bycam

should i make amsterdam a stop on my nomad journey. a city and culture built with intention. let’s start being more intentional. a refreshing time and reassurance of my nomad experience.

with all these challenges -  i take a deep breath and realize that this is what I have asked for for the last year of my life. the nomad life

ive been having a hard time making those day to day decisions, with the fear that if i make one decision over the other, it’ll change what’s supposed to happen? when i say that out loud, it makes me realize whatever decision i make is meant to happen and i have to lean into that and be confident with that. 

i wanted to share the things i want to accomplish while i am here in boston. inside my journal. - to be confident in outfits, more confident in general about the decisions i am making. this will lead me to the true authentic person i am & lead to happiness, security of myself. - be bored to encourage creativity - finding the balance of a relationship (from a person not in a relationship) - enc...

documenting the thoughts in my head as I navigate nomad living—one city, one chapter, one bit of growth at a time. first stop: boston for the next few months

philly will always hold a special place in my heart but it is time to be a nomad.

it's been a while. season 3 - welcome back to bycam. to help myself and others navigate adulthood and the things no one talks about.

getting deep. warning lol opening up after a relationship can be scary. being vulnerable can be scary. being emotional can be scary but it is a great way to get to know yourself on a deeper level. i encourage you to open up to that someone and take a chance. scared of rejection scared of letting someone in. life is too short for that, go all in and challenge yourself.

updates on my life. its been about 4-5 months since i have published a podcast. no specific reason why i just didn't feel like sharing my business and honestly still don't but i thought it was important to up hold my commitment of this podcast and me. it helps me reflect understand myself and its fun. its a challenge. sharing some thoughts I've had and being happy with i am in life with always hav...

overwhelmed by thoughts overwhelmed by things overwhelmed by decsiiosns just overwhelmed. do you ever feel like you need the next chapter to start in your life but you just dont know what the next step is?? like should i move should i get a new job. im tired of my day to day i need a change. let's see what's next for bycam...

i love a good concert. the music, the performance, the deeper meaning of the songs, the artist, the person they are and all of it. concerts have always had a huge impact on me. music has always been something that i lean on in all parts of my life. go to a concert with your friend listen and feel the music.

talking with my sc about school, post grad, jobs, life, relationships and so much more

reminding yourself to celebrate something you wanted and now you have it and you dont celebrate it anymore. bring yourself back to the time where you hoped and prayed for this opportunity and how happy you were when you get there. also remember its okay to not want what you wanted 2 years ago now.

update on my life, highs and lows of life, friends, relationships, dating, all of it????

in a city with over 1.6 million people, how could you feel alone? it's easy people stay in their phones when walking the streets ot riding the bus. i challenge you to talk to one person when ride the bus (with caution haha) and i challenge you to smile at a person on the street or say hello and to have a good day. itll make you feel good. last challenge i give to you in join a club or do an activi...

be your true authentic self will help you align with where you should be in your life.  stop having regrets because those 'regrets' helped you get where you are today and maybe those things happened for a reason.  you do not have control over anything and i know i have talked about this before but just ride the wave and sit back and see where life takes you.

just be nice. easier said than done but challenge yourself to have empathy for others around you and kill it with kindness.  be the person that turns a bad day around for someone. understanding that everyone is going to through something and be mindful of it.

- put boundaries up with work, friends and everything. maintain those boundaries - dont put yourself in a position to have to be like 'claire why did i do that' - truly put yourself first and put yourself in the center - you can say no sometimes

making decisions can be extremely difficult when you think about all the down-steams it's going to effect but why complicate things. just trust yourself and make the decisions purely on what you think is best. step back and think about those things for yourself, what will make you happiest? if you don't know maybe its not time for you to be making those decisions.

have you been wanting to do that one thing but no one will do it with you or its too hard to plan it? i've been wanting to go to a bagel shop for such a long time bt it was like i was waiting for someone to come with me...why? cause its better to have a friend to do things with? i mean yes but also why couldn't i go to this bagel shop alone and make a little morning out of it. hang with yourself a...

starting your morning right.

living a more minimalist lifestyle encourages you be more intentional when buying things. it helps you appreciate the things you have which adds ore value to you your things and your life. think about it next time you are buying something that you like but you also have thoughts of you dont really need it. 

with so many people out there sharing their everyday its very hard not to compare yourself what you're doing or not doing with the people on social media. social media has created a perfect environment for people to mostly share the highlights are their lives. at the end of the day everyone has their bad days, their dark thoughts and struggles. we are all human

why hang with people that make you feel like shit. surround yourself around people that make you feel good, support you, love you and most importantly challenge you even if it is annoying. you will learn so much about yourself, others, and life in general.

its that time of year!! what do you get your secret santa, family or friends? i hopefully have you covered and hope this is helpful.