But I'm a Lesbian

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re talking about Set It Off: friendship, desperation, bank robberies, and one of the hottest casts of the ‘90s. We get into the ridiculousness, the loyalty, the heartbreak, and why this movie still absolutely goes off til this day. Grab your getaway driver and join us for a very gay conversation about a certified classic,...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Road trip, accidental murder, and chosen family chaos. This week we’re talking about Boys on the Side, where three women hit the road and find love, loss, and a whole lot of emotional damage along the way. We get into the questionable choices, the lesbianism, the AIDS epidemic,, and our admiration of Mary Louise Parker’s acting skills...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian  Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.  This week we are talking about gay role models, chosen family, and 1999 TV movie starring Stockard Channing and RuPaul: The Truth About Jane. Here are some key plot points: Secret girlfriend, small town, closed-minded parents. It’s sad, dramatic, and very early-2000s, but tbh some parts still hit a little too close to home. 📲 New e...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian  Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Lesbian Visibility Week and we’re celebrating the only way we know how: by revisiting the chaos, rage, and girl gang energy of Foxfire and sitting down with literal icon and creator of Curve Magazine, Franco Stevens. We get into the messy legacy of Foxfire, what it means to be seen (or not seen) as a lesbian in media, and why we stil...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian  Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. In this episode, we’re talking about Chutney Popcorn, a messy and heartfelt story about family, queerness, and a very questionable pregnancy plan. Directed by (and starring) Nisha Ganatra, this independent film gives us complicated sibling dynamics, cultural pressure, and decisions that are a bit… questionable. 📲 New episodes weekly...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian  Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week on But I’m a Lesbian, we’re talking Heavenly Creatures, the ultimate “this friendship is getting a little too intense” story. Directed by Peter Jackson and starring Kate Winslet and pod fave Melanie Lynksey, it’s all fantasy, obsession, and very questionable (and murderous) decisions. We get into toxic WLW dynamics, delusio...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian  Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week on But I’m a Lesbian, we’re talking Pariah, a 2011 coming-of-age story that will absolutely sit with you long after the credits roll. We talk about Alike’s journey navigating identity, family, and first love, and why this film feels so real to us as former closeted high schoolers. We get into all the standout moments, the e...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian  Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. In this episode, we’re talking about Elena Undone,the film that gave us one of the longest kisses in cinema and a lot of facts about Twin Flames. We unpack Elena’s journey from picture-perfect churchy wife to questioning everything, Peyton’s effortless femme top energy, and the surprise curveball no one anticipated. In addition, we w...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re talking about Portrait of a Lady on Fire, the slow-burn lesbian masterpiece where the looks are long, the tension is unbearable, and apparently everyone in the 1700s was extremely hot and very gay. Katlynn is joined by guest cohost (our awesome producer and sound mixer, Victoria) to talk longing stares, iconic moments,...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. No new episode this week due to technical difficulties, but we would never leave you hanging! We are putting this replay of one of your fave episodes, our deep dive into Disobedience! It’s a movie with a lot of drama, two beautiful, famous Rachels, and one very famous sex scene! We cover forbidden love, religious trauma, community dra...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re talking about Saving Face! This is a queer rom-com that gave us surprise age-gap relationships, secret girlfriends, and a geriatric pregnancy! We get into Wil’s double life, Vivian’s swoon-worthy confidence, and the layered pressure of family, tradition, and cultural expectations. Don’t miss our “Literary Lesbians” seg...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re heading to one of the most disliked cities in California for a chaotic sister spiral in Addicted to Fresno. Starring Natasha Lyonne, Judy Greer, and Aubrey Plaza, this dark comedy gives us messy codependency, accidental crime, and some aggressively questionable choices. We’re talking sibling dynamics, motel employee dr...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re strutting into the glitter-drenched chaos of Showgirls. We’re talking the rise of Nomi Malone, the rhinestones, the drama, the NC-17 rating, and how this infamous flop became a queer cult classic. Is it bad? Is it good? Is it so bad that’s it’s good? We will unpack it all, and hone in on all the gayest parts. 📲 New ep...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re talking Carmen y Lola, a tender yet rebellious lesbian love story you definitely need to see. We get into young love, breaking generational rules, and what it means to choose yourself when your entire community says you can’t. There’s yearning, there’s street art, and there’s a healthy dose of religious trauma. We chat...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week, we’re diving into Gia (1998): the lesbian biopic about the tragic life of an 80s supermodel. We talk Gia Carangi, queer desire, fame, addiction, and the AIDS crisis. We break down our key takeaways from the film (yes, we’re crying), gush over our favorite supermodels past and present, and bring back everyone’s favorite segm...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Grab a plate at the Whistle Stop Café because we’re diving into Fried Green Tomatoes. Murder rumors, lifelong “friendships,” and enough lesbian subtext to power a small town. It’s tender, it’s tragic, and absolutely a WLW love story! Bring tissues. And maybe snacks. Additionally, we are talking about our favorite foods (spoiler: we ha...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re talking about I Can’t Think Straight (2008), a peak early 2000s-era lesbian romance full of longing stares, rich people, poetry, and extremely intense eye contact. We are dishing on forbidden love, cultural expectations, undeniable chemistry, and more. Messy? Yes. Iconic? Also yes. A true sapphic rite of passage. We ar...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week, we’re talking about the 2005 rom-com Imagine Me & You. From the flower shop/straight wedding “meet-cute” to the slow realization that something feels different, this movie has become a longtime favorite for a lot of queer viewers. We chat about the awkward moments, the quiet tension, and the choices the characters have...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Love Lies Bleeding is not your average sapphic romance, and honestly? Thank goodness! This week, we’re breaking down the murder, the muscles, and the bad decisions that make this film such a wild (yet fun) ride! We get into the twisted love story at the center, the extremely hot actors, and the way desire spirals into something danger...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Pop the champagne (or apple cider) because this week we’re talking Tello’s I Hate New Year’s, the sapphic rom-com for anyone who’s ever side-eyed a countdown clock. In this episode, we talk about why New Year’s is actually so fun, even if it can be a little cheesy. This movie is a little silly, a little predictable, and a lot sweet. H...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week on the pod, we’re wrapping ourselves in the soft lighting and emotional devastation of Carol, the love story that launched a thousand longing stares and sapphic age-gap fantasies. We talk Cate Blanchett’s impeccable portrayal of a fancy, dominant older woman, Rooney Mara’s baby gay awakening, and the incredibly unfair expect...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week, we’re heading to the Big Apple for a very queer holiday detour with A New York Christmas Wedding! We break down this sapphic Christmas romance full of missed chances, divine interference, and the classic question: what if you’d chosen her? From emotional time jumps to homophobic priests to very gay regret, we talk about wha...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week, we’re launching Season 2 with a controversial WLW holiday movie: The Happiest Season! This movie gave us iconic (and scandalous) outfits, messy family dynamics, and Dan Levy delivering truth bombs like it’s his full-time job. We’re talking all the chaos, the drama, and sooo many hot lesbians. Plus: our official stance on th...

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🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re giving thanks, giving lesbian (as always), and giving Ultimatum-level drama! Marita Prodger from The Ultimatum: Queer Love is on the pod! For our Thanksgiving week season finale, we’re reviewing the chaotic, coming-out-at-the-dinner-table film: Lez Bomb. We unpack holiday queer panic, our favorite Thanksgiving traditio...