Adult Bedtime Stories

Edging an orgasm is a sexual technique that can be done by women, and men. While it seems simple at the surface, it does take time to train ones body, but the effort is well worth it. Through the process of edging, pre-orgasmic energy is circulated through the entire body. With this technique, one can experience full body orgasms and more robust orgasms. In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, w...

Would you like to remove the shackles from living in the dark ages of sexuality? Do you feel worthy of experiencing new heights of sexual ecstasy without feeling sexual shame or guilt? Which statements do you identify with (pick all that apply): I am sexy and beautiful! I love sex and I have an amazing sex drive. I love my body just as it is. I am able to communicate clearly with intimate partners...

In our culture, it is assumed that we will instinctively know how to have sex. This is a myth and a misconception. For sex to be great, we need to learn about our sexual bodies as well as our partner’s sexual responsiveness. The Erotic Body Map Training Program is a great process to improve one’s sexual pleasure. Our whole body is neurologically wired to receive sexual pleasure. By exploring the b...

In our culture, it is assumed that we will instinctively know how to have sex.  This is a myth and a misconception.  For sex to be great, we need to learn about our sexual bodies as well as our partner’s sexual responsiveness. The Erotic Body Map Training Program is a great process to improve one’s sexual pleasure.  Our whole body is neurologically wired to receive sexual pleasure.&...

Tonights video training is on The erotic body map training part 2.  To watch the podcast on video go to ravenslairleather.com/podcast .  In the video version I include some images of basic sexual anatomy.  In the future, I will offer a podcast on detailed sexual anatomy for those who want more in depth education. Tonight’s training video will cover A Sex Positive Approach & Erog...

Join us for an inner journey into sexual enlightenment and discover how sexual energy works within your body.  We are each wired differently at a neurological level and sex energy works differently in each of us.  Through the training and Action Steps, you will learn about how sex energy works in your body.  Reach higher levels of sexual ecstasy and form a deeper connection with you...

How do you feel about your body? Do you feel beautiful & Sexy? If not, it is not your fault. We live in a sex negative culture and are influenced by sex negative social conditioning. In this training session, we cover Passion, Raising Sexual Energy, The Art of Masturbation, and Telling Your Story. Discover how passion can improve your outlook on life. Learn about your sexual body by raising se...

How do you feel about your body? Do you feel beautiful & Sexy? If not, it is not your fault. We live in a sex negative culture and are influenced by sex negative social conditioning. Tonight we are covering The Body Image Healing Training Program Part 4 of 5. In this training we will cover Charisma, Self Confidence, The Victory Stance, and Sexual Affirmations Discover how these elements can im...

How do you feel about your body? Do you feel beautiful & Sexy? If not, it is not your fault. We live in a sex negative culture and are influenced by sex negative social conditioning. Tonight we are covering The Body Image Healing Training Program Part 3 of 5. In this training we will cover Alluring Attire & Being Sexy, Mind Talk, and Competition. Discover how these elements can impact our...

How do you feel about your body? Do you feel beautiful & Sexy? If not, it is not your fault. We live in a sex negative culture and are influenced by sex negative social conditioning. The Body Image Healing Program Part 2 covers Attitude & Values and External vs. Internal Validation. Learn how these can improve and heal one’s body image.

How do you feel about your body? Do you feel beautiful & Sexy? If not, it is not your fault. We live in a sex negative culture and are influenced by sex negative social conditioning. The Body Image Healing Program is designed to provide psychosexual healing to restore a positive self image. We love to hear your comments and suggestions so please take a moment to give us your feedback. Be sure...

We are making changes! In this short episode we have an announcement. Raven’s Lair Free Webinar Training Program Sign up Page:   https://www.ravenslairleather.com/videos   Check out our new podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/adult-bedtime-stories/ Links for the websites we discussed in the show include:   https://www.ravenslairleather.com https://www.ladyboytemple.com https://ggwilbur.com ht...

Join Lady Boy Gigi and Paul as they share their experiences with Pride month.  In this episode we discuss some of the history of the GLBTQI+ movement.  What makes Pride month so Important?  Where have we come from as a movement?  Listen to the show to learn the answers as we cover these questions and much more.   Raven’s Lair Free Webinar Training Program Sign up Page:   https://www.ravenslairleat...

Join Lady Boy Gigi and Paul as they share their experiences with self-love.  Self-love is not just about masturbation, it is also about self-care and self-confidence which helps us to become better lovers.   Raven’s Lair Free Webinar Training Program Sign up Page: https://www.ravenslairleather.com/videos   Check out our new podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/adult-bedtime-stories/ Links for...

Join Lady Boy Gigi and Paul as they share their experiences at various alternative festivals and events, from Burning Man to pagan gatherings to BDSM festivals. But when they delve into the world of kink, will they encounter unexpected danger or find themselves in a thrilling situation? Find out on this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories. Raven’s Lair Free Webinar Training Program Sign up Page: http...

Want to discover the key to unlocking your full potential in BDSM and sexual relationships? Let me guide you through the world of informed consent and negotiation, utilizing stories and examples from my own experiences and those of others who value honest communication. By addressing common pain points within these intimate dynamics, we can tear down barriers that hold us back from enjoying deeper...

In this episode, we interview Fiona, Mike, and Bren from Bi Plus Organizing US, a new coalition for the Bisexual + Community.  Learn how you can get involved and have a voice in bisexual activism.  We cover some of the issues that bisexuals face in life and how to help change the world.   Raven’s Lair Free Webinar Training Program Sign up Page: https://www.ravenslairleather.com/videos   Check out...

After years of physical and emotional abuse, a youth who has ADHD and dyslexia finds healing through BDSM role play, sacred sexuality and psychosexual healing. Here's what I cover: 1. Discovering the power of psychosexual healing through BDSM role play and sacred sexuality 2. Exploring the potential of BDSM to help manage chronic pain and gain spiritual connection to embracing pain 3. Unlocking de...

When a Dom-in-training dares to experience the other side of the paddle, they learn that mastering the power of communication and empathy is the key to success - and a journey of self-discovery. Here's what Damian and I cover: 1. What qualities do you need to be a good Dom? 2. What are the BDSM interest evaluation steps? 3. How can you create a successful scene with a sub? Damian is a BDSM expert....

Learn about sex and gender identity through this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories with Ladyboy Gigi and Paul. Sex is what we are born with and gender is how we feel. Intersex babies show that there is more than two sexes, and gender can be expressed in many ways. Gender expression is how one communicates their gender externally. In this episode, you will learn the following: 1. What is the differe...

When Lady Boy Gigi and Paul explore the intricate levels of working with sexual desires and abilities, they uncover a powerful journey of self-discovery, revealing the unexpected ways of priming the pump and arousing oneself. Here's what I cover: 1. What techniques can be used to reconnect with our sexual desires and abilities? 2. How can discovering our own body help us to understand our sexual a...

I learned about Primal Sex through an episode of Adult Bedtime Stories with Lady Boy Gigi, Paul, and Damien. Primal Sex is a way to get in touch with one's animalistic side by trusting and being vulnerable with one's partner. It can involve biting, scratching, and other approved forms of play through negotiation and informed consent. Preparation for Primal Sex can include a ritual bath, mindful br...

We have a special guest on this Episode of Adult Bedtime Stories. Damian shares his experiences with Impact Play in BDSM Scenes. Here's what Damian, Paul, and I cover: Learn how to practice safety protocols while engaging in impact play. Discover what techniques Damian uses when playing a scene. Learn about the different types of BDSM play, including Primal Play. Damian is a BDSM enthusiast with y...

In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing our mini-series on resolving sexual issues.  Our topic is on developing better sexual negotiation skills for couples.  Learn how to take your sexual relationship to a higher level and experience sexual ecstasy like you have never experienced it before. Check out our new podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/adult-bedtime-stories/ Links...

In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing our mini-series on resolving sexual issues.  Our topic is on Performance Skills Issues for Couples.  In this episode we cover a range of sexual performance issues and how to resolve them. Check out our new podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/adult-bedtime-stories/ Links for the websites we discussed in the show include:   https://www...