the stories get progressively more ridiculous, and staying on topic was never even an option. No script. No plan. Just Josh and me sitting on the patio...

Can you be confident... and completely terrified at the exact same time? Because if so... I'm nailing it. In this episode, I'm getting real about chasing big dreams while quietly questioning every single one of them. We talk about self-doubt, imposter syndrome, parenting adult kids, and the kind of worrying that doesn't magically disappear just because your children grow up. The truth...

Hot flashes. Brain fog. Night sweats. Random rage. Waking up in a puddle of sweat between your boobs. Sound familiar? In this episode of Let's BFFR , I'm asking the question we've all wondered at least once... Is it perimenopause... Or is everyone actually just that annoying? Join me as I navigate the joys of aging, hormones that have clearly chosen violence, and trying to determine wh...

We all have them. Those completely irrational little habits that science probably can't explain... but we swear by anyway. Washing your face when you're overwhelmed. Taking a deep breath in the freezer aisle. The Vicks nasal stick. Turning the music down to find an address. That one lucky parking spot. Do any of these actually work? Probably not. Will I keep doing them? Absolutely. In this...

Somewhere along the way, adulthood came with a list of expectations that nobody remembers signing. Have a successful career. Keep the house clean. Eat healthy. Exercise. Be a good spouse. Be a good parent. Answer every text. Remember birthdays. Drink enough water. And somehow... don't lose your mind. Let's BFFR... The expectations are absolutely wild. In this episode, we're talking about the invis...

If you're a sports parent... This one's for you. From living in the car and spending a small fortune on travel sports to surviving on concession stand food, endless laundry, and schedules that somehow revolve around everyone but you... Parenting an athlete is a full-contact sport. This week, I'm talking about the chaos, the sacrifices, the emotional roller coaster, and why--even after...

Patio Series – Episode 4: Marriage: The Stuff Nobody Warned You About Everyone tells you marriage is about love, communication, and compromise... Nobody tells you it's also about thermostat wars, deciding what's for dinner every single night, becoming the family password manager, collecting reusable grocery bags you'll never remember to take, and somehow having the exact same conversat...

Episode 13: Parenting Older Kids (Nobody Warned Me About This) Everyone tells you to enjoy them while they're little... but nobody warns you about what happens when they get older. In this episode of Let's BFFR , I'm talking about the stage of parenting that no one prepares you for. The attitude. The eye rolls. The one-word answers. The constant worrying, even though they're becomi...

If you've ever yelled, "WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!" from behind the wheel... this episode is for you. This week on Let's BFFR , I'm venting about the everyday driving habits that make absolutely no sense. From people who refuse to merge, to drivers who think roundabouts are optional, to brake-checkers, left-lane campers, and the folks who somehow make every four-way stop more confu...

Guys, this episode is basically a public service announcement. You're welcome. Today I'm spilling all the secrets women have been keeping from you for years. What we really mean when we say "I'm fine," why "whatever" definitely does NOT mean whatever, and why "you don't have to get me anything" is one of the biggest traps ever created. We're talkin...

🎙️ Episode 10: I Didn't Sign Up for This (But Here We Are) — Part 1 Let's be fucking for real… Nobody tells you what it's REALLY like being a parent of an athlete. The early mornings. The forgotten cleats. The travel ball tournaments. The Yeti cooler parents who somehow have matching EVERYTHING. And don't even get me started on Nationals, trading pins, or the kid on the opposing team who definitel...

🎉 The Patio Series: Episode 3 — Birthday Extravaganza It's my birthday... so naturally, we took the chaos to Chicago. Three nights. One patio. Countless laughs. Zero organization. Join Josh and me as we celebrate my birthday the only way we know how—by wandering through Wrigleyville, telling stories, laughing way too hard, and somehow ending up in conversations that make absolutely no sense.....

Daytime Jen has a to-do list, real pants, and a wig she actually puts on. Nighttime Jen has an elastic waistband, no thoughts, and a couch she refuses to leave. They are not the same person. They have never met. And Nighttime Jen is tired of being asked to act like Daytime Jen. This episode is about the wig coming off, the bra coming off, and the beautiful, necessary art of couch rot. Listen if yo...

The Patio Series: Episode 2 Grab a chair... we're back on the patio. This week, Josh and I are all over the place—in the best way possible. We swap vacation stories, dive into some absolutely unhinged dreams, and somehow end up talking about Fortnite. Because that's just how conversations on the patio go. No script. No agenda. Just two people hanging out, laughing, and seeing where the con...

Ever wonder why grocery stores bring out the absolute weirdest behavior in people? This week on Let's BFFR , I'm joined by my friend Darcie Greene as we tackle the chaos that is grocery shopping. From shopping cart criminals and people blocking entire aisles, to abandoned rotisserie chickens, self-checkout meltdowns, and the question we've all been afraid to ask… Who's still buying...