Girl Stop Talking

110- This week’s episode is all about the bare minimum — why we settle for it, how it’s disguised as “effort,” and the many ways it sneaks into our relationships. I’m spilling my own stories (with plenty of laughs, of course), plus reading a raw, personal listener submission that fits this topic too well . We’re also unpacking my Instagram poll on “bare minimum vs. effort” (the results did NOT dis...

109- This week’s episode of Girl Stop Talking is serving up chaos, honesty, and a whole lot of laughs. Tatum dives into the icks — those little turn-offs that can turn a summer fling from hot to not real quick. She shares her own list of “icks,” reads hilarious (and sometimes cringe-worthy) listener stories about summer flings gone wrong, and breaks down the most common red flag moments we’ve all...

*BONUS*- This week’s episode is a little different, girlfriends — we’re going full vlog style! This is my first-ever YouTube vlog (so bare with me as I figure it out), and we’re recapping Chance and I's entire weekend in Nashville. From traveling together (and almost missing our flight… twice), to introducing my dad, hitting the Nashville bar scene, drag queen comedy roasts, and living it up a...

108- They dive into a jam-packed lineup of interviews, from sexologists to surgical professors, and everything in between — because, honestly, this one’s longer than usual! Here’s your minute-by-minute breakdown of the unfiltered magic: ​ 04:00-11:48: Michelle, Sexual Health Alliance(SHA) – leader in sexuality education, offering AASECT-approved training & certification programs in sex therapy, co...

107- On this week’s episode, Chance and I are kicking off Day One of the Stimulate event, where we hosted interviews with a handful of incredible guests. We sat down with a sexologist, a New York Times product reviewer, another fellow podcaster, a self-development coach, a hypno- and tantra sex therapist (Dr. Melissa Gentry), and Dr. Evan Goldstein — a sexual health and anal surgeon, founder of Be...

106- On this week’s episode, Chance and I are recapping our weekend in Nashville — from day one all the way through multiple nights out, including hanging at the bar with my dad, his curious questions about Chance’s life, and his thoughts on makeup, tiktok and going out with full glam. We also dive into the handful of people we met at the Stimulate event, plus all the details: the people, the afte...

105- This week’s episode gives listeners a behind-the-scenes look at Tatum and Chance’s first 24 hours in Nashville — and trust us, it’s a wild ride. Tatum kicks things off with a fun and flirty intro on “Myths We Believed About Sex for Way Too Long,” setting the tone for a slightly different episode format. This one starts vlog-style before diving into all the juicy gossip — including how they al...

104- This week’s episode is all about when life comes crashing down… and burnout takes over. Chance and I are gossiping about the telltale signs of burnout — because, babe, you might be going through it and not even realize. We spill on our own experiences, how we’ve (kind of) learned to navigate it, and of course, we get into all the toxic ways we’ve coped with it too. We’re also headed to Nashvi...

103- This week’s episode is all about parenting — but make it progressive! Tatum dives into what progressive parenting means to her and how she’s used open, honest conversations to navigate those tricky early childhood years — including the uncomfortable (but necessary) talks about sex as her son has grown up. She also opens up about what it’s really like to be in a co-parenting relationship — how...

102- Waiters, Fedex, and Bedroom Fears — Oh My! We’re back with an UNHINGED (and hilarious) catch-up 7 it's exactly what you needed! Tatum recaps Chance’s birthday dinner, including how their waiter fully committed to the bit, the unexpected gift that was opened at the table, and all the vibes of the night, pun intended. Then we dive into what we’ve been up to these past few months — and let’s...

Episode 101- This Week’s Gossip: Why I Went MIA + The Red & Green Flags You Can’t Ignore I'm back, giiirll — and I’ve got a LOT to catch you up on! In this week’s episode, I share all the drama on why I slid into the shadows these past couple of months, what made me hit pause on the podcast, and how that journey led me to finishing my CPT certification, checking on health, testing hormones...

Happy 100th episodes girrrrllllll!! It's been 3 weeks too long and I'm happy to be back. I obviously wanted this episodes to be perfect but knew it'd take time putting it together. Tune in to quite literally watch the growth of the show! From my old bedroom, un-synced audio, shitty camera quality to an in home studio, a better camera, and a co-host! I truly wish i could have added more because I c...

99- Hey friends! Today, Chance and I are back at it —chatting about the latest hard-boiled egg trend, and diving into our most chaotic nights out. Like seriously… how do we always manage to find ourselves in these wild situations?! It’s giving messy, but we love it! I also go on a little rant—because duh—about a very specific type of man. You know the one. He’s always lurking in Old Town or posted...

98- TRIGGER WARNING! THIS EPISODE CONTAINS DOMESTIC ABUSE. Hey, girl—welcome to my story! This week, I’m getting extra vulnerable and spilling all the tea on how I used these exact steps to break free from my most toxic relationship. And trust me... everything you’re about to hear? 100% facts. I seriously could not make this sh*t up if I tried! I'm opening up because I want you to know: you are al...

97- On this week’s episode, Chance and I are back and chatting about everything from tariffs (yeah, we’re getting weirdly smart today) to celibacy in young women—and why we’re all still out here just trying to find real love. We’re kicking things off with some trending topics to keep you in the loop and get us in the perfect mood to gossip. You already know the vibes—let’s get into it.

96- Hi, it’s me again—back for another solo episode, and whew... this one’s juicy ! This week, I’m spilling the full story behind that viral threesome rumor I posted about online—the one that was making its rounds in my friend group. Did it actually happen? Has it happened since then? You’ll just have to listen to find out. As the episode goes on, I also dive into some wild relationship tales—espe...

95- This week, Chance and I are finally catching up after three long weeks apart—can you believe it?! We’re diving into all things millennial: from the words making a comeback (yes, we’re bringing them back like it’s 2009) to wondering if we’re about to get ourselves canceled... maybe. Idk?? And since summer is basically knocking on the door, we’ve officially claimed it: This is the Millennial Sum...

This week’s episode is all about catching up! I’m giving you the scoop on everything that’s been going on in my life over the past month. And okay, I’ll admit—I was recording this one at the pool, so if I sound a little off, it’s because I’m still working on not getting totally awkward when people are around. 94-This week, I’m sharing a wild story about how I ended up helping save someone’s life,...

93- This week on the pod, Chance and I are dishing out all the juicy details from our wild Vegas adventure—because trust me, it was pure chaos in the best way. We’re talking all-nighters, new friends, a mind-blowing experience at The Sphere, and yes… even a pit stop at the wax museum (because why not?). We packed an entire reality show’s worth of drama into 24 hours, only to crash for another 24 l...

92- Vegas, baby! We’re hittin’ the road, and you’re coming with us! Buckle up for the ultimate girls’ trip as we spill the tea on relationships, dating, and the wild world of social media. Oh, and you know I had to bring the drama—I’ve got two brand-new games that’ll have us diving deep into our own love lives, insecurities, and how we really handle the chaos of social media. This episode? Controv...

91- Catch up with us, we have more surprises! On this weeks LATE episode we're going over all of our most recent ideas for the show including how to get more of us with a new YouTube series (coming soon). We also have a handful of write in's from our listeners and we're giving our opinions on their dilemmas! Everything from going on trips without your man, to "best friends" s...

90- Girlfriends, we’re back! After three weeks of absolute chaos, Tatum and Chance are finally kicking back on the couch for some much-needed girl talk. We’re catching up on everything — dishing out the details on our exciting new ideas for the show, dropping some sneaky hints about our upcoming reality series on YouTube (yes, it’s happening!), and, of course, diving into our fashion, or much need...

Chance is spilling all the tea about the time he unknowingly became the other woman ! Yep, you heard that right—he hooked up with a man on the down low who just so happened to be in a whole relationship. Whew! And guess what? We’ve got the voice messages to prove it! Why does Chance keep attracting these men? How did it all go down? And most importantly... who caught the c*m? Tune in to find out—b...

We’re BACK, baby! It’s our second episode, but officially our first real yapping session—so buckle up! Today, Chance and I are spilling all the tea on our wild nights out together… and trust me, we’ve got stories for days ! From staying up till sunrise to, um… trying to hook up with guys in the bathroom—WAIT, WHAAAAT?! Yeah, you heard that right. But it’s not just about the chaos (although, let’s...

It’s Monday, girl! And ooooh, do I have a surprise for you! On this week’s episode, the one and only Chance is BACK—yes, a fan favorite, if you will—and trust me, we have so much to talk about. But don’t worry, we’re keeping it fun as always! We’re spicing things up with some juicy ‘Would You Rather’ questions and a wild round of ‘Never Have I Ever.’ And of course, we’re getting to know Chance on...