Kinkist's Podcast

Send us Fan Mail After a long hiatus, we’re back with a fresh perspective. In this episode, The Real McCoy opens up about the challenges he faced during his time in New York and how they impacted his discipline and self-image. We discuss the journey of getting back into a dominant mindset, the importance of leading by example, and what it takes to reclaim mental and physical control. Tune in as we...

Send us Fan Mail In this insightful episode, we sit down with a lawyer who specializes in kink and non-conforming lifestyle relationships to unpack the complexities of navigating the legal world within the BDSM community. From understanding consent in a legal context to drafting relationship contracts and protecting yourself in unconventional dynamics, we explore the unique challenges faced by kin...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we dive into the buzz surrounding P. Diddy and the allegations about his extravagant parties. But more importantly, we use this moment to explore a vital topic: how to navigate coercion and set firm boundaries around consent. Through real-world examples and thoughtful discussion, we’ll break down how consent can be compromised in high-pressure social situations an...

Send us Fan Mail BDSM and kink can be thrilling and deeply rewarding, but it's important to remember that these practices come with inherent risks. In this episode, we dive into safety reminders specifically for submissives, with a focus on understanding and navigating those risks. We'll break down key safety acronyms like R.A.C.K. (Risk Aware Consensual Kink), P.R.I.C.K. (Personal Respo...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we dive into the journey of personal and relational growth within the lifestyle, exploring how desires and dynamics evolve over time. We'll discuss the importance of self-reflection and personal evolution, as well as strategies for adapting to your partner’s changing needs. Effective communication is key, so we’ll share techniques for discussing shifts in des...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of the Kinkist Podcast, we explore the unique intersection of fatherhood and BDSM, focusing on the challenges, benefits, and the special qualities that make Daddy Doms so desirable. We address societal stigma and misconceptions, highlight the nurturing and guiding traits fathers bring to kink dynamics, and discuss how these roles can complement each other. Addition...

Send us Fan Mail Join us for a fascinating deep dive into the history and cultural significance of the 69 position. We'll explore its ancient origins, tracing back to historic texts and art from various cultures, and discuss how different societies view mutual oral pleasure. Learn practical tips for achieving comfort and balance, understanding anatomical differences, and ensuring effective co...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we delve into the common mistakes and pitfalls when navigating intimate encounters, especially within the dynamic of hotwife couples. Learn how to avoid missteps such as assuming clear communication, disregarding boundaries, neglecting emotional connections, and ignoring non-verbal cues. Discover the importance of choosing appropriate settings, respecting discreti...

Send us Fan Mail In Episode 65: Part 1 of our podcast, titled "What the Cuck!," we are joined by a special guest, JJ from Sexie Show, who offers unique perspectives on this intriguing relationship dynamic. Together, we embark on a deep dive into the intricacies and evolution of cuckolding within intimate partnerships. Join us as JJ shares their personal journey of embracing cuckolding, s...

Send us Fan Mail In Episode 66: Part 2 of our podcast, titled "What the Cuck!," we are joined by a special guest, JJ from Sexie Show, who offers unique perspectives on this intriguing relationship dynamic. Together, we embark on a deep dive into the intricacies and evolution of cuckolding within intimate partnerships. Join us as JJ shares their personal journey of embracing cuckolding, s...

Send us Fan Mail In Episode 67: Part 3 of our podcast, titled "What the Cuck!," we are joined by a special guest, JJ from Sexie Show, who offers unique perspectives on this intriguing relationship dynamic. Together, we embark on a deep dive into the intricacies and evolution of cuckolding within intimate partnerships. Join us as JJ shares their personal journey of embracing cuckolding, s...

Send us Fan Mail Explore a spectrum of tantalizing tips and tricks in Episode 64/65: "Getting Kinky with It." Dive into a world of sexual exploration as we unravel inventive and spicy ideas to elevate your intimacy. From utilizing mirrors for a voyeuristic experience to engaging in daring and inventive dirty talk, this episode offers a playful guide to ignite passion. Discover the thrill...

Send us Fan Mail Embark on a journey of establishing meaningful connections in the realm of kink with Episode 63: "Kink and Coffee." Join us as we explore the art of building non-sexual connections during initial encounters with kinky individuals or couples. Discover insightful tips, including meeting in neutral settings, communicating expectations, and finding common ground beyond the w...

Send us Fan Mail Delve into the intricate world of polyamorous relationships and the ever-present specter of jealousy in Episode 62. Jealousy, a natural human emotion, takes center stage as we explore its manifestations and impact in polyamorous dynamics. Join us as we share personal experiences, unravel misconceptions surrounding jealousy in polyamory, and discuss practical strategies for effecti...

Send us Fan Mail Dive into the world of long-distance kink relationships in this episode. We explore the digital playground, discussing how technology fosters connection through video calls, messaging apps, and online platforms. Uncover the essential cornerstones of trust and communication, crucial for maintaining intimacy in these relationships. Discover strategies for planning visits and maximiz...

Send us Fan Mail Burning Man, the iconic festival in the Nevada desert, is known for its radical self-expression, art installations, and a culture that challenges societal norms. In this episode, we delve into the unique intersection of kink and alternative lifestyles at Burning Man. We explore how these communities express themselves, the personal growth and transformative moments experienced by...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 59 of our podcast, "Forgive me Daddy for I have Sinned | Religion and Kink," delves into the intricate journey of transitioning from religious backgrounds to embracing the world of kink. We candidly explore pivotal moments, moral compass realignments, and the challenges faced during this transformation. The episode navigates societal judgments, discusses the impa...

Send us Fan Mail In Episode 58 of the Kinkist Podcast, we delve into the topic of unexpected moments in sexual play with the theme "Oh S#it !: Accidents Happen." We aim to destigmatize and normalize body fluids encountered during sexual experiences, discussing saliva, sweat, natural lubrication, tears, blood, and excreations. We provide practical advice on how to handle unexpected situat...

Send us Fan Mail In Episode 57 of our podcast, we explore the realities of Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationships, going beyond the misconceptions perpetuated by mainstream media. We address common stereotypes and shed light on the true nature of power exchange dynamics. Emphasizing the foundational elements of consent, communication, and trust, we highlight the importance of clear boundaries and...

Send us Fan Mail Join us for an enlightening journey in Episode 56 of The Kinkist Podcast as we explore the distinctions and nuances between tops, bottoms, dominants, and submissives in the realm of BDSM. In this episode, we delve into the fundamental differences, characteristics, and psychological aspects of each role, as well as their unique responsibilities within power dynamics. Thanks for lis...

Send us Fan Mail In Episode 55 of our podcast, we explore the intricate balance of combining BDSM and parenthood. We discuss the challenges of managing parental responsibilities while maintaining a fulfilling BDSM lifestyle, including time management, privacy concerns, and finding a balance that works for both parents and children. We delve into the importance of age-appropriate education on kink...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome to Episode 54 of the Kinkist podcast! I don't like your kink!  In this episode, we explore the challenges of having differing kinks and sexual preferences within a relationship and provide five essential tips to navigate this situation. We emphasize the importance of open communication, where partners candidly share their desires, boundaries, and fantasies. Seeking un...

Send us Fan Mail Join us for an insightful episode of the Kinkist Podcast as we explore the topic of why a Dominant may have multiple submissives while discussing why a Submissive may not have multiple Dominants. We delve into the reasons behind a Dominant's decision to have multiple submissives, including fulfilling different needs, creating dynamic balance, and exploring power dynamics and...

Send us Fan Mail Join us for Episode 52 of the Kinkist Podcast as we delve into the topic of joining established non-monogamous relationships and the importance of quality etiquette. Whether you're the person joining or the couple inviting, we provide valuable insights and tips for a successful experience. From open communication and respecting existing dynamics to building connections and em...

Send us Fan Mail In Episode 51 of the Kinkist Podcast, titled "Shame on You: Why We Shouldn't Slut Shame," we delve into the harmful practice of slut shaming and its effects on individuals. We explore the societal double standard that exists, where men are often praised for their sexual encounters while women face criticism and labels. Through examples of slut shaming scenarios, we...