It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

CW: This episode contains discussions of mental ill-health, chronic illness, and suicidality. If this raises any issues for you help is available 24/7 via Lifeline at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14, as well as Beyond Blue at 1300 224 636 or https://www.beyondblue.org.au . At just 16 years old Lily Schubert got sick, eventually receiving a diagnosis of Myalgic Encephalomyelitis...

Andrew and Tristan Tate were arrested in Florida last week, and are facing extradition to the UK to face 38 additional charges. The Tate brothers deny any wrongdoing. Abbie and Amy are breaking down what happens next, but not before a big long rant about why the discourse around reactions to the arrest is so cooked. LINKS See Abbie on tour! https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen Send us your tho...

CW: This episode contains mention of animal cruelty. This NMF had our jaws ON THE FLOOR!!! Still in shock tbh... This is why you never go to a party alone. LINKS See Abbie on tour! https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9 Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast...

It's been a minute since Abbie's been on the mic solo, so it's time for a little life update, mental health check in, and Abbie randomly remembering she got in touch with someone from her past... NOTE: If any content in this episode raises issues for you, please remember that help is always available. Contact Lifeline on 13 11 14, or visit www.lifeline.org.au for 24/7 help. You can also contact Be...

It's our first Nightmare Fuel from our new Reddit page!! This group chat drama story's got everything with mentions of the 4B movement, looksmaxxing, birth rates and more... LINKS See Abbie on tour! https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9 Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . R...

Endometriosis awareness is higher than it's ever been, but why is there still so much that's missing from common knowledge?? Abbie sits down with Prof Jason Abbott, one of Australia's leading experts in endometriosis, pelvic pain, and menstrual disorders. They discuss uncommon endo symptoms, treatment, the latest research, and answer some of your burning questions about the condition. LINKS See Ab...

We've got something a bit different for you! Instead of a Nightmare Fuel, Abbie and Aleks are unpacking an email from a chook who was after some advice about her relationship. LINKS See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen Learn more about Aleks Trkulja https://linktr.ee/ThePleasureCentre Follow Aleks on IG @_thepleasurecentre Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and mo...

Today we have not one but TWO amazing episodes with sex, relationship, body image and trauma therapist (AND Abbie's dear friend) Aleks Trkulja! In this ep Aleks will be talking all about TRAUMA BONDS! What are they? Does it always mean you're in an abusive relationship? What can you do to break the cycle? If this episode has raised any issues, please know that help is always available. You can con...

Today we have not one but TWO amazing episodes with sex, relationship, body image and trauma therapist (AND Abbie's dear friend) Aleks Trkulja! In this ep Aleks will be answering some of your burning questions about navigating different sex drives, unmasking during sex, and feeling embarrassed about initiating sex. LINKS See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen Learn more about A...

A short and not-so-sweet horror story about a woman who just won't leave this chook and her family alone!! LINKS See Abbie on tour! https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9 Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review CREDI...

It's the end of another financial year, and for many it's the opportunity to restart working on money resolutions. It's SO important for young people, and especially young women, to take control of their finances and feel empowered about their decisions!! But where do you start? Well, luckily we have money expert Jessica Brady here to chat through spending habits and goals, money in relationships,...

We love a self-aware chook who knows when she is both in the Nightmare Fuel but also causing a bit of it. Let's go lesbians!! LINKS See Abbie on tour! https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9 Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit....

The good news is, Abbie handed in the first draft of her book!!!! The bad news is, right as the extra brain space has opened up, Pauline Hanson did a speech at the National Press Club so now we have to unpack that... LINKS See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9 Check out @itsalotpod on...

The Jungle Giants frontman himself Sam Hales is in the studio!! Fresh off their hit new album, Sam made time to tell us some PEAK Nightmare Fuel stories with music legends aplenty. LINKS See The Jungle Giants on tour: https://www.thejunglegiants.com/tour-dates Listen to the album Experiencing Feelings of Joy https://orcd.co/experiencingfeelingsofjoy See Abbie on tour! https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfi...

In this episode, we discuss child sexual abuse, mental health issues, and sexual assault. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14. Since we last had Harrison James on the podcast, he's achieved sweeping legislative change with his #YourReferenceAintRelevant campaign. But it wasn't s...

We've had office drama, now it's time for some teacher drama! This chook takes us through some wild stories from her Christian high school and we're so happy to be along for the ride. LINKS See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9 Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-inst...

It's been a while and Abbie needed some cheering up, so what better medicine than the Men's Rights Reddit?? Some absolutely kooky takes from the lads about respect, parenting, and office doors. LINKS See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen ABC article about AFL: https://www.abc.net.au/news/2026-05-31/tyrendarra-football-sexual-assault-minor-return-club/106691104 Send us your tho...

What better time to hear from a chook about her healthcare horrors than when Emma Hardy is in the studio!! Medical misogyny is truly the stuff of NIGHTMARES. LINKS Buy Emma Hardy's book Periodic Bitch https://www.allenandunwin.com/browse/book/Emma-Hardy-Periodic-Bitch-9781761473593 See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: h...

In the weeks since the 2026-27 Federal Budget was announced there's been a lot of misinformation to navigate, complicated tax lingo to get around, and of course a bunch of terrible AI content. Abbie sits down with Senator Larissa Waters, leader of the Australian Greens, to talk about what these changes actually mean for the everyday Aussie, what could have been done better, and why One Nation are...

Emma Hardy lives with PMDD, and spent years of her life trying to work out what actions and feelings were 'her', and what was her PMDD. Her new memoir, Periodic Bitch, intertwines her exploration of her own psyche with cultural depictions and (mis)understandings of monsters, menstruation, and monstrous women. Emma and Abbie discuss the frustrating cycles of medical misogyny, identity and illness,...

There's a brand new Aussie reality show and Abbie is OBSESSED. The first ep of Turned On: Dirty Sexy Money just dropped on Stan, and we were lucky enough to chat to one of the cast members! Chloe tells us about her journey unpacking her own internalised misogyny, and shares some insider goss about all the drama to come this season.  LINKS Watch Turned On: Dirty Sexy Money only on Stan See Abb...

Surya McEwen is one of 11 Aussies who have just arrived back in Australia, after another attempt to break the naval blockade and bring aid to Gaza. He speaks to Abbie about his experience on his fourth mission, and how the escalation in violence, and the international attention has changed since October last year. This episode contains graphic descriptions of violence. If any of the topics discuss...

While being an independent podcast has its perks, we also miss the weird and wonderful world that is an office. Thankfully, we can have a dose of the goss thanks to this chook's WILD office NMF!! LINKS See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9 Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/...

NOTE: This episode contains discussion of mental ill-health, if any content in this episode raises issues for you, please remember that help is always available. Contact Lifeline on 13 11 14, or visit www.lifeline.org.au for 24/7 help. You can also contact Beyond Blue on 1300 22 4636 or visit www.beyondblue.org.au . If you or anyone you know is in immediate danger, call 000. LINKS See Abbie on tou...

As promised, Kayla tells the story of her disastrous Turkiye BBL trip... For more stories like this, pick up a copy of Kayla's book Call Girl Confidential LINKS Get Kayla's book Call Girl Confidential : https://bit.ly/m/kaylajadebook Follow Kayla on IG @itsmekaylajade Follow Kayla on TikTok @blueeyedkaylajade Submit your guest suggestions and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9 Check out @it...