Life After Plus One

In this episode of Life After +1 , I’m tackling the never-ending drama with exes and how it impacts life as a single parent. If you’re exhausted from the constant arguments, misunderstandings, or emotional baggage that co-parenting with an ex can bring, this episode is for you. I’ll share practical strategies, personal insights, and mindset shifts to help you rise above the chaos, set boundaries,...

In this episode of Life After +1 , I’m diving into the details of a recent date I went on as a single parent. This experience taught me so much about growth, self-reflection, and what I truly want in a partner. Dating as a single parent comes with its own unique challenges, but with the right mindset, it can also be an opportunity for personal growth and clarity. Join me as I share this story to i...

When your ex gets nasty, it’s easy to feel hurt, frustrated, or even angry—but what if you could look at it from a different perspective? In this episode, we’ll explore how to shift your mindset and see their behavior for what it really is, without letting it derail your peace. Learn how to approach these situations with curiosity, not conflict, and focus on what you can control. By changing the w...

What do you want? As we ring in the New Year, it’s time to get crystal clear on what you truly desire for 2025—not just as a single parent, but for you . No more floating through life, just hoping for the best—it’s time to get intentional about what you want to achieve in life and in 2025. In this NYE episode, we’ll dive into the power of knowing what you want, and creating a vision for your life...

Just because you’re a single parent doesn’t mean you need to feel sad and lonely at Christmas! In this episode, I’m sharing 10 practical and empowering tips to help you embrace the holiday season with joy and confidence. From creating new traditions and managing expectations to budgeting tips and self-care strategies, this guide will help you make Christmas magical for both you and your kids. Let’...

Let’s make this year the year you stop settling and start dating with purpose. No more staying in situations because you’re scared of being single, no more ignoring red flags, and absolutely no more wasting energy on the wrong people for all the wrong reasons. It’s time to date with confidence, clarity, and a deep understanding of what you truly deserve. This is your year to set boundaries, honor...

Deciding whether to invite your ex over for Christmas can be tricky, especially when kids are involved. Will having them there will create a positive, peaceful environment for everyone or will it lead to tension. Ultimately, the focus needs to be on what’s best for you, your family and your well-being this holiday season. 👉🏻 DID YOU LIKE THIS EPISODE ? Then be sure to share this episode with you...

In this episode, we’re diving into the power of tackling your to-do list as a single parent. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed and let things pile up, but neglecting your responsibilities can lead to a spiral of stress and negativity. Completing even the smallest tasks gives you a sense of accomplishment and control, which is so important for maintaining a positive mindset. Tune in for practical tips...

Loneliness as a single parent can hit hard, especially when you're juggling everything alone. But here's the truth: loneliness doesn’t have to define your journey. In this quick pep talk, we’ll explore how to shift your mindset and make the most of your solo time. Learn how to embrace your independence, and remind yourself that this season of life is just one chapter—not the whole story. Tune in f...

Loneliness as a single parent can be tough, but it’s important to remember that you have a choice. You can choose to dwell on feeling lonely, or you can flip the script and use your alone time to recharge, reflect, and grow. In today’s episode, I’m giving you a quick pep talk on how to make the most of those quiet moments—Tune in for a reminder that being alone doesn’t have to mean feeling lonely!...

HAPPY 1ST BIRTHDAY TO LIFE AFTER + 1 On this 1st birthday episode, I have decided to talk about the most challenging part of single parenting, our emptions! Dealing with the roller coaster of emotions after a breakup can be overwhelming. One day you might feel empowered and ready to move on, and the next, you're grappling with sadness, anger, or confusion. In today's episode I discuss how importan...

As a single parent, it’s easy to lose sight of your confidence while juggling the many demands of life. But rebuilding that self-assurance is not only possible—it's empowering. In this episode, we’re diving into practical ways to regain your confidence, from embracing your independence to setting boundaries and rediscovering your strengths. Whether it’s stepping out of your comfort zone, setting n...

Overcompensating in a relationship—doing everything for the other person while neglecting your own needs—can create an unhealthy dynamic. When you constantly give and sacrifice without balance, you may start feeling resentful or drained. Eventually, you might wonder why the relationship didn't last, but the truth is, a one-sided effort can lead to emotional burnout and lack of mutual respect. Rela...

First date etiquette is all about making a genuine connection while putting in a bit of effort, showing respect and consideration for the other person. Not to mention communicating with the other person what you're looking for and letting them know if it's the right vibe for you or not Tune in to today’s episode as we dive deeper into this topic, offering more tips to help you nail that first date...

Letting go of past relationship hurt and anger is essential for your emotional well-being and future happiness. Holding onto unresolved pain only causes you to carry that baggage into new relationships, potentially harming those who had nothing to do with your past. When you refuse to deal with these emotions, they can manifest as anger or mistrust towards the wrong person, preventing you from ful...

One of the best ways to avoid getting into toxic situations is by listening to your gut from the start. If something feels off, don't ignore those red flags. Set boundaries early and stick to them, even if it feels awkward. Remember, it's okay to walk away from anything or anyone that drains your energy or brings negativity. Tune in to today's episode so you can gain a better understanding of how...

Dating during a custody battle can feel overwhelming, but it’s important to prioritize your emotional well-being. While it’s natural to seek companionship, remember that your focus should remain on what's best for you and your children. In todays episode we talk about managing the dating process while going through a custody battle and talk about the importance of you’re healing and not rushing in...

As a single parent, it's easy to fall into the trap of negative self-talk and self-doubt, especially when you're juggling so much on your own. But remember, your thoughts shape your reality. Instead of focusing on what you think you’re doing wrong, start reminding yourself of all the things you’re doing right. You’re stronger than you give yourself credit for, and every challenge you've faced has...

In today’s episode, we dive into why setting boundaries is crucial for single parents, co-parents and re-partnered parents and explore the process of identifying what your boundaries should be. We discuss how clear boundaries protect your well-being and give you some practical tips for figuring out where to draw the line in different areas of your life to know how to work out what your boundaries...

As a single parent, it's easy to feel the pressure to do everything at once, but trying to juggle too many tasks can lead to burnout and overwhelm. It's important to give yourself permission to take things one step at a time and to understand that it is ok to decline invitations and requests for help from others to allow for time for you. 👉🏻 DID YOU LIKE THIS EPISODE? Then be sure to share this...

Stop trying to change your ex because they aren’t doing things the way you want them to. It's natural to want your ex to make decisions that align with your values, especially when it comes to parenting or their lifestyle choices. However, holding onto the belief that you can influence or reshape their behavior only leads to frustration and disappointment. Accepting that your ex is who they are—an...

Dating as a single parent is more emotionally challenging compared to dating in your twenties because, over time, you accumulate experiences that shape your expectations and fears. This emotional baggage can make it harder to open up, trust again, and fully embrace the possibilities of a new relationship. So let’s chat more about this and explore how we, as single parents, can have more fun by put...

Meeting your co-parent's new partner can feel overwhelming, but approaching it with an open mind and clear communication can make the process smoother. It's important to remember that this person may play a significant role in your child’s life, so building a respectful relationship can benefit everyone involved. Establishing boundaries and focusing on the well-being of your child should be the pr...

Holding on to anger and past hurts, living in a negative mind frame, and seeking revenge can also be forms of self-sabotage that prevent you from finding joy and fulfillment. Procrastination, fear of failure, comparison, lack of purpose, and struggling to find your self-worth are all areas of self-sabotage that are cockblocking you from finding your happiness. In this episode, we'll explore ways t...

Wondering if you'll ever find "your person" can be a daunting and emotional journey, especially after past relationships that didn't work out. It's important to remember that finding the right match takes time, and it often requires patience and self-discovery. Focus on understanding your needs, setting clear boundaries, and embracing your unique journey. Trust that the right person will come into...