It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

FIRSTLY, please take 4 minutes to fill out an It's A Lot survey for a chance to win $100 https://bit.ly/3BFXJSY Why are SO many men incapable of cooking, cleaning and changing the f*cking sheets? Can we grow up please? Also, Abbie has the BEST advice if you're ever stuck with a man weaponising his incompetence. LINKS Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   Revie...

A random balding middle-aged man passes on his wisdom on the history of vibrators to an unwanting uncomfortable spectator. Read the room, mate. LINKS Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG  Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com    CREDITS  Host : Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield   Supervising Producer...

One of the biggest podcasters in the world pops in for one of the best chats we've ever heard on It's A Lot. Author, LGBTQ activist and host of the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage, answers Abbie's burning questions and reveals intimate details about his life with his husband Terry. What does Dan consider the "cancer of a relationship"? What did Abbie do on The Bachelor that Dan is so proud of? What ad...

TO-MO-RROW it's DAN SAVAGE on the podcast! LINKS Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review .  CREDITS  Host : Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield   Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakharia Digital and Co-Creative Producer : Oscar Gordon @oscargordon   Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode .  Su...

This Nightmare Fuel forced Abbie, Elise and Oscar to go down a hilarious rabbit hole of YouTube tutorials on "How to Kiss Your Crush". Also, yes. Abbie does talk about getting fingered on the dance-floor.  LINKS Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG  Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com    CREDITS ...

FIRSTLY!!! Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Are we witnessing the end of the 'avoidant' era for Abbie? Will somebody finally be able to penetrate her 'non-vaginal walls'? Will she actually drop her long-standing roster and give monogamy a red hot go? Oscar and Elise sit down with Abbie in one of the deepest discussions we've ever had about Abbie's life on It's A Lot...

Imagine getting your period while wearing a squeaky clean white hazmat suit... Host Wendy Zukerman tells us all about her Nightmare of a story while visiting a nuclear reactor in the US.  LINKS Listen to Wendy's podcast Science Vs https://bit.ly/3ALmNYe Follow Wendy on Twitter https://bit.ly/3LM34xZ Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on...

Science nerd and one of Australia's OG podcast hosts Wendy Zukerman is here to answer all of Abbie's questions such as: Do men with uncircumcised penises feel less pleasure? Are we monogamous by default? And why should we stop washing our vulvas? LINKS Listen to Wendy's podcast Science Vs https://bit.ly/3ALmNYe Follow Wendy on Twitter https://bit.ly/3LM34xZ Email your own voice memos for Nightmare...

FIRSTLY!!! Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Full Disclosure: Someone, and we're not pointing any fingers, forgot to take their ADHD medication before we recorded this episode so a 4 minute voice note sent us on a LOT of tangents.  What starts as an innocent hotel hookup, becomes a very lodged tampon, Abbie finding out her sister met The 1975 WITHOUT HER, and then on...

This episode discusses self harm, disordered eating, depression and anxiety. Please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 if this raises any issues for you.  Musician and angel Mia Wray joins the show to talk the big stuff; her mental health, her music writing, and ending her 7 year relationship because she was falling in love with a woman. On a writing trip overseas she channelled her confusion and h...

A sweet angel who deserves the world sent in a Nightmare Fuel with more layers than an onion parfait. And because nothing is sacred we break down trying to figure out what a physicist ACTUALLY does.  This episode mentions suicide. Please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 if this raises any issues for you.  LINKS Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG  Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to...

This episode briefly touches on Mental Health and addiction. Please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 if this raises any issues for you. Full resources included in the LINKS section of the episode description.  Abbie's two weeks off from radio means she returns with the voice of an angel. Loljks she sounds like crap and we can blame Matty Healy (sorta). Plus there's an article doing the rounds abo...

What started out as a lil bootie workout twerk tutorial to try and cope with the stresses of everyday life ended up in hospital. And.. well. the real nightmare fuel isn't how Esme got there, it's what happened (or moreover DIDN'T happen) once she was in the hospital. LINKS Listen to Esme's podcast Kinky History   Listen to our interview with Esme https://link.chtbl.com/woe2IlTA . Follow @esme.loui...

What IS a kink? What did we use for dildos before silicone and batteries? And WHY is there a pornography room in The Vatican? Luscious QUEEN and Kinky Historian Esme Louise James joins us to share some of the most fascinating stories about kink, give Abbie some tips on how to f*ck herself with a suctioned dildo on her shower wall, and generally blow our little minds.  Like, why do we depict witche...

Ah newly wedded bliss. There are few things that can derail it, and this Nightmare Fuel might just be the absolute worst, foul, weird, discombobulating way to do it. You better pray that something like this doesn't happen to you on your wedding day. LINKS  Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG  Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com .  For the Trauma Dump Tour send your...

Settle in for a rollercoaster of an episode my sweet little beluga bby. We're orgasming, we're crying, we're lonely, but we're giggly too. Let's debrief and catch up like old times. LINKS  Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG  Listen Abbie's 'Hot Nights' radio show https://bit.ly/3vDRYDw Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  CREDITS  Host : Abbie Chatfield @abbiechat...

Producer Elise brings a nightmare fuel from her corporate girlie era, and then, cause she is a chicken and doesn't want her fcked dating stories on the internet forever she shares a bonus story that a friend sent her. LINKS  Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG  Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com .  Listen to Abbie's 'Hot Nights' radio show https://bit.ly/3vDRYDw  ...

A familiar voice returns to the show, we catch up, we reflect, and.. Abbie might need to go back to therapy (independent of the poddy not because of it!) LINKS  Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG  Listen Abbie's 'Hot Nights' radio show https://bit.ly/3vDRYDw Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  CREDITS  Host : Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield   Supervising Producer...

Author and Comedian Toni Lodge's flirting attempts at a house party have led to this week's HILARIOUS Nightmare Fuel.  Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com LINKS  Listen to Abbie's 'Hot Nights' radio show podcast https://bit.ly/3vDRYDw Listen to Toni's podcast Toni and Ryan http://bit.ly/3JPau2q Buy Toni's book "I Don't Need Therapy" http://bit.ly/400FqCi  Follow @to...

How can a conversation about a dead parent be so funny? Toni Lodge (of the Toni and Ryan podcast) LEGIT makes Abbie piss herself in this one. If any of the topics discussed are triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14. Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com LINKS  Listen Abbie's 'Hot Nigh...

"Why can't you root on a Tuesday?" "Why did you bring only ONE bottle of wine with you?" and "How do you roll your car 2 minutes down the road?" are among the many questions we were faced with listening to this week's EPIC Nightmare Fuel. Dare ya to top it babe!! Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com LINKS  Listen to the previous Nightmare Fuel Abbie mentions https://...

The "Nicest Gronk You'll Ever Meet" has stumbled on a theory that's cost him his job. Abbie's ready for attack! If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 or by visiting Q Life's website https://qlife.org.au/ Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com LINKS  Li...

Abbie sits down with Queer Culture ICON Adam Lambert to chat music, mental health and about why so many conservatives are peeing their pants right now. Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com LINKS  Visit Adam Lambert's website http://bit.ly/3ZQEPD0 Listen to Adam's new album http://bit.ly/3T0fXpW Donate to Adam's 'Feel Something' Foundation http://bit.ly/3ZAFSah Listen...

Why would ANYONE try to deny someone else's diagnosis? Abbie has something to say about Meshel Laurie's accusation against Em Rusciano. Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com LINKS  Listen Abbie's 'Hot Nights' radio show https://bit.ly/3vDRYDw CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield www.instagram.com/abbiechatfield Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia https://www.instagram.com/lemz...

This fully tattooed man-child can't stand tahini stir-frys and women with tattoos. I know. WTF, right? Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com LINKS  Listen Abbie's 'Hot Nights' radio show https://bit.ly/3vDRYDw CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield www.instagram.com/abbiechatfield Guest: Rowdie Walden https://www.instagram.com/rowdiewalden/ Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia ht...