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Send us Fan Mail Join us as we celebrate our notoriety and it's not quite what we expected, but we'll take it! This is a question worth asking! Not what do you do- but what do you want to be known for?? We're sitting with this one for a bit, you're welcome to join us🌹 Support the show Thanks for being real with us.  Get our weekly newsletter straight to your inbox 💌  Get it h...

Send us Fan Mail Oh hi friends, today's episode is a sweet little reflection on what life sends our way. Sometimes the medicine needs a spoonful of sugar, and sometimes it's just bitter as hell. We're all getting the medicine. Hopefully that helps it go down a little sweeter. In it with you❤️ Support the show Thanks for being real with us.  Get our weekly newsletter straight to your...

Send us Fan Mail What do you get when you cross an April Fool's joke and a piercing needle???  You get this episode.  Support the show Thanks for being real with us.  Get our weekly newsletter straight to your inbox 💌  Get it here Made you laugh? or Cry? Rate + review the show — cause we're in this together and others might need our silly shit. Share the love and this episode with a fri...

Send us Fan Mail This is NOT a shame fest of starting and stopping. We are digging into what we learn when we find something that works but then BECAUSE it works, we stop.  See how we did that? It's a funny feedback loop. We take action when something isn't working, but what happens when something does work?? Is positive reinforcement enough to keep us diligent, intuitive, flowy, or disc...

Send us Fan Mail We're doing a follow up on our friend Rebecca and the 50th Birthday party she planned for herself. This one is good. We also call on our AI advisor to help another friend who has felt tentative about planning her party, come up with some strategies to move past the hesitation. This is pure fun. Please please please tell us about a time you planned your own party!  Support the...

Send us Fan Mail We let the cards guide this discussion and there's something so good about going off the cuff and not knowing what the cards will ask us to consider. We hope you enjoy this as much as we did!  Support the show Thanks for being real with us.  Get our weekly newsletter straight to your inbox 💌  Get it here Made you laugh? or Cry? Rate + review the show — cause we're in th...

Send us Fan Mail You know the feeling...you're going about your business and then *kabang* it hits you that you missed a meeting. Or you missed something important- swap out meeting for whatever fits your life these days.  It can trigger an onslaught of biological response-slight panic, fumbling around trying to make contact with whoever you stood up, the negative self-talk reprimanding yours...

Send us Fan Mail So many valuable life lessons have been learned in a gym. From honing your gut instinct to accepting assistance when you really need it- the gym serves it up.  Seriously though, I've been traveling this week, and I've been popping into a gym as a way to stay balanced while out of my normal routine. It's funny how comforting and familiar the smells of the gym can bec...

Send us Fan Mail We love the Olympics and all that love got us thinking- why aren't there Olympics for the later in life folks?? Sign us up! We'll need some absorbent diapers and pelvic floor support but we're eager and determined.  Let yourself be inspired and emotional with the athletes, parents and Snoop Dog. It's just too good to only happen every 4 years.... we're sad...

Send us Fan Mail Our nipples are tingling over this one babes.  But for real, do we really need to explain why boosting the love hormone might be a good strategy these days? We think stimulating the cuddle chemical might rise to the top, right up there with "eat your protein".  And also, there are real reasons your oxytocin levels might be throwing you under the bus and then suddenly you...

Send us Fan Mail In a season of life when heaps of shit are being thrown at us from all directions- we're contemplating what it means to hold it all lightly. Balancing responsibility with self-preservation, the art of the volley is worth considering.  The sphere is prominent in this episode, and we find it helpful because they are soft and at the same time, they are strong as hell, resilient...

Send us Fan Mail There are a lot of life analogies that can be found on the ski hill. We found another one- the smooth white icy patches that catch you off guard, send you sailing, have you white knuckling your way through life. This is a balm for those without the answers right now❤️ Support the show Thanks for being real with us.  Get our weekly newsletter straight to your inbox 💌  Get it here...

Send us Fan Mail Credit to my son for that title!  Ok, we're currently feeling fried about the state of the country sooooo we're throwing something fun and exhilarating to counteract the urge to retreat in fear. Get out there and throw your arms to the wind, it's time to ride!!! Support the show Thanks for being real with us.  Get our weekly newsletter straight to your inbox 💌  Get...

Send us Fan Mail It's time to partaaaaaay. And we're throwing our own party. In today's episode we tease out the discomfort and the opportunity that can come from tooting your own horn. And in 2026 we're calling for more of this! Take your bold authority and plan yourself the party, potluck, or night on the town that you've always wanted. Make it all yours, request the son...

Send us Fan Mail We're back at it but we're easing in and we hope you can too. How do we take breaks? Why are breaks important? We're breaking it down bit by juicy, drippy, bit. Actually, it's not juicy, I mean it's not sexy juicy. It's reality. But let's go easy huh? My dear friend recently purchased a hat that says "Rawdoggin Reality" and we hope that...

Send us Fan Mail MWAH, now get out of here you dirty little biscuit.  We're kissing 2025 goodbye and sharing our approach to entering a new year. We like to claim a bold word for the year, something to hold on to as we move through the inevitable complexities of life. What we know tho: what you think you're setting out to do/be/become/undo will likely take you somewhere totally unexpecte...

Send us Fan Mail All things beloved (and cursed) about the magical time of year we call Christmas. Laughter is a balm,  and we're serving up a nice juicy one to get you relaxed and, in the mood,...  In the mood for what is what we really want to know🤣 Tell us how your holiday goes- send us Fan Mail, shoot us an email iadorethehellouttayou@gmail.com  Tell us all about your marshmallow world ❤...

Send us Fan Mail "Because when you make people laugh, you make people listen" We're thrilled to have Lynn Harris, CEO of Gold Comedy on the pod this week. Our conversation is a lesson in life-hacks because there is power in making people laugh, putting yourself out there over and over again, learning to fail safely, and creating the will to do it again.  This is GOOD shit. Life shit...

Send us Fan Mail We're embracing the dark, not always willingly, but that's how it goes right?!  In this season of darkness, we not editing out pauses on purpose. We're leaving them in because it's the season of slow(er) when it comes to shadow work. This shit doesn't happen fast, it isn't always pretty or pleasant, but it is necessary medicine.  Instead of turning aw...

Send us Fan Mail "I'm good". It rolls off the tongues of many teenagers so easily, so nonchalantly. We're learning from the kids how easy it can be to say no. Gosh they're smart and maybe they're on to something here😉. They usually are.  Instead of being frustrated by the phrase we're going to claim it for our own. It's a pleasant and complete way of saying...

Send us Fan Mail 🦃🥧You can really sink your teeth into this episode. It's juicy, it's salacious, it will get your giggle going.  Please, just let your hair down (all your hair) and ease into the feasting spirit.  Whatever is on your plate will be more palatable with our hot takes on pubic hair, vaginal cream, clunky sex, and queefing like the queen you are👑 Support the show Thanks for...

Send us Fan Mail What would you do if no one was watching? This week, we’re wading into the wild waters of playful inhibition , and the art of not taking ourselves too seriously. What if?? What might happen??  We're dropping truth bombs about what really happens when no one is watching us. Turns out its more like a confessional than a vision board...  And if you don't have the Chani app...

Send us Fan Mail This one really hit home! Is it control, is it fear, is it all an illusion anyway??!!!  We're processing out loud and our inner werewolves are howling (again) as we wrestle with the illusion of control and what's at stake when we surrender. Is it a silver bullet solution or certain death? It can be hard to tell sometimes.  Support the show Thanks for being real with us. ...

Send us Fan Mail ✨ In this episode: We're digging into what it really means to live in alignment with your values. Are you walking your talk? Or drifting a little off course? Think of this episode as a cozy fall check-in for your inner bowling lane — if you're feeling 'in the gutter' maybe your ball is just off course?? We're full of bad analogies but the conversation is...

Send us Fan Mail Get ready to howl and curse.... This week, we dive headfirst into our alter egos , past lives , and the personas that help us explore who we really are. We try on a lot of different "outfits" in this episode, but ultimately, we keep coming back to the most cozy and comfy ones, our tried-and-true selves.  It's that time of year when we have the opportunity to put on...