Gaining to Give

In this week's episode, Josh is joined once again by special guest (and wife), Holly Roche.  Together, they explore the five essential money conversations every couple should have before saying “I do.” From unpacking your financial backgrounds and money mindsets to discussing debt, spending habits, and shared financial goals, they cover the crucial topics that build a strong financial foundation f...

Maybe you're someone who has considered using a Financial Advisor but, like many, are intimidated by how it all works.  In this episode, Josh sets out to demystify the process and explains step by step how The Roche Group goes about customizing a plan based on the unique needs and desires of each client.     For more information or to contact The Roche Group, you can find them on social media or b...

In Episode 14, Josh gets personal and shares some of the most important lessons he has learned throughout his financial journey.  You'll hear about his story and how he got to where he is today.  Whether our relationship with money is good or not so good, there are always things we can take away from our experiences to help us grow.   For more information or to contact The Roche Group, you can fin...

In times when the stock market is experiencing extreme fluctuations, it is easy to allow panic to set in, which often-times can lead to impulsive decisions.  In this episode, Josh offers three important things to do while riding the wave that will allow you to come out the other side as good or better than when you started.  Above all, it's critical to stay disciplined and not let short-term volat...

This week's episode is focused on the fear and anxiety that too often creep into our lives.  Whether caused by managing personal finances, investing, or another one of life's challenges, Josh discusses the difference between things we can control and things we can't, and how our perspective can make all the difference.    For more information or to contact The Roche Group, you can find them on soc...

In Episode 11, Josh explores the power of contentment and how easy it is to fall into the trap of comparison and always wanting more.  He also discusses the frequent confusion between contentment and complacency, and the difference between the two. Tune in for helpful insights and practices that can help us remain content while still having a healthy motivation for growth and productivity.   For m...

Does God look down on wealth and prosperity?  Is it wrong to earn a high income?  What are some safeguards we can establish to avoid becoming too materialistic?  These, along with others, are some questions Josh sets out to answer in this week's episode.  As you listen, one main theme you'll discover is that it's not so much about whether we make a lot or a little, but rather, how we use what we'v...

It's an exciting time at The Roche Group.  Episode 9 of the podcast releases shortly after Josh and his wife welcome their new baby into their family!  Fittingly in this episode, he reveals the top 5 financial lessons he hopes to instill in his kids while they're young.  Covering key topics like the importance of budgeting, the power of delayed gratification, and the value of generosity, these ins...

Speed and efficiency is the name of the game in our society.  But is it always worth what we could be giving up in the process?  In Episode 8, Josh explores the benefits of choosing intentionality over convenience in a fast-paced world.  By slowing down and making mindful choices, we can enrich our lives, deepen relationships, and find greater fulfillment.   For more information or to contact The...

With tax season upon us, Josh offers four powerful tax strategies that can significantly enhance the impact of your charitable donations. From giving appreciated securities to utilizing donor-advised funds and endowment funds, he breaks down how these approaches not only maximize your giving potential but also offer valuable tax benefits.    For more information or to contact The Roche Group, you...

This week, it's another "family edition" of Gaining To Give as Josh has a conversation with his older brother, Matt Roche.  Matt could be considered a jack of all trades.  He has been a data analyst in the corporate world, he owns a local real estate company, and operates a ranch.  Despite the diversity of his background, one observation that has been consistent is the importance of offering value...

Most of us agree that generosity is a nice concept, but is it really something that needs to be taken seriously?  This week, Josh is joined by Blake Bastin, Pastor of Ministry & Operations at Crossings Community Church in OKC, who shares wisdom and real-life stories that help to illustrate why generosity carries so much weight.  Listen in on this enlightening conversation and you'll be sure to...

The first episode of the season focuses on setting attainable goals.  This week, Josh jumps back into goal setting but digs deeper into some key principles that can help insure you are successful when you look back on your progress.  He talks about understanding the why behind your goal to stay motivated; measuring small, consistent steps to build momentum; and the importance of reflecting on who...

As we've said multiple times on the podcast, generosity can take on many forms besides simply giving away money.  This week's episode features a conversation with special guest, Mike Beckham, who shares some profound wisdom on the subject.  As CEO of Simple Modern, Mike has made one of his main focuses finding ways to integrate generosity into the very culture of the company.     For more informat...

With Season 2 of the podcast now in full-swing, Josh takes time to visit with his brother, Caleb Roche!  Caleb is an entrepreneur and is the Founder of Club Creative, a marketing and business consulting company in Oklahoma City.  In this episode, Caleb shares about his journey of self-discovery, navigating unexpected challenges, and discusses ways that generosity has played a key role in the succe...

It's a new year and that means a new season of Gaining To Give!  In 2025, Josh kicks off Season 2 of the podcast by covering some essential steps that can help you establish realistic financial goals for the new year.  Discover practical ways to tackle your aspirations whether it’s building your emergency fund, or simply being more generous with your resources.  

In this episode of Gaining To Give, Josh sits down with Kris Keiser, a successful CPA, entrepreneur, and educator serving the Oklahoma City area.  Kris shares about his journey to success, including valuable lessons learned from overcoming years of challenges and offers practical advice for those embarking on their own entrepreneurial paths. He also touches on the critical role tax planning can pl...

With the next election quickly approaching, there has been a lot of focus on the present and future state of the stock market.  So how much should the political climate actually play into your investment strategy?   In this episode, Josh and Paige investigate historical data to reveal how elections truly affect stock market performance, challenging common assumptions and fears. By taking a look at...

Most of us would agree that there are things we wish we would have known before stepping out on our own.  As the saying goes, "Hindsight is 20/20".  While it may be inevitable that our kids learn certain lessons the hard way, there are several practical ways we can prepare them for life in the real world.   This week's episode is Part 2 of a two-part series in which Josh and Paige uncover five mor...

Most of us would agree that there are things we wish we would have known before stepping out on our own.  As the saying goes, "Hindsight is 20/20".  While it may be inevitable that our kids learn certain lessons the hard way, there are several practical ways we can prepare them for life in the real world.   This week's episode is Part 1 of a two-part series in which Josh and Paige uncover five thi...

In a world flooded with information, knowing how to pick out sound advice from the rest can be daunting.   In this episode, join Josh and Paige as they discuss the art of discerning credible financial advice.  From distinguishing trustworthy sources online to evaluating recommendations from financial professionals and loved ones, you'll hear about practical strategies to navigate the noise. Learn...

Depending on your age, retirement planning may or may not be at the top of your priority list when it comes to your finances.  However, allowing as little as three to five years slip by without a solid plan can make a huge difference down the road.    In Episode 28, Josh and Paige dive into strategies and insights that can transform your financial future, from smart savings techniques to investmen...

"Keeping up with the Joneses" has a much broader (and less attainable) meaning than it used to.   In this episode, Josh and Paige dive into how societal pressures shape our definitions of fulfillment and discuss how contentment is oftentimes a moving target.  They also share practical strategies to help redefine "enough" in our lives by changing our mindset. Whether you're seeking balance in caree...

As with any behavior change, becoming a generous person doesn't happen overnight.  It takes daily, intentional habits to see results.    In Episode 26, Josh and Paige discuss practical ways to integrate generosity into everyday life beyond financial giving—from simple acts of kindness to fostering a generous mindset.  Discover how these practices can enhance your well-being and improve relationshi...

This week, Josh sits down with Stacey Pezold.  Former Paycom executive, writer, podcast host, and dedicated mom, Stacey shares her inspiring journey of overcoming unexpected challenges in both career and motherhood. Join us as she reveals the pivotal moments and strategies that led to her success, offering practical insights and wisdom along the way.   You can hear more from Stacey by finding her...