Hanging Out 4ever

Wake up, go on your lunch break or get off the phone because new ‘Bestie Mail’ has been delivered 💌 ! and theres a BIG DILEMMA about pregnancy and childbirth that we NEED to talk about Theres a lot to unpack, grab a glass of wine, put on a robe and put on a facemask. We gotta help these people out.  Here what we jump into today: My Girlfriend Cheated on Me My Husband Doesnt Care if I  Die WIBTA i...

Hey Besties! In a previous episode we shared how breaking up saved our relationship and we got a TON of questions on the real reason we broke up, a lot of y'all were wondering about the "Why?" so in this episode we talk about what happened that made Aja break up with Grant. We get into, why we broke up, how jarring that was, Grants lack of confidence/self belief and how his self ima...

Wake up, go on your lunch break or get off the phone because new ‘Bestie Mail’ has been delivered 💌 ! And in this episode DL .  Y'all this one has us shaking in our boots, because WHAT DO YOU MEAN your ex boyfriend was DL and now his man wants to fight you?? Theres so many things to unpack, we need to find a therapist and sit on their couch because this one was a doozy 😭 Here what we jump i...

Why are we always fighting? Why is everything always a problem with you? Why can’t you just be happy? In this episode we get into conflict, resolution  and how to get to the other side of an argument with your partner.  Somebody has to be the one bringing up the hard topics and that’s not always easy, especially when you want things to work. Sometimes in relationships, we fight to be understood, h...

Wake up, go on your lunch break or get off the phone because new ‘Bestie Mail’ has been delivered 💌 ! And in this episode the men tell all .  We need to remember men are people with feelings and today they’ve stopped by to share. Bodyshaming, divorce and dead beat baby daddies- OH MY Put your counselor caps on because we’re gonna dive in, break these stories down and give some advice. Here what w...

Addiction but make it comedy!  This week we talked to the one and only Juicy Mawma, comedian, content creator and 3 years sober girly- about her journey through sobriety, what partying in LA looked like for her, doing coke, drinking, and the realization that the lifestyle she was living was affecting every area of her life, including the men she was choosing to date. If you are on a journey throug...

Listener Letters Besties, we've officially increased the Listener Letter episodes to twice a month, due to popular demand! We've got some dilemmas here that we need to address and they are certainly things that a lot of people go through.. Well, except for the last one, that one is pretty unique. As always, we get into it! But FR for real we actually need to talk about how society raises...

Have Grant and I ever thought of cheating on each other? And could he live without me? Over the last 30 days, we've gained a ton of new besties!! (Welcome in!!) so we figured that it would be cute and fun to do a lil couples quiz episode, so we can share more about us, our relationship, and some of the obstacles we went through to make it to nine years. So if you're new here, this will b...

Listener Letters WOOF, Besties — this one was rough. Some episodes we walk away from with a good chuckle and a lil bit of WTF energy, but this wasn't one of them. Monster-in-laws are everybody's nightmare, but these listener letters take it to a whole new and terrifying level. If there's one thing we learned, it's how normalized it is to treat women poorly and that, unfortunate...

OK besties, in this episode we're answering a long standing question that many of you have asked what does my family specifically my Dad think of me dating a white guy? So our special guest is none of them my Dad, Michael and I sit down with him and a one-on-one conversation. We get into everything from meeting Grant the first time, to his expectations of me dating, and on top of that I read...

If you've been with us for a while you'll know that Aja used to  not believe in marriage and was fine to just "hang out 4ever" with Grant. But apparently things have changed. They talk about they potential of getting married, the social pressure expected out of people who date long term and what marriage really means. Let's get into it Besties and as always, let us know yo...

Happy Sunday Bestie Babes! Welcome to the 'Ladies Lounge' a new mini series apart of the Hanging Out 4ever podcast with Aja where we keke, keep it real and talk everything about dating and dealing with men. Welcome to the first episode which is one of the first steps you should take in a relationship,  'How To Run a Strict Program with Your Man' Sit down, pour up, or clean your...

She's building most controversial product to ever come out of Harvard Business School and it all revolves around women, pleasure and orgasms 👀 Aja sat down with Morgan Hewett, founder of Devin Toys one of the first AI-powered sex tech companies in the world fully centered around women, and we get into what that actually means, how the Devin works and learns you and your body in real time and...

This episode was one we knew we had to have, and it was a long time coming. Grant opens up to Aja about the moments he realized he wasn't man enough for the relationship he wanted to have with her. From being emotionally passive, to struggling financially, to putting in the bare minimum, and almost losing Aja completely — Grant shares what the most difficult parts of growing up while being in...

Hey Besties! We’re keeping it light on this week’s episode… but trust us, the next few weeks are about to get heavy. So before we dive into all of that, we decided to switch it up and ask each other some very serious “Would You Rather” questions. And by serious, we mean the kind that lowkey reveal how you really think about love, loyalty, jealousy, boundaries, and SECRETS. Let's get into this...

Hey Besties! We sat down with pro-sex content creator Lady K to talk about how Women experience pleasure, shame, ego, submission, dominance, and what happens when a Woman stops centering men and starts centering herself in the bedroom. There’s this weird thing in society where Women are allowed to be sexualized but are made to feel that aren't actually allowed to enjoy sex, not allowed to wan...

You read that title right!  BUCKLE UP BESTIES WE'RE IN FOR A WILD RIDE!   As promised, we're back with another listener letter straight from our HO4 (Hanging Out 4ever, duh lol) community This episode feels like that one Wendy Williams shook meme and we have major whiplash. This might be our favorite episode to date, we let loose, get a lil crazy and read some even crazier stories. Here&...

OK BESTIES WE NEED TO HAVE A TALK.. The news of Kristy and Desmonds divorce is SHAKING the internet and we're here to clear the air and share the truth behind relationship content creators and the SIDE EFFECTS of MONETIZING your love life Grant goes off on a rant, we discuss gender dynamics in the influencer space and as always, KEEP IT REAL Comment Your Thoughts! Besties,  let us know what y...

Y'all know Aja is lowkey a crier. Her and her Mommy sit down in this episode to talk about Aja's childhood struggles with identity, self worth and depression. It's never easy talking about depression, let alone with your parents and even more so the entire world. Hopefully, this episode makes some of y'all feel seen and heard. People don't talk enough about what it's...

Ho, ho, ho Besties! Welcome to our very first Christmas Special. We've swapped out Grant and Aja for Mr. & Mrs. Claus, and we get into in this episode sharing HOT questions and even HOTTER takes. Have we been naughty or nice this year? Have YOU?  👀 👀 Comment Your Thoughts! Besties,  let us know what y'all think on this one! -Grant & Aja

WE'RE CELEBRATING HITTING 50K FOLLOWERS ON INTSTAGRAM!!!! We're honoring this milestone by reading listener letters from our Besties once again. This episode is truly a rollercoaster and not the kind you'd expect. Buckle up babies, we're going for a ride. Thanks to these besties for submitting their stories to us. Friendly Reminder: The last letter is truly vulnerable and deep,...

How do folks just be having kids, getting pregnant and acting all non-chalant about it? Grant and I are SUPER CHALANT. We're both nervous of becoming parents, and we're both terrified of the actual birthing process and changing our lifestyle to be more family/kid friendly. We get into everything from the dangers of pregnancy, to raising mixed kids and last but definitely not least– singl...

Ok, yall so some of you may know that back in March, Grant and I broke up because it felt like we couldn't get on the same page financially. But luckily we figured it out. In this EP we talk about dating as entrepreneurs and how money has played a major part in our relationship, our break up and us getting back together. In our 8+years together, we've definitely gone through it all but d...

Is jealousy always wrong in a relationship? If you meet a PG SD who wants to fund you and your man's lifestyle, are y'all entertaining it?  👀 After a few funerals, when do they become considered family functions? 😭 We get into all of it in this episode!! Let us know your thoughts in the comments, especially on the SD stuff, Aja's tryna see sumn 👀👀 Comment Your Thoughts! Besties,...

There’s something different about falling for your best friend-- but is it a good idea to date them? In this episode, we get into what makes dating your best friend so magnetic, and when comfort starts to blur the line between closeness and losing yourself. We also get honest about some of the red flags you might overlook in men and women in dating and friendships. nd what does it really mean when...