How To Relate

We may not enjoy regret, but we can make it useful. Brittani and Drew are here to talk about how we can examine the emotional landscape of regret to help us understand what we want for our lives. Check out the resources for articles and more in the show notes. Enjoy!   00:00 Introduction to Regret 00:02 Emotional Landscape of Regret 00:58 Personal Experiences and Identity 01:33 Religion and Regret...

Understand play therapy & integrative family dynamics with Hannah Edwardson, LCMHC. Hannah is a Synergetic Play Therapy certified provider working with kiddos and parents. She uses the family system to help parents understand their children and help children understand their nervous system through play. Enjoy this comprehensive exploration on the importance of play for all.   00:33 Hannah's Jo...

In this episode of the How to Relate Podcast, we explore the topic of confidence with Ashley Emmons. Ashley shares her unique journey from paralegal to therapist, experiences in wilderness therapy, and private practice. The conversation delves into confidence distortions, examining perfectionism, and practical approaches to building genuine self-trust. Ashley also discusses her Confidence Cohorts,...

Jaclyn Ditter is back! We're reviewing the best and worst dating events of 2025. Plust why Charleston is the city for men to date, are run clubs still the new dating app, and how to approach people at the gym. Enjoy!   00:54 Charleston Adventures 03:05 Relocation Thoughts 05:26 Dating Dynamics and Social Skills 08:49 Speed Dating Experience 11:53 Pitch a Friend Event 14:16 Pickleball and Social Ev...

Daniel Fleshner, LPC, AASECT Certified therapist shares his experiences with mental health tech companies, and offers a balanced perspective on the optimistic and cautionary aspects of AI in therapy.   00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:12 Discussing AI in Therapy 00:44 Challenges in Mental Health Tech 02:41 Insurance and Mental Health 08:28 Global Healthcare Systems 09:47 Consulting in Menta...

Explore 7 verbs of intimacy, blocks, and understand how you can deepen intimacy with self and others.     00:31 Exploring Different Types of Intimacy 01:56 The Seven Verbs of Intimacy 03:02 Understanding the Verb 'Ask' 04:19 The Importance of 'Taking' 05:19 The Vulnerability of 'Receiving' 06:58 The Act of 'Giving' 09:34 The Power of 'Refusing' 11:55 The Joy of 'Playing' 14:26 Identifying Intimacy...

Shame runs deep inside all of us. What if we switched the narrative from eradicating shame to working with it? Drew and Brittani deep dive into the definitions, origin stories of shame, and how we can begin our healing journey.   02:17 Podcast Format Change Announcement 04:28 Deep Dive into Shame 04:55 Defining Shame and Its Impact 10:23 Shame in Development and Relationships 23:43 Shame vs. Other...

A wounded Marine combat veteran, Chris overcame his own challenges and is now a thriving psychotherapist. With a foundation in cognitive behavioral therapy, he specializes in EMDR for performance enhancement and psychedelic integration therapy. Having worked with 7-figure business executives and startup founders, military combat and special operations veterans, athletes, creatives, first responder...

00:20 Event Overview: North Carolina Sport and Performance Professionals Conference 01:41 The Importance of Community and Real-Life Connections 02:27 Building a Supportive Team for Athletes 13:54 Challenges and Benefits of Planning the Conference 19:59 Final Thoughts and Encouragement to Join 21:45 Introduction and Sign-Up Information 22:16 Welcome Back to the Podcast 22:31 Event Overview and Deta...

Show Description with Timestamps 00:00 – Personal Stories Matter Host Brittani welcomes Heather Waxman back to the podcast and discusses the importance of sharing personal stories in therapy. 00:14 – The Power of Breathwork Heather explains the true intention behind breathwork, its connection to spirit, and how it helps us reconnect with our essence. 38:45 – Personal Healing Journey Heather shares...

00:13 Lake Gaston Adventures and Wakeboarding Woes 03:59 The High School Mentality Never Ends 04:44 Life Updates and Upcoming Plans 05:47 The Rise of Non-Alcoholic Options 07:29 The Return of Cigarettes in Media 08:36 Diving into Social Work 22:54 From Awkward to Approachable: Personal Growth 27:18 Therapy for Athletes: Building Genuine Connections 32:35 Bill Belichick's Coaching Style 33:20 Coach...

Chronic pain is curable?! We're learning about Pain Reprocessing Therapy with Trinity Perini, LCSWA and therapist at Whole Mentality. Trinity gives us a masterclass in how PRT works, her story with chronic pain, and her work with clients as a practitioner. You'll want to share this episode with anyone who has struggled with chronic pain, injuries, or who's interested in the mind-body pain connecti...

Mbong Henry, PT, DPT shares insights on the importance of pelvic health for athletic performance, pregnancy, and postpartum recovery. We delve into the complexities of pelvic floor muscles, common misconceptions fueled by social media, and the holistic approach required for effective treatment. You'll learn about the interconnectedness of the pelvic floor with other body parts, the impact of stres...

Psychologist and dating coach Dr. Lori Husband is back! Women dating in their 30's and 40's feel the heaviness of dating decisions, whether or not to freeze eggs, and factors that go into decisions for both. Whether you're a woman in this phase of life, or know women who are, this episode is for you.    00:41 Navigating Dating in Your 30s and 40s 04:12 Introducing the New Course: Should I Freeze M...

What is different about working with athletes? Drew Klobuchar is here to talk about sports, city team loyalty, and how athletes relate. We'll explore the role of sports in childhood and its effect on psychological safety, as well as the pressures and expectations athletes face from their environments and families. The conversation also delves into crash-outs, attachment theory, and the distinction...

It's a coffee catch up conversation with Jamie Illinetski (Drescher). After a two week vacation, we're back! Brittani and Jamie talk about lifestyle changes over the past ten years, soulmates, and splurges. Question for you: What's your Roman Empire?   00:00 Coffee Limits 01:03 Reflecting on Past Drinking Habits 03:22 Health Trends and Alcohol 04:52 Drugs and Creatine 06:05 Life Updates and New Ex...

00:35 Mission of Lane Nine 01:06 Understanding RED-S in Athletes 02:50 Signs and Symptoms of RED-S 07:33 Impact of Social Media on Nutrition 10:56 Diet Culture and Misinformation 16:01 Defining Diet and Its Flexibility 18:47 Frustrations with Diet Culture 21:45 Obsessive Health Trends 25:27 Debunking Misinformation 26:03 Exploring Food Beliefs and Patterns 27:48 Challenging Rigid Food Rules 29:19 ...

We're talking about sex on the How to Relate Podcast! Brittani is with sex educator and coach Veronica Dress. We'll explore the complexities of sex, sexuality, and intimacy. Veronica shares her personal journey from an upbringing in a strict Irish Catholic environment to her current career in sex education and coaching. We'll discuss the role of play and creativity in sexual relationships, and the...

Welcome back to How to Relate! Brittani is here with Cierra Listermann is a trauma therapist specializing with people who are dating. We talk about the impact of modern dating apps, attachment styles, and the importance of practical tools for trauma-informed dating. The episode provides valuable insights and practical advice for individuals navigating the dating world with an emphasis on self-wort...

Kim Konderla, LCSW is here with Brittani to talk about unique challenges for millennial women- especially millennial moms. Kim helps us define codependency and how we can move from codependence to interdependence in our relationships. We talk about IFS, parts work, and parenting from the inside out.   01:10 Raleigh Local Coffee Shops Shoutout 02:48 Friends Introducing Friends 03:45 Building Your N...

Brittani is here with John Markette! John talks all about fatherhood, young men's mental health, and ways men can be more active in their community. John discusses the important role of what it means to be a dad and why paternal relationships matter for adolescent development. We talk about nihilism and why how it can seductive trap in the fear of failure. Enjoy this conversation with John Markett...

Matthew Case is back! We're talking about spirituality. Matthew discusses how traditional religious and spiritual traditions can guide us through a collective spiritual crisis.    00:20 Impact of Asking Different Questions 01:29 Diving into Spirituality 03:10 Exploring Spiritual Practices and Traditions 04:27 The Big Question: Are We in a Spiritual Crisis? 05:44 Reevaluating Life Post-Pandemic 08:...

Welcome back to the How to Relate Podcast! Brittani is with Heather Waxman, LMFT. Heather is a coach and therapist working with people to practically live in a spiritually connected way. In this episode Heather shares her favorite modalities, including breath work, somatic practices, and Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) tapping, emphasizing their simplicity and practical application. You'll gain...

June is Men's Mental Health month and Justin Carotti is back. We're talking about men's mental health, pressure with reaching potential, and finding purpose.    00:43 Discussing the Lost Boys Report 01:32 Impact of Societal Changes on Men 05:01 Men's Mental Health and Behavioral Responses 08:44 Challenges in Addressing Men's Issues 12:05 Family Dynamics and Potential 22:14 Building Resilience and...

Navigating career transition? Thinking about leaving your job? Want to find your purpose? Marty McGovern from Career Therapy talks about how to navigate your work life with practicality and ease. We'll discuss AI, myth of the dream job, and importance of building relationships.    00:32 Career Transition: From Corporate to Therapy 02:08 The Evolution of Workplace Mental Health Services 04:29 AI in...