Fierce Conversations with Toby

There was a day when I almost disappeared—not physically, but quietly, in the way we sometimes lose ourselves when staying silent feels safer than being seen. The kind of disappearing that happens when you grow tired of being misunderstood. When staying silent feels easier than speaking. When making yourself smaller feels safer than being seen. In this deeply personal episode of Fierce Conversatio...

Prison took comfort. Certainty. Privacy. Control. Time. But it also stripped life down to its barest truths. In this episode of Fierce Conversations , I reflect on the unexpected things that emerged inside the hardest season of my life — perspective, resilience, deep human connection, and a new understanding of what truly matters. This isn’t a story about glorifying prison. It’s a conversation abo...

Some moments don’t end when they happen. They echo. They divide a life into before and after. In this episode of Fierce Conversations with Toby , Toby revisits one of the most painful and defining fractures of her story—the split between who she was, who the world believed her to be, and the woman she would eventually become. Through raw reflection and hard-earned wisdom, this conversation explore...

I wasn’t going to read the comments. But I did. What I found wasn’t just judgment—it was something deeper. In this episode, I reflect on what happens when we come face to face with the stories people tell about us—and what shifts when we stop taking them personally.

There is a moment in every life that changes everything. A rupture. A decision. A loss. A truth that can’t be unlearned. But what we don’t talk about enough is what comes after . After the moment passes. After the adrenaline fades. After the world keeps moving as if nothing happened.

Twenty years ago, Toby Dorr escaped prison — a moment that forever divided her life into before and after. But this episode isn’t about the escape itself. It’s about what came next: truth, accountability, healing, and discovering freedom in unexpected places. This reflection marks the 20th anniversary of February 12, 2006 — a day that reshaped everything and ultimately led to advocacy, storytellin...

Where truth gets a microphone — and silence doesn’t get the last word. Fierce Conversations with Toby is a podcast for stories that refuse to stay buried. Hosted by author and advocate Toby Dorr , each episode offers a quiet but unflinching reflection on truth-telling, resilience, and what it means to live with conviction after everything changes. This is not a podcast of soundbites or spectacle....

Fierce Conversations with Toby isn’t just a podcast — it’s a movement of voices that refuse to be silenced. Hosted by author and change-maker Toby Dorr, each episode dives deep into raw truths, second chances, and the power of resilience. Here, you’ll find unfiltered stories of struggle and triumph, moments of grace in the midst of chaos, and conversations that rise stronger even when the world tr...

Change doesn’t happen overnight. But progress is progress, no matter how small. Take a moment today to celebrate those small wins—every step forward counts. Whether it’s completing a task or making a decision, honor your journey and recognize the growth in each day.

Fear is a natural feeling, but it doesn’t have to control us. Letting go of fear is about making peace with uncertainty. Trust that you have the resilience to handle whatever comes your way. Let fear be the fuel that drives you forward instead of the anchor that holds you back.

Self-belief is the foundation of everything you do. You have everything you need inside you right now. No one else has your unique combination of gifts, strengths, and experiences. Trust yourself. Believe that you are ready for the next chapter.

Courage isn’t always about grand gestures—it’s built in the small, everyday steps we take toward change. In this episode of Fierce Bits, we explore how embracing small acts of bravery can lead to powerful transformation. Whether it’s speaking up, stepping forward, or simply refusing to give up, every moment of courage matters. Because real change starts with one bold step at a time.

In this episode of Fierce Bits , we dive into the transformative power of choice. Change starts with a mindset shift, and the first step is recognizing that you have the power to choose your path. It’s easy to feel stuck in the face of uncertainty, but today, we’re embracing the idea that your next step is yours to decide. We’ll explore how small choices can lead to big transformations and how shi...

What wisdom would you share with the person you once were? In this Life-Changing Questions episode of Fierce Bits , we pause to reflect on the lessons, love, and encouragement we’d offer our younger selves. What would you say? And more importantly—are you listening to that advice now? Join us for a moment of reflection and self-compassion. 💭💫 #FierceBits #LifeChangingQuestions #WisdomWithin

When you're in the middle of a struggle, it's easy to feel stuck or defeated. But what if this challenge isn’t just an obstacle—it’s a stepping stone? In this Life-Changing Questions episode of Fierce Bits , we explore how adversity can shape, strengthen, and prepare you for something greater than you ever imagined. Take a moment to shift your perspective and discover the hidden growth within your...

Life moves fast, but have you paused to ask yourself: What truly matters most to me? And more importantly— Am I living in alignment with it? In this short yet powerful Fierce Bits episode, we invite you to reflect on your values, priorities, and the small (or big) shifts that could bring you closer to a life that feels authentic and fulfilling. Take a deep breath, tune in, and let this moment of r...

Fear holds us back from the life we’re meant to live. In this short but powerful Fierce Bits episode, Toby challenges you to ask yourself: What would you do if you weren’t afraid? When we strip away fear, we uncover our deepest desires and boldest dreams. Take a moment to reflect—what’s waiting for you on the other side of fear?

One quiet act of defiance changed the course of history. On December 1, 1955, Rosa Parks refused to give up her seat on a segregated bus in Montgomery, Alabama. Her quiet strength ignited the Montgomery Bus Boycott, sparking a movement that challenged racial injustice and reshaped the fight for civil rights. This Fierce Bit honors Rosa Parks’ unwavering courage and the power of one moment to inspi...

Harriet Tubman risked everything for freedom—not just her own, but for countless others. Escaping slavery was only the beginning; she returned again and again, guiding over 70 enslaved people to safety through the Underground Railroad. With unwavering faith and fearless determination, she defied the odds and became a beacon of hope. This Fierce Bit honors her extraordinary bravery and the legacy o...

For nearly three decades, the Berlin Wall stood as a symbol of division and oppression. But on November 9, 1989, the courage of ordinary people demanding freedom shattered that barrier. As protests grew and pressure mounted, the wall finally fell, marking the end of the Cold War and a powerful victory for unity. This Fierce Bit honors the resilience of those who dared to dream of a world without w...