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i also recorded this a couple months ago. but this is still extremely relevant and another great reminder. the low moments i am experiencing right now...ill look back at these and agree they were lows in the moment but i will look back and be like my girl all is well. & hey, i got through it, strived to tell the story and will continue to build those experiences. will it get easier? maybe?

here i go again. moving to a new city, even though i was here for 2 months 3 months ago...i still have to re-do and jump back into the things i love here. the things that bring me peace? the gym, coffee shops, the beach, hanging with my friends but also giving myself time and grace to settle, to nest into my new apartment, have days and nights where i have no plans and embrace that. but all i have...

things ive learned when moving to a city, what do to, how to find friends, how to find your third space and find that community you are yearning for.

to talk to strangers like they are your friends. i highly recommend making life more fun.

initial thoughts, a little unsettling, a little bit overwhelmed but overall feeling excited.

online dating, dating in the wild, dating in general. a chat with my mama on my thoughts on dating, her thoughts & a partly, not even close conclusion on dating.

oh what booking an airbnb in a random city for a month can do.

go on a date with yourself, it rocks.

a reflection on the first week in a new city - feeling ungrounded, unfamiliar, and deeply inside my own mind as i learn how to settle into a place that isn’t home yet.

the apps. dating apps or friend dating apps? dating in 2026, good lord.

To have Charisma creating a feeling, to be known by you

first stop in this nomad journey, boston for 3 months. did i like it, love it, will i move there, will i end up there? who knows

take yourself on a damn date & try not to be on your phone. be aware of your surroundings and people watch. you wont regret it.

when leaving in philly i always wanted to go to dinner or go out on the town by myself. just another way to show myself i can lean on myself and not have to wait for someone to do something with & i actually really enjoyed it. it was the perfect event and something CLAIRE wanted to do. enjoy.

i wanted to prove to myself that those low feelings will also pass and look at that i was right.

should i make amsterdam a stop on my nomad journey. a city and culture built with intention. let’s start being more intentional. a refreshing time and reassurance of my nomad experience.

with all these challenges -  i take a deep breath and realize that this is what I have asked for for the last year of my life. the nomad life

ive been having a hard time making those day to day decisions, with the fear that if i make one decision over the other, it’ll change what’s supposed to happen? when i say that out loud, it makes me realize whatever decision i make is meant to happen and i have to lean into that and be confident with that. 

i wanted to share the things i want to accomplish while i am here in boston. inside my journal. - to be confident in outfits, more confident in general about the decisions i am making. this will lead me to the true authentic person i am & lead to happiness, security of myself. - be bored to encourage creativity - finding the balance of a relationship (from a person not in a relationship) - enc...

documenting the thoughts in my head as I navigate nomad living—one city, one chapter, one bit of growth at a time. first stop: boston for the next few months

philly will always hold a special place in my heart but it is time to be a nomad.

it's been a while. season 3 - welcome back to bycam. to help myself and others navigate adulthood and the things no one talks about.

getting deep. warning lol opening up after a relationship can be scary. being vulnerable can be scary. being emotional can be scary but it is a great way to get to know yourself on a deeper level. i encourage you to open up to that someone and take a chance. scared of rejection scared of letting someone in. life is too short for that, go all in and challenge yourself.

updates on my life. its been about 4-5 months since i have published a podcast. no specific reason why i just didn't feel like sharing my business and honestly still don't but i thought it was important to up hold my commitment of this podcast and me. it helps me reflect understand myself and its fun. its a challenge. sharing some thoughts I've had and being happy with i am in life with always hav...

overwhelmed by thoughts overwhelmed by things overwhelmed by decsiiosns just overwhelmed. do you ever feel like you need the next chapter to start in your life but you just dont know what the next step is?? like should i move should i get a new job. im tired of my day to day i need a change. let's see what's next for bycam...