#AskAMan

Anonymous saw her man of 3 years getting married on television. She now wants to be upgraded to second wife. Will wife number 1 allow this?

Anonymous' 70yr old boyfriend refuses to make her his 3rd wife. She has been a side chick for over 11 years and she's now worried about inheritance when he dies.

Anonymous feels that since all men cheat, her cheating man deserves a second chance. 

Anonymous is in a perfect relationship but she's struggling to get her man to show her more affection and attention to her.

Barely two days after Valentines' Day, anonymous is tired of being the side chick, she wants to graduate to being the one and only woman in her man's life. She would like him to change for her and become a one woman man

Anonymous' wife is doing the most in these streets. She has apologised on cheating on anonymous but there has been no change in behaviour. The families keep pleading with anonymous to hang in there, everything will be okay. Should he stay?

Anonymous is sleeping with her late husband's twin brother. She thinks she's falling in love with him but the challenge is that he's married, the twin brother wants to make her a second wife, is this a good idea? Take a listen >

Anonymous feels financially abused by his woman that earns more than him

Anonymous wants to discuss why families feel entitled to choose partners for their sons. What's with the mother-in-Law drama?

Anonymous seems to have a higher sex drive than his woman lately, he wonders what the problem could be

Anonymous has noticed a couple of "redflags" in her relationship, she would like to know whether she's paranoid or not in feeling this way. Take a listen >>>>>

Anonymous wants to go back to his wife but doesn't know how to break it down to his girlfriend.

Anonymous is faced with a couple of challenges in her relationship, besides her man being an alcoholic, he has ex's constantly popping out the woodworks. She doesn't know whether to stay or leave because he's such a great guy.

Anonymous loves her man, he's everything that she ever wished for and more. The challenge is that he refuses to perform oral sex on her, could this be this is a deal-breaker?

Anonymous is finding it rather difficult being step-father to his woman's 8year old daughter.

Anonymous is in an emotional mess, his woman has left him on two occasions and he can't handle the roller coaster ride, he now feels suicidal.

Anonymous' man cooks, cleans and takes great care of her two kids. The only challenge she faces is that he's unemployed and doesn't seem like he wants a job any time soon. Take a listen

Anonymous has been seeing a man (mostly at a b&b) this man now wants to have a baby with her. She's confused whether this man really wants to make her his wife or not

Anonymous' man has tried blaming her for giving him an STi after his December away with his family. Is she wrong by blocking him and asking him to stay out of her life?

Anonymous' babydaddy has gone awol since the baby arrived. What can anonymous do to make sure that he plays his part as the father of the child

Anonymous is being ghosted by her man of 10 months, he says he has personal issues to deal with and hasn't been in contact with her for the last two months. Could she be the toxic partner that he's trying to avoid or is he just a coward not to tell her its over

Anonymous has an abusive man, she pressed charges against him the last time he abused her physically, the court date is close and now anonymous isn't sure that she would like to proceed with the charges.

Anonymous is raising four children on her own because her husband has decided to build a new home and move in with another woman. She is willing to have him take his mistress as a second wife only if she's introduced to the families and made official. She loves him and doesn't want to lose him

Anonymous is about to marry a woman he doesn't trust. Would you go ahead with a wedding if you suspected your partner for sleeping with a neighbour? He has gone through the lengths of asking the land lord if he can trust one of his neighbours around his fiancé

Anonymous feels that she can no loner stay in her marriage. It has been toxic from day one but since her step-child has started living with them it's gotten worse.