Authentic

I've felt lost many times in life and it was mostly due to putting my soul away somewhere I couldn't find it, all in the name of fitting in and being loved. Years of this people pleasing behaviour added up, eventually leading to realise, "who the hell am I and where have buried my true self?" I'd wandered so far from being my soul that the journey back felt impossible and...

It’s so inconvenient waking up! It’s a hell of a lot easier to go about life and be unaware of the shit that goes down. Last week, I bared my broken heart when I saw a sheep being treated as if it didn’t feel pain. My blood boiled and my fists clenched, then I sobbed. It hasn’t left my mind and I’ve been on @animalsaustralia site looking at ways to donate and contribute to taking action. I give on...

Who am I without the pain? What's life like when I'm not suffering? What's it like to be deserving of the good life? I was so used to identifying with pain and suffering that when the time came to shift out of that belief system, I went through an identity crisis. I wasn't used to feeling good or being in control of my life. Wandering in unknown territory, slowly, slowly I bega...

My youngest step-daughter confides a lot in me and one day she was telling me about a daydream (when her mind wanders off and she thinks "bad" things). Her daydream had her believe that the guest speaker talking at the front of the class was bad, which led her to treat him differently and stay away from him. When she told me this I thought, "shit, how can I help her see the differen...

It's too easy right now to stay quiet for fear of getting it wrong. I am challenging myself to stay open, to show up and educate myself to serve the end result of normalising equality. And the topic of global interest is it's not enough to be "not racist". The game has changed to become antiracist. In today's episode I share where I'm at on that journey (the beginning...

I was waiting for my family to come over to celebrate my 12th birthday. My parents were quiet and seemed concerned. My family arrived late and it was less than a celebratory vibe. My brother had just been admitted to hospital for a skin condition that was taking over his body, and life. To be frank, it looked like someone had blowtorched his body, head to toe, leaving one a small ring of his natur...

When my limited thinking gets in the way, I will ask limiting and disempowering questions that lead me to feeling shit about myself pretty quickly. Over the years I have learned and trained myself to shift my focus in many ways. One way is to ask empowering and re-orientating questions that take me out of egoic small talk and back into my true essence. This one is a goodie if you freak out before...

What a whirlwind the last 48 hours have been. Steve's ego took us all on one epic goose chase over the weekend. Out of the blue he had us booked in to look at housing inspections, telling the girls about these new places with more space, doing an ace job at selling us all on why we should move. But my intuitive spidey webs were going off and after letting him toe the line for some-time, I too...

I've had a lot of convos of late with clients, friends and also eavesdropped on a few when getting my decaf coconut latte, regarding what discoveries they have come to during COVID-19. A client of mine has discovered the beauty of knowing herself after being in relationship after relationship. Another has realised she loves waking up and starting her day on terms after rushing around like a m...

Ugh, my ego has been such a drainer lately, focusing on attacking my physical appearance. When I have space for myself and I'm not working on the business, my ego starts picking on my body and how shit it is. I then go about comparing the me now, to me 10 years ago, then move onto comparing myself to others. It's been real shit and I had to pull myself up to quit making myself suffer.  S...

One of THE most important steps to manifesting your dreams is to manage, master and navigate your own ego. Why? It's always going to try and fk with you to resist you from leaving your old programmed identity. Today I'm sharing with you one of my ego clearing tools that helps you become aware of how your ego is always seeing reality through the lens of your limiting beliefs, and how to s...

Intuition on demand is a thing! It's easy to think you have to be in the "right mindset" or "mood" to be intuitive, however that's conditional thinking and often born out of the ego. Intuition when you want it and need it can be available to you, not just randomly or when you least expect it. Support the show

Since COVID-19 some of my coaching clients have fallen off the bandwagon of making daily choices, tuning into their higher wisdom and taking action to retrain their subconscious mind. Life turned upside down and with new ways of living, being and working came about and with that, they stopped the things that served them. It's normal and natural to take a minute to regroup and settle into new...

There can be delusion thinking when it comes to living your life purpose. Many of my clients who are starting out in their life purpose believe they should be rocking up to everything they do with a pump full of passion and excitement and feel bad when they don't. I 100% get this as I did this in the beginning. I would say to myself, "if I'm not excited about it then maybe this isn&...

Isolation will highlight the cracks in relationships possibly more than every, now that everyone in your household is home (if you live with others). When COVID-19 set in, Steve and I needed a hardcore check-in to remind ourselves of the end result of our relationship and what we were willing to commit to, to not drive one another mad! Stress, plugging into the TV and sniping at one another wasn&a...

Think about the times when you've had a Universal smackdown in areas of your health, finances, relationships or job. Remember how, "ewe" and, "yuck", it felt to go through a period that required old and outdated ways to be faced, torn down and needing to start a-fresh? It felt better when you reset, rebuilt and recreated your life with more self awareness and a solid found...

The shit hitting the fan right now is Coronavirus and how our daily lives are impacted. I truly believe there are some kick ass lessons for us to learn throughout this, but I'll save that for another episode. Today Steve is talking about what to do with your business during times like these and three "check-in steps" to assess your next best move.  Support the show

Right now our freedom to go out without second thought, shop with an abundance of food on our shelves, see our friends and fam, go to concerts, shows, travel, run businesses, etc is being disrupted. And I’m hearing noise that we’re fkd off about that!  Just remember that each of us have a part to play in slowing down this virus so it doesn’t overrun our healthcare system and medical professionals....

We're three months into the year legends, let's check back in with the intentions you set at the beginning of the year! A self coaching legend will assess where they are now, where they want to be to create a gap analysis and go inside for guidance to bridge the gap. So, let this episode be the check-in you need so you don't end this year busting for it to be over! Support the show

Yeowsa, this is good in theory but way more difficult to practice in the moment when you have emotional charge running through your veins, causing you to feel like sh!t, alone, disconnected or victimised by life. Throughout our days people, situations, conversations, etc are potential triggers that activate egoic stories and beliefs that warp reality. Once reality is warped, it's like you&apo...

Steve said to me this week, "I'd like to take over your podcast this week and share a story about hope." That's all he said to me and I replied, "okay, sure!" Feeling apprehensive and also a little (don't you fk with my podcast man) we recorded today's episode with him leading it. Little did I know what was about to come but you can bet your bottom dollar I...

I'd be screwed without meditation. It is my go-to tool to pick up the imaginary phone and directly dial my higher self, for guidance and answers to serve me and my world. In the beginning I was scared to meditate, knowing I would get answers to help better me and my life. It meant I had the choice to change and advance beyond my bullsh!t, so my ego had me focusing on how boring it is, or how...

I believed for a long time that in order for me to grow spiritually, I needed something drastic like a car accident to happen so I could experience a near death experience. I know I know, not something I'm proud to admit, but it's true, I believed that. A friend said to me, "don't you think you can evolve spiritually without going through all of that?" It was like someone...

I contributed to such shit energy this week in our home. For one and a half days my mind was so constricted with its viewpoint on being a step-mum and getting back into the swing of coaching, events and collaborations. My self talk was poor and the result were poor. I needed to sit myself down, have a hard chat and ask better questions of myself. Support the show

Oh the days of pretending I had my shit together on first dates. I would put on any act I thought I had to in order to be chosen by the person in front of me. Thinking back to the dates is cringe worthy because my behaviour driven by insecurity and the deep belief that I didn't belong. So at the cost of my soul, I did anything I could to belong which only left me, you guessed it, alone. Suppo...