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Esays/Psays — Your Biweekly Dose of Black Love Apparently, while Ellyn and Paul have been busy staying married for 37 years, the dating world went ahead and invented a whole new language. This week they're breaking down the latest relationship buzzwords — and giving their very honest, very married take on each one. Spoiler: some of these are just old habits with new names. Buzzwords covered this e...

Money is one of the top reasons couples divorce — so why don't we talk about it more honestly? This week, Paul and Ellyn get real about finances in marriage. From the "ambush method" to shared goals and hard lessons learned, they share what's helped them navigate 37 years of financial ups and downs together. Plus, there is a question they had asked about open relationships. Listen to Paul's respon...

“It’s Our Anniversary” What happens when two young people in love try to figure out marriage, adulthood, family expectations, and real life all at the same time? In this anniversary episode of Esays/Psays, Paul and Ellyn reflect on their wedding journey, moving to Los Angeles, family chaos, early marriage expectations, grief, growth, and the realities of building a life together over 37 years. Fro...

Join us for another episode as we discuss strange global relationship traditions. We span the globe from Austria, Asia, Finland, Africa, and America. Take a listen and learn something new, and have a laugh. As mentioned in the episode, we are sponsored by our Esays/Psays Hoodie and Tee. Please see the link below. mockmediagroup.com buymeacoffee.com/mockmediagroup FB, IG and Youtube - @mockmediagro...

Unbelievable though it may be this example of Black Love had a moment where it didn't seem like we would be moving forward. It was around the time of our 13th year of wedded bliss. We just couldn't keep it together. And we were really petty with our disagreements. So take a listen in as we discuss how we got to the other side. We also pay tribute to our Uncle Pouncy who was a Tuskegee Airmen that...

Happy New Year!! Yes our episodes are a little off. We are working on getting in synch. However, it is never too late for a Happy New Year!! So listen in while Paul and Ellyn discuss 10 items on their bucket list as a couple that they would like to do in the future or have completed during their 36 years of marriage. And stay tuned for a feisty Mock Minute where Ellyn says she feels homeless in Am...

Two weeks ago, you heard Paul talk about his book Vignettes From A South Central Son, Part 1. If you missed that episode, go back and give it a listen—and be sure to grab a copy of the book. It’s a great story you won’t want to miss. This week, Paul and Ellyn are back and catching up after their extended break, sharing where they’ve been and what’s been going on. They also kick things off with a h...

Welcome to Part 2 of Season 2. We know you been waiting and we made sure our comeback episode is well worth it. In this episode Ellyn interviews her co-host, Paul about his great accomplishment of writing and publishing his first book. If you haven't read it please pick it up, Vignettes From A South Central Son, Part 1. It is on Amazon. You can also checkout his website and sign up for the newslet...

Ellyn and Paul define and discuss what marriage means to them.

Ellyn and Paul discuss the previous year and their goals for the current year.

Ellyn and Paul interview the Purpose Queen Dashana Jefferies. Dashana discusses her mental health journey and the steps she is taking to stay healthy. She is an author and serial entrepreneur. If you or someone you know is struggling please listen and learn some resources you can use. You can also reach out to her many social media platforms to learn more. IG - @Dashana_Breathes, TT - @Dashana_Bre...

Ellyn and Paul discuss meeting the in-laws. Something we can all relate to this time of year. Please enjoy!! #esayspsays #blacklovewins #cheersto35years #podcastle #podcastersoftiktok #podcasterofinstagram #podcastersofamazon #ezztees #etsyshop

Paul and Ellyn discuss how and when they knew that their youngest son was going to make it in life. #esayspsays #podcast #cheersto35years #podcastersofinstagram #ppodcastersoftiktok #podcastersofamazon #ezztees #tiktokover40 https://linktr.ee/esayspsays

Paul and Ellyn discuss how and when they knew that their oldest son was going to make it in life. #esayspsays #podcast #cheersto35years #podcastersofinstagram #podcastersoftiktok #podcastersofamazon #ezztees https://linktr.ee/esayspsays

Paul and Ellyn return for a 2nd season of the show. Please read Paul's book Vignettes of A South Central Son, Pt 1 - https://a.co/d/67Cq7nI Checkout our Merch on Etsy and TikTok - Etsy - https://ezztees.etsy.com and TikTok - @esayspsays Feel free to also checkout The Purpose Queen - @thepurposequeen

Ellyn and Paul discuss how some core beliefs have changed.

Paul and Ellyn discuss the things that they love and dislike about each other.

Ellyn and Paul discuss their first date.

Paul discusses his background and meeting Ellyn for the first time.

Ellyn discusses her background and meeting Paul for the first time.

Welcome to the first episode of 'E Says, P Says', a weekly exploration of Black love from two perspectives. Co-hosts Ellen (E) and Paul (P) embark on a journey, sharing their personal milestone of being married for 35 years, through conversations about their life and lessons discovered on their path. In this episode, Ellen and Paul celebrate their triumph over odds in a world where over 51% marria...