But I'm a Lesbian

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re reviewing Ammonite, the acclaimed lesbian romance starring Kate Winslet and Saoirse Ronan! We talk through the plot, the performances, the chemistry, the stunning cinematography, and of course… the face-sitting. Join us for a super fun review of a very serious movie! 🌊👅 📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! N...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re diving into the 1997 sapphic coming-of-age film All Over Me. We’re talking riot grrrl, hate crimes, messy friendships, and the iconic presence of Leisha Hailey. Is it a love story, a friendship story, or just an afterschool special about why you shouldn't do drugs and be homophobic? We’re breaking it all down. 🌈🎸 📲...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. My Days of Mercy brought the drama, the politics, and the “wait… are we enemies or are we flirting?” energy. Today, we are getting into the 2017 film starring Elliot Page and Kate Mara, unpacking the complicated romance between Mercy and Lucy, the ethics of love across opposing beliefs, and more! This movie has it all: forbidden love,...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week on But I’m a Lesbian, we’re diving into Below Her Mouth, the steamy sapphic film that had lesbians talking, debating, and replaying scenes for years. We break down the chemistry (?), the acting, the cheating, and whether the sex scenes. Was it groundbreaking queer representation or just regular old porn? Tune in as we share...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Season 3 is here, and we’re kicking things off with the beautiful and extremely emotional movie,The World Unseen. We talk about forbidden sapphic romance, lesbian eye contact, and all the reasons this film has us in our feelings. Plus, our TikTok mutual Rhi (@rhi_ann_on) joins us to share the wild tale of her real-life WLW horror stor...

Get a preview of the new upcoming season. Season 3 starts Tuesday, June 9. So we’ll see you next Tuesday.

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Season 2 is ending and we’re going out with a bang. This week we’re talking Christy, sharing all our thoughts, reactions, and lesbian chaos along the way. Plus, for our finale, we’re putting ourselves to the test with a This or That segment full of lesbian movie dilemmas. Come celebrate the end of the season with us and prepare for qu...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re singing along with Girltrash: All Night Long. We’re talking band drama, messy flirting, lesbian tension at maximum levels, and the very important question: is this movie camp perfection or did it fully miss the mark? Grab your snacks and come hang out with us while we relive one very long (and very gay) night. 📲 New e...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re talking about Set It Off: friendship, desperation, bank robberies, and one of the hottest casts of the ‘90s. We get into the ridiculousness, the loyalty, the heartbreak, and why this movie still absolutely goes off til this day. Grab your getaway driver and join us for a very gay conversation about a certified classic,...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Road trip, accidental murder, and chosen family chaos. This week we’re talking about Boys on the Side, where three women hit the road and find love, loss, and a whole lot of emotional damage along the way. We get into the questionable choices, the lesbianism, the AIDS epidemic,, and our admiration of Mary Louise Parker’s acting skills...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian  Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.  This week we are talking about gay role models, chosen family, and 1999 TV movie starring Stockard Channing and RuPaul: The Truth About Jane. Here are some key plot points: Secret girlfriend, small town, closed-minded parents. It’s sad, dramatic, and very early-2000s, but tbh some parts still hit a little too close to home. 📲 New e...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian  Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Lesbian Visibility Week and we’re celebrating the only way we know how: by revisiting the chaos, rage, and girl gang energy of Foxfire and sitting down with literal icon and creator of Curve Magazine, Franco Stevens. We get into the messy legacy of Foxfire, what it means to be seen (or not seen) as a lesbian in media, and why we stil...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian  Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. In this episode, we’re talking about Chutney Popcorn, a messy and heartfelt story about family, queerness, and a very questionable pregnancy plan. Directed by (and starring) Nisha Ganatra, this independent film gives us complicated sibling dynamics, cultural pressure, and decisions that are a bit… questionable. 📲 New episodes weekly...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian  Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week on But I’m a Lesbian, we’re talking Heavenly Creatures, the ultimate “this friendship is getting a little too intense” story. Directed by Peter Jackson and starring Kate Winslet and pod fave Melanie Lynksey, it’s all fantasy, obsession, and very questionable (and murderous) decisions. We get into toxic WLW dynamics, delusio...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian  Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week on But I’m a Lesbian, we’re talking Pariah, a 2011 coming-of-age story that will absolutely sit with you long after the credits roll. We talk about Alike’s journey navigating identity, family, and first love, and why this film feels so real to us as former closeted high schoolers. We get into all the standout moments, the e...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian  Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. In this episode, we’re talking about Elena Undone,the film that gave us one of the longest kisses in cinema and a lot of facts about Twin Flames. We unpack Elena’s journey from picture-perfect churchy wife to questioning everything, Peyton’s effortless femme top energy, and the surprise curveball no one anticipated. In addition, we w...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re talking about Portrait of a Lady on Fire, the slow-burn lesbian masterpiece where the looks are long, the tension is unbearable, and apparently everyone in the 1700s was extremely hot and very gay. Katlynn is joined by guest cohost (our awesome producer and sound mixer, Victoria) to talk longing stares, iconic moments,...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. No new episode this week due to technical difficulties, but we would never leave you hanging! We are putting this replay of one of your fave episodes, our deep dive into Disobedience! It’s a movie with a lot of drama, two beautiful, famous Rachels, and one very famous sex scene! We cover forbidden love, religious trauma, community dra...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re talking about Saving Face! This is a queer rom-com that gave us surprise age-gap relationships, secret girlfriends, and a geriatric pregnancy! We get into Wil’s double life, Vivian’s swoon-worthy confidence, and the layered pressure of family, tradition, and cultural expectations. Don’t miss our “Literary Lesbians” seg...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re heading to one of the most disliked cities in California for a chaotic sister spiral in Addicted to Fresno. Starring Natasha Lyonne, Judy Greer, and Aubrey Plaza, this dark comedy gives us messy codependency, accidental crime, and some aggressively questionable choices. We’re talking sibling dynamics, motel employee dr...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re strutting into the glitter-drenched chaos of Showgirls. We’re talking the rise of Nomi Malone, the rhinestones, the drama, the NC-17 rating, and how this infamous flop became a queer cult classic. Is it bad? Is it good? Is it so bad that’s it’s good? We will unpack it all, and hone in on all the gayest parts. 📲 New ep...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re talking Carmen y Lola, a tender yet rebellious lesbian love story you definitely need to see. We get into young love, breaking generational rules, and what it means to choose yourself when your entire community says you can’t. There’s yearning, there’s street art, and there’s a healthy dose of religious trauma. We chat...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week, we’re diving into Gia (1998): the lesbian biopic about the tragic life of an 80s supermodel. We talk Gia Carangi, queer desire, fame, addiction, and the AIDS crisis. We break down our key takeaways from the film (yes, we’re crying), gush over our favorite supermodels past and present, and bring back everyone’s favorite segm...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Grab a plate at the Whistle Stop Café because we’re diving into Fried Green Tomatoes. Murder rumors, lifelong “friendships,” and enough lesbian subtext to power a small town. It’s tender, it’s tragic, and absolutely a WLW love story! Bring tissues. And maybe snacks. Additionally, we are talking about our favorite foods (spoiler: we ha...

🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re talking about I Can’t Think Straight (2008), a peak early 2000s-era lesbian romance full of longing stares, rich people, poetry, and extremely intense eye contact. We are dishing on forbidden love, cultural expectations, undeniable chemistry, and more. Messy? Yes. Iconic? Also yes. A true sapphic rite of passage. We ar...