#AskAMan

The gents are giving advice of a different kind in this instalment of Ask a Man. They have attended so many METRO FM Music Awards over the years and so between the two of them, they know the dos and don’ts of the MMAs, over the next two days they’ll be sharing their 10 ultimate rules for the MMAs.

The gents are giving advice of a different kind in this instalment of Ask a Man. They have attended so many METRO FM Music Awards over the years and so between the two of them, they know the dos and don’ts of the MMAs, over the next two days they’ll be sharing their 10 ultimate rules for the MMAs.

Anonymous lost her husband in 2018, she then dated someone new, but they also passed away in 2025.  Following the passing of her second husband, she found out that he had been unfaithful towards her and had a side. These experiences have affected her perspective on love and relationships, as she wonders whether she’s meant to be in a relationship.

Anonymous has been with her partner for a while now and says their relationship is generally great and he’s a good partner to her.  The problem she has with him is his lack of good personal hygiene, as she says he doesn’t take regular baths, everything smells and he doesn’t even take care of his living environment.

Anonymous is pregnant and she recently found the mother of her partner’s child at his house and was left confused by this situation.  She says they were naked when she arrived in the morning but they were in between taking baths. She confronted him about this but he claimed that it’s the mother of his child, she’s in town because their child is sick and she needed a place to...

Anonymous is in his early 50s and has been married to his wife for 20 years now.  He has been diagnosed with a disease that causes acid refluxes that lead to him choking in his sleep. He spoke to his wife about what to do if this happens while their sleeping but he says there was an instance in which it occurred, however, as he choked, she just looked at him and didn’t assist him. He al...

Anonymous and his partner recently  separated after facing some issues in their relationship. His partner is now back in his life and they are now back together.  The issues that led to the break down of their relationship don’t seem to have been resolved and they keep getting back to into the same conflicts and arguments.  Anonymous says they’ve gone through a lot toget...

Anonymous was previously married for 6 years despite the fact his wife had cheated on him early on in their marriage. He tried to move on but he eventually retaliated and also cheated on his wife.  Their relationship broke down and after his wife cheated on him the second time, they got divorced.  He has since tried to move on, but has struggled to stay in relationships with the other wo...

Anonymous dated a guy back in 2023 for about four months before their relationship ended. They rekindled things last year but it seems his past is haunting their relationship.  He is insecure and never seems to believe that she has good intentions in their relationship, and this has led to them having several altercations…

Anonymous is/was in a long distance relationship with her partner.  She doesn’t have a huge appetite and eats small portions. While she was recently visiting her partner they got into an argument because of her eating patterns, with him saying that her breath smells bad as result of her not eating enough.  He then said he can’t live with the odour of her breath, she left his...

Anonymous met his partner when he was going through a low moment in his life, he says she was very supportive of him and helping him out financially. He’s going through a lot mentally and as a result, he’s struggling to be a good partner to his girlfriend. He loves her a lot but finds himself spiralling and thinks he needs a break to find his bearings . 

Anonymous and his wife have been together for about 22 years, and have been married for about 13 years now.  He feels like his partner is “self righteous”, doesn’t give him an ear and always thinks she’s right in any conflict they have in their relationship. He also feels like she doesn’t give him space to express his emotions.  They are always arguing and t...

Anonymous and his wife have been married for about 18 years now and they have three children together.  Along the way, he cheated on his partner about three times and he was caught each time. His wife then cheated on him in retaliation. Things got messy and about 5 years ago she left their married home with their children, but after two months away, she returned back to their home and they go...

Anonymous met a lady at her local clinic as a client, they spent a lot of time together and says she now finds her self having strong feelings for this lady.  She wants to share her feelings with the lady, but there are some complications…  

Anonymous started dating his partner a year ago, and says they both came into the relationship carrying a lot of relationship trauma and this led to them being paranoid and even spying on each other.  He loves his partner a lot but says his partner is struggling to trust him. He’s never cheated on her but says when they were going through some challenges in their relationship, she found...

Anonymous called us in September last year  as he was caught between is main partner and his side, and couldn’t decide which one to forward with.  After he called us last year he decided to continue with his long-term partner and they got married.  Everything was fine until his ex-side girl reached out to him. They met, but now the side says she wants nothing to do with him. H...

Anonymous met a guy early in 2025 and after a lengthy talking stage, they started dating in March last year. Everything was going well in the relationship, but three months in,  she got a call from a woman who claimed to be this man’s wife and despite his initial denials, this was confirmed.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for about four years now and says things have been going relatively well between them.  She recently had a minor car accident and the doctors advised that she might experience some changes in her period as a result of the impact of the accident.  A week after the accident her and her partner had sex but shortly after this he accused her of che...

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 8 years now and they have two children together.  Things got tricky in their relationship and they broke things off. She moved on into a new relationship after she realised that the father of her children had already moved on.  The new partner is amazing and she feels like he ticks all the boxes. However, her long-term partner has now come ba...

Anonymous and his partner have been together for about three years. And says things were fine until he moved to another province because of work.  His partner seems to have developed a drinking problem and she is now drinking on a daily basis. He has confronted her about this, but she’s blamed her drinking on the fact that he’s now in a different province.  He doesn’t k...

Anonymous started dating her partner late last year after having a crush on her for many years.  After they decided to start dating, her partner revealed that she has a child, something anonymous wasn’t really comfortable with.  Despite this, they continued with their relationship but anonymous says her partner’s child is unruly and she doesn’t know how to deal with thi...