Hanging Out 4ever

Y'alllll!!  Right before we left for Europe for a month we recorded a podcast episode and it spun into a heated disagreement, a fight if you will, about us not getting engaged. It's was our 7 year anniversary and we were gonna be in Paris.  PARIS Y'ALL!!  So, of course Aja thought we were gonna engaged (because anniversay in paris + girl math = Duh, Engagement!) plus Grant was sendi...

In this episode We, Grant and Aja- locally known as GRAJA talk about the culture of modern dating and male vs female expectations that influence today's dating culture. So many things in the dating sphere have changed but some folks cannot seem to adjust. Male v Female dynamics are not the same as they were 50 years ago when the expectation for Men was to bring home the bacon and for Women, i...

In this episode we talk a little about our journey as a "happy couple" and how our time together has been a lot harder than we present and how our journey is being influenced and received by others through podcasting. We wanna make people like us feel less alone in their own relationship journeys, through the ups and downs. Remember: People on the internet only want to show you their hig...

Things had been a little rocky for us lately. A while ago, we recorded an unreleased episode that turned from a conversation into a huge argument. Watching that fight that gave us both a lot of perspective on how to listen to one another. Especially, Aja who learned a lot about her own arguments style and how thats influenced by her fears and insecurities. We're both finding ways to fight fai...

We posted a clip and our comments EXPLODED with people DRAGGGINGGGGGG US. Telling us to break up and for Grant to leave because "She'll do you like Jada did will." Or that Aja is toxic, selfish and for the streets. Some pretty intense stuff went on.  But it also gave us some perspective. So this episode is partially dedicated to our recent experience with the commenters on the inter...

We've already sent some people over the moon with the clips, so here's the official episode! After our first ep, which was extremely emotional, we needed a break to talk about something more lighthearted, a debate on keeping items from past crushes/relationships and sharing DM messages. Oh, and the times we almost d*ed. Issa storytime. Y'all should head to our IG and see some of the...

We need to go to therapy but this'll work for now. Anyway, in this episode we get into it. After almost 7 years together, we still have our make or break moments. Neither of us know if it ever gets easier. Overall, we're happy but have differing opinions on whether happiness and love are enough to keep us Hanging Out 4ever. Should we break up? Or should we keep trying? Comment Your Thoug...