Doing Divorce Different with Lesa Koski

Episode Description Being selfish isn’t wrong—it’s essential. In this episode of Doing Life Different , divorce coach and author Valerie Jones (“Val”) joins Lesa Koski for a raw, authentic conversation about why women must reclaim the word selfish to thrive after divorce, during midlife transitions, and beyond. Discover how prioritizing yourself leads to deeper connections, stronger faith, and gre...

📄 Episode Description: Divorce mediation and flat-fee legal strategies can help you avoid court, save thousands, and protect your peace. Learn how to divorce smarter today. In this episode of Doing Life Different , Lesa Koski interviews New Jersey attorney, mediator, and men’s divorce strategist John Nachlinger . Together, they reveal how the traditional divorce system often profits from your pai...

The Healing Power of Hope: How Mindset and Faith Help Us Through Life’s Hardest Moments 📝 Episode Description: Hope isn't just wishful thinking—it’s a mindset that shapes our outcomes. Discover how hope, mindset, and faith can guide you through divorce, illness, or any hardship. In this powerful Saddle Up segment, Lesa Koski reflects on the healing power of hope—how it played a role in her breast...

🎧 Episode Description: Discover how postnuptial agreements can help strengthen your marriage , clarify finances, and protect your future—whether you're navigating a life shift, building a business, or staying at home to raise kids. In this follow-up episode, collaborative attorney Melissa Miroslavich joins us again to explore how postnups work, when they make sense, and why they’re about resilien...

📝 Episode Description: Can a prenup actually help prevent divorce? In this quick Saddle Up segment, Lesa Koski breaks down Tuesday’s episode with attorney Melissa Miroslavich and shares why prenuptial agreements might be one of the best ways to build a stronger, smarter marriage. Whether you're single, engaged, divorced, or remarried, this 5-minute episode challenges the myths about prenups and e...

Should You Get a Prenup? How Legal Planning Can Strengthen (Not Sabotage) Your Marriage 📝 Episode Description: Prenuptial agreements aren’t just for the rich and famous—they’re a powerful tool for protecting your marriage and your peace of mind. In this episode of Doing Life Different , attorney Melissa Miroslavich breaks down what a prenup is, why more couples should consider one, and how legal...

After divorce and burnout, Kristina Ganow lost 70 pounds, rebuilt her health, and found purpose through fitness coaching. Discover how small changes can reshape your future. In this episode of Doing Life Different with Lesa Koski Divorce, Love & Reinvention After 40 , Lesa Koski sits down with health coach Kristina Ganow to unpack her inspiring story of post-divorce transformation. From emotio...

Parenting Through Challenges: A Personal Story and Helpful Insights In this episode of the Saddle Up segment, the Lesa shares a personal story about parenting differences with her husband, illustrating how each parent can contribute uniquely, even when approaches differ. She emphasizes that her podcast is for women facing various hardships, not just divorce. Reflecting on a past conversation with...

in this episode, host Lesa Koskiis joined by matrimonial attorneys Morgan Mazor and Lauren Crane from New York City to discuss the complex topics of co-parenting and divorce. The discussion covers practical tips for managing summer custody arrangements, the importance of forward-thinking in divorce proceedings, and the need for creative and collaborative approaches to achieve the best outcomes for...

In this week's Saddle Up segment, Lesa shares key takeaways from Tuesday's special episode. Despite being stood up by a guest for the first time on the podcast, Lesa reflects on her personal experiences, including her 34-year marriage and battle with stage one breast cancer, to discuss the importance of setting boundaries and reigniting passions from childhood. She emphasizes that self-sacrifice s...

In this unique episode of 'Doing Divorce Different,' Lesa navigates an unexpected situation and shares profound insights on self-care and its importance in building stronger marriages. Drawing from her own experiences, including a 34-year marriage, a breast cancer journey, and personal growth, she discusses self-sacrifice, setting boundaries, and reconnecting with personal passions. Highlighting t...

In this episode of Doing Divorce Different's Saddle Up Segment, Lesa welcomes relationship expert Laurie Gerber to discuss how to keep the fire burning in long-term marriages. The conversation covers personal realizations about prioritizing marriage, Laurie's journey from business coaching to relationship coaching, and practical advice for improving intimacy and connection with your partner. Liste...

In this episode, the Lesa greets a new guest, attorney and author Heidi Friedman, whose recent book, *Love Lessons 104 Dates, and the Stories That Led Me to True Love*, provides insightful wisdom on relationships. Heidi shares her journey post-divorce, her decade-long dating experiences, and the 11 core lessons she identified through research and personal development. These lessons include themes...

This week's Saddle Up segment emphasizes the importance of amicable cooperation in divorce, especially when children are involved. Key takeaways from Tuesday's 'Doing Divorce' episode with Dr. Peggy Price, who is both an attorney and a mother of a special needs child, were discussed. The segment highlights the critical need for detailed parenting plans, particularly for special needs children, con...

In this episode of Doing Divorce Different , host Lesa Koski welcomes Dr. Price—a trailblazing attorney, educator, and autism therapist—who shares her extraordinary journey of combining legal expertise with a deep commitment to justice and special needs advocacy. With over 25 years of experience as a civil trial attorney and prosecutor, Dr. Price has served as an expert witness and consultant in m...

In this week's Saddle Up segment on Doing Divorce Different, Lesa chats with seasoned marriage and family therapist Dr. Becky Whetstone about essential tips for building strong marriages. Despite her own experiences with divorce, remarriage, and raising kids, Dr. Becky emphasizes the importance of self-improvement and addressing personal traumas. Highlighting insights from the book 'Facing Codepen...

In this heartfelt and insightful episode of Doing Divorce Different , host Lesa Koski reconnects with renowned family therapist and author Dr. Becky Whetstone to unpack the inner work that supports thriving marriages. Together, they explore why personal healing is essential—not just helpful—for relationship success. From the lingering effects of childhood trauma to the power of daily habits, Dr. B...

In this week's Saddle Up segment, Lesa shares insights from a recent podcast with Kimberly Miller of Part Wise, focusing on amicable divorces. Key points discussed include signs that indicate readiness for an amicable divorce, the importance of focusing on the future, open communication, and seeking clarity. Lesa emphasizes the benefits of mediation and collaborative law, advising listeners to wor...

In this episode of Doing Divorce Different , Lesa Koski sits down with Kimberly Miller—an attorney and licensed marriage and family therapist—who is changing the way divorce is approached. With a dual background in law and therapy, Kimberly shares how her work bridges legal strategy with emotional intelligence to support families through respectful, amicable transitions. We explore her journey fro...

In this episode, Lesa welcomes Tami Wollensak, known as the voice of reason for homeowners navigating divorce. They discuss Tami's inspirational story of personal growth and resilience after divorce, specifically her decision to downsize her home for financial and emotional stability. Tami shares the challenges she faced in maintaining a large home post-divorce and how she and her ex-husband remai...

In this episode, Lesa shares her experiences and insights on empowering women through challenging times, particularly focused on divorce. Emphasizing the importance of amicable separations when possible, she discusses the difficulties and emotional challenges that accompany divorce. Lesa also highlights how embracing and sitting with your sadness, alongside maintaining gratitude, can lead to perso...

In this episode, Lesa Koski is joined by Dr. Becky, a family and marriage therapist with personal experience in divorce and co-parenting. They discuss the adversarial nature of the family law process and the importance of pursuing amicable divorces for the well-being of children. Becky shares insights on how to manage co-parenting post-divorce, the psychological effects of divorce on children, and...

✨ Episode Summary: In this insightful two-part episode of Doing Divorce Different , I sit down with the incredible Dr. Becky Whetstone—a licensed marriage and family therapist with both professional expertise and personal experience in navigating the emotional terrain of marriage, divorce, and everything in between. Together, we explore the often-unspoken stages of a dying marriage , what those r...

Divorce after 50—often called gray divorce —comes with its own unique challenges and hidden truths. In this eye-opening episode of Doing Divorce Different , I sit down with seasoned attorney Michelle to dive deep into the emotional, financial, and relational complexities of gray divorce. Whether you’re an empty nester questioning your future, someone who’s felt controlled or stuck in a long-term m...

In this episode of 'Doing Divorce Different,' the host discusses the complexities and emotional aspects of contemplating and going through a divorce. Emphasizing the preference for amicable divorces, the host provides insights on when it might be time to divorce, the importance of personal growth within a marriage, and how to effectively prepare for the divorce process. Key points include the valu...