Doing It With The Daniels Podcast

Marriage is a journey best taken with divine guidance, something we discovered firsthand over our two decades together. Celebrating our 20th anniversary this year prompted us to open up our wedding album and share the authentic, sometimes hilarious truth about our special day. When we decided to get married, we didn't just follow our feelings. We individually sought God through prayer, receiv...

Charles and Tesa Daniels share essential wisdom for singles on identifying and responding to relationship red flags that could signal future problems in marriage. • Red flags are warning signs that demand attention and consideration before making a lifelong commitment • Unaddressed anger and control issues often worsen after marriage, creating unhealthy power dynamics • Disrespect and dismissivene...

Charles and Tesa Daniels share powerful insights on navigating the necessary adjustments couples must make to build a successful shared life in marriage. They draw from personal experiences to illuminate how the transition from independent to interdependent living requires intentional effort, patience, and communication. • Letting go of the "me first" mentality to prioritize your spouse&...

Charles and Tesa explore the concept that happiness is a personal choice rather than something your spouse or partner can provide for you. We delve into how finding joy in small moments can transform your relationship more than grand gestures or expensive experiences. • Small moments matter more than elaborate dates or vacations • Learning to play and laugh together instead of being petty during d...

Charles and Tesa Daniels offer practical guidance on navigating disagreements in marriage without causing lasting damage to your relationship. They share personal experiences and biblical wisdom on how to fight fair while maintaining connection and respect. • Stop trying to win arguments and focus instead on understanding your spouse • Words can't be unsaid, so be careful with what you say du...

Charles and Tesa share valuable insights about what they wish they'd known before getting married, offering a transparent look at the realities couples face and how to navigate them successfully. • Love doesn't fix bad habits - it often magnifies them • You can't read each other's minds - clear communication is essential  • Arguments aren't about winning but understanding...

Tesa and Charles share insights on navigating the complexities of spiritual growth within marriage. They explore the importance of understanding and supporting each other's spiritual journeys while managing expectations. The conversation emphasizes patience, love, and the potential for unity even when partners are on different spiritual paths. • Understanding individual spiritual growth rates...

Exploring the significance of boundaries in marriage offers couples invaluable insights into protecting and enhancing their relationship. We delve into the purpose of boundaries and how they can serve as a safety net against misunderstandings and external influences. • Understanding boundaries as protective limits in marriage  • The importance of keeping others out of marital issues  • Navigating...

Understanding gender roles in marriage is essential for a harmonious partnership. This episode examines biblical insights, practical communication strategies, and introduces a gender roles worksheet to help couples navigate their responsibilities effectively. • Defining gender roles in marriage  • The importance of premarital conversations  • Biblical perspectives and their relevance today  • Anal...

Balancing marriage and ministry can feel like juggling two full-time jobs, each demanding your time and energy. What happens when these worlds collide, threatening the harmony in your relationship? On "Doing It with the Daniels," we unpack our personal journey of navigating these challenges, sharing the moments of tension and triumph that taught us the value of teamwork and communication...

Could the secret to a thriving marriage be forgiving "seven times seventy"? Imagine the freedom of releasing resentment and nurturing a relationship where daily forgiveness is the norm. In our latest episode, we invite you into our personal journey as we navigate the complexities of marital forgiveness. We share how embracing this biblical principle has transformed our lives, allowing us...

Communication can make or break a marriage, and after 20 years of navigating the highs and lows together, we've learned that it's not just about what you say—it's how you say it. Tune in as we share stories from our own marriage, highlighting the power of both verbal and non-verbal communication. By understanding the subtle cues of body language and tone, couples can turn misunderst...

Unlock the secrets to a thriving partnership as we, Charles and Tisa Daniels, guide you through setting meaningful relationship resolutions. Discover how transforming traditional individual resolutions into shared couple goals can enrich your bond, whether you’re reflecting on past victories and challenges or charting a new path forward. Explore practical strategies for keeping resolutions alive a...

Ever wondered how to transform your marriage from a battleground of selfish desires to a sanctuary of mutual sacrifice? Join us on "Doing it With the Daniels" as we uncover the secrets of turning self-centered expectations into a flourishing, loving partnership. Through engaging stories and light-hearted anecdotes, like the quirky expectation of washing your spouse's car, we demonst...

Can trust ever be fully restored after infidelity? Join us, Charles and Tesa, in this episode of Doing it With the Daniels as we unravel the intricate journey of rebuilding trust after a betrayal. We promise to offer you not just insights but practical advice on navigating this emotionally charged terrain. We'll thoroughly discuss why the effort required to mend a shattered bond is monumental...

Ever wonder why some marriages withstand the test of time while others crumble under pressure? Today, we're pulling back the curtain on the crucial practice of maintaining privacy in marriage. Drawing from our nearly two decades of experience, we promise to reveal the hidden dangers of oversharing marital issues with friends and family. Get ready to understand why turning to professional coun...

Ever wonder if your marriage might be taking a backseat after kids enter the picture? Get ready for a heartfelt conversation on "Doing it With the Daniels" as we unpack the often-overlooked shifts that occur in a marriage post-children. By sharing our personal journeys, we shed light on how prioritizing your relationship with your spouse can lead to a more stable family environment for y...

What happens when the daily grind causes your marriage to lose its spark? Today on Doing it With the Daniels, we promise to uncover the secrets of reigniting the fire in your relationship. We'll explore why meaningful communication is essential and how daily routine conversations about work and kids can unintentionally create a disconnect. Through real-life stories and personal experiences, w...

Imagine never envisioning yourself married to someone with a child until a profound sense of faith guides you into the role of a step-parent. Charles shares his transformative journey from initial hesitation to embracing the path of step-parenting, alongside Tesa, who opens up about her fears and hopes of finding a partner who could truly love her child as their own. Together, they reveal the hear...

Ever wondered how to truly keep God at the center of your marriage? Join Charles and Tesa in this heartfelt episode of "Doing it with the Daniels" as they share the "secret sauce" that has fortified their relationship over the years. They recount their commitment to allowing God's word to be the ultimate guide in their union, helping them resolve conflicts and stay united...

Ever wondered how to maintain respect in your marriage even when you don't feel respected? This episode, we tackle that tricky question head-on, sharing personal stories and practical advice to help you navigate those moments. Charles and Tesa dig into the complexities of sustaining mutual respect, exploring how the initial efforts to impress each other can fade over time, leading to feelings...

Ever prayed for your partner only to realize you might need some help yourself? On this episode of "Doing it With the Daniels," we share our eye-opening experiences of initially seeking divine intervention to "fix" each other, only to discover the transformative power of praying for mutual support and understanding. We'll guide you through the journey of calming your mind...

Ever feel like your marriage is a battleground where only one side can win? Discover how we turned our heated disagreements into opportunities for growth and unity in this episode of "Doing It with the Daniels." Join us as we share our personal journey through the rollercoaster of marital conflict, reflecting on how our divergent communication styles once clashed and caused turbulence in...

How do you navigate the complex journey from honeymoon bliss to the daily grind of shared life in marriage? Today, we unpack the realities of merging two lives into one harmonious household, focusing on financial management, household responsibilities, and even the small yet significant details like where to store common items. Through our personal experiences, we shed light on the importance of c...

What if the decision to move your wedding date could redefine the essence of your relationship? On this heartfelt episode of "Doing It with the Daniels," we recount the faith-driven choices that led us to change our wedding date from July to April, aligning our union with our spiritual values. Charles opens up about his commitment to our relationship, which involved leaving a past girlfr...