She's Probably Talking to Other Guys - (SPTTOG)

from viral videos to perfectly curated posts, everyone thinks they know what’s really happening online. but what people see is just a highlight reel. in this episode, i’m breaking down how social media shapes assumptions, why the algorithm isn’t the whole story, and what it actually takes to show up authentically across platforms. i share which apps i love, which i barely touch, and which drive me...

this week i sit down with my very first guest, my best friend jessie, aka @jessthefairy. you see the DMs, the double taps, and the perfectly curated grid, but behind the posts there’s a lot more happening. we talk about navigating social media, building a brand, balancing real life with digital life, and what it really takes to chase big dreams online. jessie clears up assumptions, shares what it’...

everyone!!!! please welcome ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS IN THE ENTIRE WORLD as the FIRST guest of “she’s probably talking to other guys” podcast!!! 💚 JESSIE!!!! also known as Jess! @jessthefairy  💖 we go back a long way!!! and it just seemed right to have her as my first guest! join us where we talk about life in social media and more!! ✨ this episode is available 10/1 as early as 5am! #bestfriendsf...

from punctuation drama to emoji confusion, first-date awkwardness to workplace mix-ups, i’m unpacking the everyday misunderstandings that turn simple messages into full-blown confusion. i talk about rereading a text 20 times, overanalyzing a period at the end of a sentence, decoding emojis that genuinely have no secret meaning when i send them, and trying to figure out what someone actually meant...

dating apps come with a million assumptions…some true, some way off, and some that need a little devil’s advocate perspective. in this episode, i break down the myths about online dating, from “everyone’s just looking for hookups” to “it’s impossible to build something real online.” we talk red flags you might be ignoring (hello, group photos and love bombing) and the green flags that actually mat...

your past doesn’t define you, it shapes you. in this episode, i’m talking about how challenges, mistakes, and hard moments can actually build strength, perspective, and resilience. we’ll dive into why your experiences don’t determine your worth and how you can use them to shape the person you’re becoming. sharing your story isn’t about being a victim. it’s about owning your truth, embracing growth...

when people hear sports illustrated swimsuit, they usually think bikinis, glamour, and that old line, “it’s all about the male gaze.” but as i experienced firsthand, there’s so much more happening behind the bikini. it’s about empowerment, community, and showing up for yourself, often solo, while leaving with new friendships that last.i share what it was like to navigate the competition, grow past...

you know those moments when your brain goes full director, creating scenarios that never actually happened? yeah…welcome to the gossip games in your own head. in this episode, i’m talking about why we convince ourselves of things that aren’t true, how we overthink every word, and why tiny details suddenly feel like epic narratives. i share how to call yourself out before your imagination runs the...

don’t compare your chapter 2 to someone’s chapter 20 is a phrase i like to use when it comes to comparison. this episode is all about how easy it is to get caught up in comparing your progress to others, whether it’s career, creativity, or life in general. the person you’re eyeing has been grinding for years (or maybe you don’t even know how long) while you’re just getting started. comparison is e...

people love calling someone an “overnight success.” it sounds like a compliment, but it quietly erases the years of work no one saw. the late nights. the small wins. the quiet failures. the moments where quitting would have been easier. in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys, i’m pulling back the curtain on what success actually looks like. it’s rarely sudden. it’s built in privat...

you’ve heard it before. “you’re so high-maintenance.” but what if that’s not the insult people think it is? in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys, i’m flipping the script on the assumptions tied to being “too much,” “extra,” or “a lot.” from beauty routines to bold standards, from knowing exactly what you like to refusing to settle, i’m breaking down why high-maintenance isn’t a...

just because someone’s in your life doesn’t mean they get full access. in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys, i dive into boundaries, selective vulnerability, and what it really means to protect your peace. whether it’s coworkers, surface-level friends, or people who’ve outgrown your inner circle, this episode is all about taking inventory of who actually deserves to witness your...

you’ve heard it before: “that’s a red flag.” maybe it was a text that came too fast or too slow, a comment that felt off, or a moment that just didn’t sit right. but what if…it wasn’t a red flag at all? in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys, i take a step back and look at the labels we project onto people and situations, from dating to friendships to everyday life. maybe what loo...

let’s clear a few things up...like, first of all, what did you assume this podcast was about? in this episode, annie unpacks the meaning behind the podcast’s bold title, the weight assumptions carry in everyday life, and why clarity, not over-explaining, is the real power move. this episode is your invitation to question what you think you know about others, be intentional with your energy, and st...

🎙️ she’s probably talking to other guys — the podcast where assumptions, overthinking, and brutal honesty collide. hosted by me, annie from @thebananniediaries ✨ — i’m breaking down the messy, funny, and all-too-relatable assumptions we make about each other (and ourselves)…from now on, your assumptions make an a** out of you, definitely not me  from modern dating chaos to side-eye in the break r...