Grownkid

it's all too familiar experience feeling every other emotion on your birthday, but joy. the birthday blues are more common - sadness, anxiety, pressure, loneliness, reflection. but what if you didn't expect joy out of your birthday, and rather used it as a day to simply exist without overwhelming expecations. remember, it's YOUR birthday and u have one day of the year that is alllll yours. u can c...

this overshared is a little bit different because this time we decided to overshare some of our embarrassing stories. so from blacking out to making out with ur friends, sometimes things just happen. but we still read some of ur guys' overshares of course which made us reflect on our own behaviors...  follow us: @grownk1d @gaelaitor @_kaylasuarez join our social club: https://grownkid.typefor...

recently gael has been sleep talking and um it's reaching a point. because on top of that, he's also been sleep walking and hitting. he must be stopped. anyways, it made us think... how much are we responsible for what we say or do in our sleep? like what if u accidentally share a secret... or say another person's name with ur lover next to u.. or u slap someone. how much of it is excusable becaus...

now hear me out... what if... we just all lived with our friends until we're old or married and hang out everyday and enjoy each others awesomeness. what's the appeal of living alone compared to this? having roommates gets a bad rep but when you can choose who you live with, it feels like family. so if ur thinking about getting that studio apartment to live by urselt, maybe think twice. follow us:...

u know for people that love to go out and dance, we realize that a lot of the times, we’re anti-social. can both exist at the same time?? lmk. ok but we say this in a “we love the music so much there’s no reason to talk to each other and we don’t have the social battery to make conversation because this is our time to decompress” way. do u get it... this episode we talk about club etiquette, our i...

#hingepartner | guys... we're here to announce that we are turning erotically VISIBLE (or at least trying to). it's been a while since we last talked about feeling erotically invisible and though some things have changed, some have stayed the same. this episode we talk about what eroticism means to us, how we channel it, and of course, if we feel erotically visible now. check out more about hinge:...

#hingepartner | why do people seem so scared and reluctant to double text? are they scared of how they’ll be perceived? do they reek of desperation for sending a triple text?? well, we’re here to tell u that it’s really not that serious. there is no embarrassment in the honest pursuit of romance, friendship, or any type of connection. so yes, send that message. follow up with people. start chasing...

#hingepartner | when people hear “love of my life,” they think of lovers and romance and infatuation. but what if the love of your life is actually ur bestie?? what if its been twin all along?? this episode we talk about how finding love in friendships actually helps you find romantic love in ways you might not expect. because ur friendships make u more confident, support u, and just give u aura f...

#hingepartner | if we get one more message on a dating app saying "hi cutie" or "hi how's your day," we're going to explode. when did dating become so boring and expected?? bring back PLAYFUL DATING! like yes, ask me to wrestle you in the park instead of asking to grab dinner. in this episode, we talk about our frustrations with normal dates, boring first messages, and robot-like small talk. we ch...

i know we're not the only ones that have felt very very VERY lost at some point in our lives. no school to guide us, no passion to follow, just an empty canvas for us to fill. that first streak can feel so daunting so how are we supposed to get on with it? what kind of live are we trying to live? how are we supposed to know? in this episode we chat about how maybe the answer is service and well......

this episode we talk about our attachment styles and how we practice detachment. from healing our anxious-avoidant attachments to trying to become more secure and detached, we talk about what we cling to, why we cling, and what it actually takes for us to let go.is detachment really the key to getting everything you desire? how do you connect with everything, but don’t get attached? has detachment...

the people keep saying oh gen z doesn't drink gen z doesn't party they just intellectualize their feelings... well how bout now? drinking AND intellectualizing our feelings? what now? two hit wonder? dafuq? in this episode we chat about our relationship with alcohol, how it affected our family dynamics growing up, why we chose to drink in the first place, and how we get when drunk. all very fun th...

there is nothing worse than a hot day where ur wearing low waisted, baggy jeans that u constantly have to readjust and are slightly falling, but are being held by your sweaty skin and being overstimulated by everything around you. we recently had this experience, and it made us think about just how overstimulated we get, and how we deal with it. is this an us problem that we just need to get over?...

it feels like acne is just one of those things you go through as a teenager, but don't expect it to go into adulthood... this episode we talk about dealing with acne as an adult, how it affects our confidence, and how finding acceptance with our skin is easier than trying to like it. follow us: @grownk1d @gaelaitor @_kaylasuarez join our social club: https://grownkid.typeform.com/to/eZhv... oversh...

oh the ultimate dilemma to speak or to die... how do you know if you should send that message? when is the right time to speak up? is there ever a right time? are you selfish for sharing your feelings if you know it might hurt the other person? too many questions, we ded x_x follow us: @grownk1d @gaelaitor @_kaylasuarez join our social club: https://grownkid.typeform.com/to/eZhv... overshare with...

been unemployed for so long i forget health and dental insurance is a real thing real people have and not just some buzzword that gets thrown around. why is everyone unemployed, what's the real way in, and does it all come down to luck? in this episode we talk about our experience never having a corporate job, what we've learned about how people actually get hired, and give you advice on how to hi...

want to be in control of everything in your life? emotions, relationships, plans, career, diet, body, etc etc. to the point where it's like can you be calm for a minute, let someone elese take control and you can just follow along?? well, this episode goes out to all you control freaks. join grownkid: grownkid.com follow us: https://www.instagram.com/grownk1d/ Learn more about your ad choices. Vis...

what happens if you get added to someone's close friends story who is most definitely not a close friend? can't even mute them either cause you want to see their regular story so now what? do you tell them to remove you or just stay silent? in this episode, we talk about the dynamics of social media, unfollowing, muting, and what a close friends story is used for. bored with life? join grownkid: g...

from look-alike contests to lesbian oil wrestling to boxing your evil situationship, people are looking for a reason to gather. this episode we talk about how slop events have taken online discourse and made it something you could actually be part of. if slop events are what it takes to for young people to connect IRL, then yes, we will attend the Timothée Chalamet look alike contest. join our soc...

is it a bad thing to want to be desired for your body, some might say sexualized? in this episode we talk about feeling erotically invisible, aka the annoyance and frustration that comes with feeling like we have nothing to physically offer. we talk about feeling overlooked sexually, why physical validation feels different, and how it affects our self perception.join our social club: https://grown...

though initially created to help and prevent hurt in relationships, labels now keep us stuck. in this episode, we talk about how the language around love desensitizes us to real, emotional experiences, how labels can box us in, and whether calling something a "situationship" protects you or just limits you to what others think you should do and say. let yourself love, show you care, bring back ROM...

this week we read your guys' secrets and much was discussed... from identity loss to performance anxiety during intimacy to exploring your sexuality while being in a relationship. we learned a lot, and shared a lot. follow us: @grownk1d @gaelaitor @_kaylasuarez join our social club: https://grownkid.typeform.com/to/eZhv... overshare with us: grownkid.com About our Partners: GrownKid is made in par...

when the nonchalance era started a few years ago, being nonchalant was the highest virtue, and with that virtue, came an even higher cost: your happiness. disguised as a compliment, nonchalance became a prison dressed as freedom - a way to stay safe by staying detached, to protect yourself by caring less, and to win by never really playing. in this episode, we talk about how nonchalance is out, an...

there’s nothing like going back to ur childhood home during the holidays and, at first, feeling nostalgic, cozy, and maybe even happy… but then a week passes and suddenly you’re spiraling and feeling ugly. this episode, we talk about how the holidays can send us into an insecurity spiral and make it feel like we’re slipping back into old versions of ourselves. follow us: @grownk1d @gaelaitor @_kay...

with the holidays come the inevitable dynamics of gift giving. who do you decide gets a gift? is there an appropriate minimum to spend on someone? do you have to give a gift to show someone you love them? this episode we talk about how gift giving has turned into a social obligation and how money, guilt, and expectation have changed the ways we give and receive gifts. follow us: @grownk1d @gaelait...