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Wait… How Did We Get Here? 🤷🏼‍♀️  Remember when you thought you had your whole life figured out? 😂 The plans, the dreams, the expectations… and then life said, “Bless your heart!” ♥️  In this episode of Did She Just Say That? , we’re reflecting on how much life can change from our 20s to our 30s (and what’s waiting around the corner in our 40s!). From making questionable decisions for love to n...

Ladies, can we talk about the guilt we carry before our feet even hit the ground?  We forgot one thing yesterday, and suddenly we’re questioning our entire existence… never mind the 1,000 other things we actually DID accomplish. Sound familiar? In this episode of Did She Just Say That?, we’re talking about the guilt women carry in all its many forms: mom guilt, career guilt, friend guilt, and the...

Are We Chasing the Wrong Things? What if the thing you’ve been chasing isn’t actually the thing you need? In this episode, we’re getting real about the pressure to want more, achieve more, have more, and become more —and asking the question: What are we actually chasing? We unpack the familiar promise of “I’ll be happy when…” — when we get the promotion, make more money, find the relationship, rea...

Girl, I Got You! 💕 What does it actually mean to be a friend who shows up? In this episode, we’re talking about the art of being a good friend—not just being available , but being intentional . We’re getting real about what it looks like to show up for the people we love, especially when they’re going through something. ❤️‍🩹  Sometimes showing up looks like a big gesture. But sometimes? It’s sit...

Sometimes you plan an episode. Sometimes you hit record and just… wing it. This week was definitely the latter. It was the anniversary of Ash losing her dad, and the grief showed up differently this year. Four years later, she found herself feeling something she hadn’t really experienced before: anger. So we talked about it. Honestly. Messily. Without notes, without a plan, and without trying to m...

Summer, we’re not ready to let you go… but apparently you have other plans.  Hot Girl Summer has officially left the chat, and we’re looking back at all the things that made this summer one we’ll be talking about for a while. The highs, the highlights, the songs that became the soundtrack, the moments we wish we could bottle up, and of course, our undying love for summer. But as much as we hate to...

🥊 FIGHT CLUB: RELATIONSHIP EDITION Let’s talk about fighting… but not the kind that ends with someone sleeping on the couch. 😂 Conflict is part of every relationship. Romantic, friendships, family, coworkers—we’re all going to disagree. The question isn’t whether we’ll fight, but whether we know how to fight together. In this episode of Did She Just Say That? , we’re getting real about navigatin...

And we have our FIRST EVER GUEST!  Meet Sarah — one of our dearest friends and the perfect person to join us for a conversation about what it really looks like to be a woman in your 20s, 30s, and 40s. The expectations.  The confidence crisis.  The career questions.  The relationships.  The friendships.  The “wait… am I actually doing this right?” moments. 😂 Because every decade comes with its own...

At some point, you stop asking, “Can I?” and start asking, “Do I even want to?”  In this episode, we’re talking about all the things we’ve officially decided we are too old for from uncomfortable clothes, staying out late, bad mattresses and heels that should come with a warning label… to drama, games, situationships, bad communication, breadcrumbs, ghosting and minimum effort in relationships. Be...

My Quads Have Entered the Chat Let’s talk about the body we live in… because apparently, our quads have opinions. 😂 In this episode of Did She Just Say That?, we’re getting real about body image, body types, and the pressure to look a certain way. We talk about comparing our bodies to other women’s, the clothes we choose to highlight the parts we actually feel good about, and what happens when we...

When was the last time you actually checked your cup? Not your calendar. Not your bank account. Not everyone else’s needs. Your cup. In this episode of Did She Just Say That, we’re taking a break from the heavy conversations and talking about the little things that are filling us up right now. From podcasts, music, shows, coffee, skincare, snacks, and products we’re loving to habits we’re creating...

Sometimes the walls we build are the very things that once kept us safe. But what if the walls protecting your heart are also keeping you from the life and the relationships you actually want?  In this episode, we’re getting real about the walls we build around ourselves and asking the uncomfortable question: Are you protecting yourself… or preventing yourself from living?  We’re talking about tru...

Grace is one of those things we all hope to receive… but it’s often much harder to give. In this episode, we’re having an honest conversation about what grace really is and what it isn’t. We share thoughts from friends and family on what grace means to them, then dive into the messy, beautiful reality of extending grace to others and ourselves. We talk about: ● What grace actually looks like in ev...

What if the version of yourself you’ve been carrying around isn’t actually you? In this episode, we’re getting honest about authenticity, image, and the pressure to fit into the boxes other people—or even we ourselves—have created. We unpack why so many of us feel like we have to edit our personalities, tone ourselves down, or become a certain “acceptable” version of ourselves to be loved, respect...

Have you ever walked away from a conversation wondering, “Wait…how did that become my fault?” Sometimes what feels personal, isn’t personal at all. This week, we’re diving into one of the most relationship-changing topics we’ve ever discussed: projection. We unpack what it is, why we do it, how it quietly damages our relationships, and why it’s often easier to point a finger than to face what’s re...

Have you ever looked up and realized you’re living the same day over and over again? In this episode of Did She Just Say That?, we’re talking about what it really feels like to be stuck. Maybe you’re going through the motions, waiting for motivation to magically appear, repeating unhealthy habits, feeling disconnected from the people around you, or ending every day completely exhausted without kno...

What if the people we pass every single day are the ones who need to be seen the most? In this episode, we’re talking about what it really looks like to live outward instead of inward. From the barista making your coffee to the cashier ringing up your groceries, the coworker everyone overlooks, or the elderly person sitting alone. We challenge ourselves to stop simply looking at people and start t...

In this episode, we’re getting real about the battles we face behind the scenes—from comparison, self-worth, and physical appearance to relationships, purpose, and the pressure of who we think we’re supposed to be. We share the struggles we’re actively working through, the challenges we’re facing right now, and even some of the things people would never guess we’ve wrestled with. 🚎  This conversa...

Starting over isn’t easy—but sometimes it’s exactly what we need. ❤️‍🩹 In this episode, we discuss what it means to rebuild after divorce, heartbreak, job loss, financial setbacks, friendship breakups, motherhood shifts, mental health struggles, addiction, and life’s unexpected detours. We unpack the pressure of timeline culture, social media comparison, and the feeling that we’re somehow “behind...

Father’s Day can bring gratitude, celebration, grief, memories, and sometimes all of those emotions at once. In this week’s episode, The First Man We Loved, we’re having an honest conversation about the men who shaped our lives long before we knew how much they would impact us. Ashley shares what it’s been like navigating life after losing her dad just a few years ago, while Chess reflects on losi...

In a world where friendships can feel surface-level, temporary, or transactional, we're pulling back the curtain on what genuine friendship has looked like in our lives. In this episode, we dive deep into the kind of friendship that doesn't hide the messy parts, keeps showing up through every season, gives grace when life gets hard, celebrates wins without jealousy, and provides a safe p...

Some family patterns don’t start with us… but they can end with us. 🫶🏼 In this episode, we’re diving into generational curses, unhealthy family patterns, and the learned behaviors many of us carry without even realizing it. From toxic communication and emotional suppression to relationship struggles, survival-mode coping mechanisms, and repeating cycles we swore we’d never become—we’re unpacking...

No names were used in this episode… but if you feel exposed, that’s between you and God. This week we’re talking breakups —the heartbreak, the healing, and the absolutely unhinged things people do after it ends. Why do we stay too long? Why do red flags start looking normal when we love someone? Why are we checking their socials while saying we’re “so at peace”? We get into blocking, stalking, bre...

Are we chasing success… or just surviving exhaustion with cute coffee cups and packed calendars? ☕️ 🗓️  In this episode, we’re diving into the battle between hustle culture and the soft life. From glorifying being “booked and busy” to romanticizing rest, boundaries, peace, and slower living — we’re unpacking what these lifestyles actually look like in real life. We talk about which lifestyle we n...